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I've been going out with this guy for a couple of weeks, but I've known him for a really long time. He plays bass, he skateboards, and he's 14.I don't know what to get him for Christmas, any idea's?
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Hey hun!
You could get him any cd's he might want, movies he likes, video games, money, cologne, a hat or some other type of clothing, gift certificates to his favorite stores, or some type of jewelry like a watch or something. If I were you I'd make him a christmas card if you can draw pretty good. He'd probably like that since it's coming from the heart. You could also just fill a stocking with his favorite candy, or write a really nice poem for him. Or just write him a long letter, and give him a picture of just you or both of you guys together and put it in a frame. Also bake him some gingerbread cookies! Those are good, he might like em! I hope I helped you out hun! Luv ya! If you have anymore questions, leave them in my inbox. Let me know what you decide to get him. Merry Christmas!
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Ok there is a boy who I have like the hugest crush on. But sometimes he can be so mean then I think "I hate him". Then the next day I'll like him. But most of the time he is nice. Now I think he likes me a little but how do I find out or not thats the thing? :( Please help me! (link)
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Hey hun!
I think you should talk to him and just ask him how he feels about you. You could just IM him, email him, call him, or write him a note. The worst he'd say is no. Just come right out and ask him if he'd ever consider being more than friends with you. I'm sure he'd give you an honest answer. I'm actually the exact same way with my really good friend right now. At certain times he can be very nice, and then at other times he really hurts my feelings. I found out he actually does like me because he told me himself when I asked him. If you want to find out if this kid really likes you, just pay attention to the things he does. If he smiles at you a lot, winks, says hi all the time, wants to hang out with you, ask's what's wrong when your not feeling good, tries to impress you, teases you a little bit and jokes around with you, or just does little things for you out of generosity then he probably does like you. He doesn't have to do all of these things though. I hope I helped you out hun! If not I'm really sorry. Luv ya! If you have anymore questions, leave them in my inbox. Good luck with this. Let me know how it goes.
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okay so im f.16 and there is this guy at school. we had a class together last year and one this year, so far. and everytime i see him he stares at me we make eye contact and he never looks away. we have never talked. i was just wondering if he likes me or something or if he just stares at all people..? thanks! (link)
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Hey hun!
I think there's a chance that he might like you. If you really want to find out, you should write him a note or something. You could also just stop him in the hallway one day and start talking to him. If your not sure, just try to notice if he stares at everyone else like he stares at you. You could also look for any other signs that he might like you. He might just say hi to you, smile at you, wink at you, or even try to impress you with something he does. I don't think he would just stare at you for no reason at all. If you like him, then just write him a note and ask him how he feels about you. You could maybe ask him if he wants to hang out sometime and go to a movie, walk around in the mall, or just go over his house or have him go over yours. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm sorry. Luv ya! If you have anymore questions, leave them in my inbox. Let me know how this goes.
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Okay Christmas 8 days away
i have this boyfriend his name is Jeremy and the thing is i havent got him anything for christmas yet im spending christmas with him and his family please help me nothing to expensive but nothing to cheap please help i rate 5's for good answers (american eagle, abercrombie and fitch, no problem)
if this helps we've been datin 5 months the 26th of December (link)
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Hey hun!
I think you should definitely make him a christmas card if you can draw pretty good. He'd probably love that since you'd be making it yourself so it's coming from the heart. You could also buy him some cologne if you want, movies he might want, cd's he might want, some type of jewelry, write him a poem telling him how much he means to you, give him a picture of just you or both of you guys together and put it in a frame,money, or you could just buy him a video game that he really wants. If you have any stockings, you could fill it with his favorite candy. A stuffed animal would be nice too, if he's the type of person that would like that. Bake him some gingerbread cookies or something!!!! Those are yummy. If you want to you can just write him a long note telling him how you feel about him, and you could decorate it with pictures and some drawings maybe. Let him know that you hope you guys stay together for a loooong time. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm sorry. Luv ya! If you have anymore questions, leave them in my inbox. Merry Christmas!! Let me know what you decide to get him.
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yeah so me and my boyfriend have been goin out for almost 2 months and hes gittin me a christmas present but unfortunately i dont have any oney so i cant buy him anything but i wanna make him sumthin. i was thinkin brownies. is this a good idea and if not then wut are some good ideas? (link)
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Hey hun!
I think you should make a christmas card for him if you can draw pretty good. I'm sure he'd like that a lot since you'd be making it yourself and it's coming from the heart. You could also write him a cute poem, and maybe put it in a frame or something if you have one. If you have any stockings at your house, you could put some things in there that remind you of him, pictures of you, his favorite candy, a cd you made for him, or you could just write reasons down listing why you like him so much and why he's special to you. Bake him some gingerbread cookies!!!! Those are good. I hope I helped you out! If not I'm sorry. Luv ya! If you have anymore questions, leave them in my inbox. Let me know what you decide to do.
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My friend Nicole likes the same kid I like. We are all the same age. In school she flirts with him and he flirts back, but he flirts with me and I flirt back too. Nicole is one of my good friends. But I really like this guy..what do I do :-/ (link)
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Hey hun!
I think you should sit down and have a talk with your friend. You guys should both agree to not go out with this guy if he ever asked either one of you out. Your friendship with this girl should be a lot more important than going out with this guy. Friendships will always last most of the time, but relationships with a guy will not. If you happened to go out with him your friend would probably be very pissed off, and it would definitely ruin your friendship. Since you like him so much, you could talk to your friend about it, and just explain that you really would like to go out with him. That'd be better than her finding out later on down the road that you guys are going out, and you didn't even ask her for permission(if you happened to go out with him). You need to just think about whether you want to keep your friendship with this girl you have right now, or take a chance at ruining it to go out with this guy(which won't last most likely). I hope I helped you out hun! If not I'm really sorry. If you have anymore questions, leave them in my inbox. Luv ya! Let me know how this goes.
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Okay so I've been dating my boyfriend for about 3 months and I'm trying to figure out what I want to get him for Christmas. I've gone to the mall with him a few times and have seen things he wanted to get, but when I say, "Oh maybe I'll get you that for Christmas" he says, "No, I can buy that for myself" (since he has a great job). So what's a gift I could get that would set itself apart from other things? I mean, I want to get him something special but I can't think of anything that can't be bought at a mall.
Please Help!
P.S. I've already made him dinner once, so I don't want to repeat that so soon. (link)
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Hey hun!
I think you should get him any video games that he likes, any movies he likes, some type of cologne he might wear, clothes, money, you can write him a poem telling him how much he means to you and how your glad you guys are going out, you can write him a letter, you can give him a picture of yourself and make your own frame for it that you can put it in, you can get him any jewelry he might like, or you can also get him some cd's. If I were you I would definitely make him a Christmas card though. He would probably love that since you made it yourself, and didn't go out to buy one. You can also bake him some Christmas cookies! That'd be a good idea! Alright, I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm really sorry. I don't know what sort of things your boyfriend likes. Let me know what you decide to get him! Luv ya! If you have anymore questions, just leave them in my inbox.
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okay you answered my question before just so you remember heres the problem:
okay..i like the same guy as my best friend so i want to get over him
well now i have a BIGGER problem...he likes me back and now i feel SOOOOOOOO bad!!!!! please help!
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Hey sweetie!
I'm sorry! That's horrible! I remember answering your question before. All you have to do is let this guy know that you like him, and so does your best friend, and that you can't go out with him at all. You need to be completely honest with him. Just let him know that you wanna stay really good friends with him, and you don't wanna ruin your friendship with your best friend by going out with him. I'm sure he'll understand. You should sit down with both of them if you'd like and talk to them about this. There's nothing wrong with just being friends with him. I'm sure you'd love to have a boyfriend, but that would be horrible if you lost your best friend in the process. I'm sure this guy will be really sweet and understand. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm so sorry. Luv ya!!!! If you have anymore questions, please leave them in my inbox. You can always IM me if you wanna talk on KxIxMxMxY51890. Good luck with this! Let me know how it goes okay? You don't have to feel bad about letting this guy down. Just be honest with him, and tell him in a very nice way. Explain it to him. Luv ya sweetie!
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my boyfriends bestfriend and i was hanging out yeaterday, and my boyfriend does not even know and i want to keep it that way any ways we were flirting all day and i know it's really wrong to and he does too but when we flirt it's like we're donig the right thing but it's wrong. im going to hang out with him again and i wondering would i be wrong if i break up with him on his birthday and flirt with his best friend (link)
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Hey hun!
I don't think you should break up with him on his birthday. He'd hate that, it'd make him really upset. If your going to break up with him, just do it before his birthday if you can at all, or after his birthday. You wanna be able to stay friends with him right? If you broke up with him on his birthday, he most likely wouldn't wanna talk to you anymore. Wait a while to break up with him, and when you do be completely honest with him. It should be alright. As for flirting with his best friend, you shouldn't really do that until you break up with your boyfriend. If your boyfriend saw you two flirting, that'd get him very pissed since that is his best friend. Everyone flirts though, so if you'd like to go ahead!!!! It should be okay to do that. Just don't flirt with him in front of your boyfriend right now. Alright, I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm really sorry. Luv ya! If you have anymore questions, leave them in my inbox.
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Alright I like this kid so much, and I'm ready to ask him out. I want to ask him out, but I don't really know how. I mean, I just don't know exactly what to say to him. What are some ways that I can ask him without sounding corny or cliche? Easy 5's.
14/f if that helps. (link)
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Hey hun!
That is really cute! I think you need to just explain to him that you like him a lot, and your wondering if he feels the same way about you. Tell him that if he doesn't feel the same way about you, you hope to stay friends with him. Maybe ask him to hang out with you sometime at the mall, or you guys could go to a movie, or you guys can just hang out at each others houses. If you wanna ask him in a cute way, you could just write him a really long letter to get all your feelings out on paper, or write him a poem and at the end of it ask him out. It depends on what you wanna do. I'm sure he might like something creative like that. I'm sorry, my ideas probably suck. If you want, you could also give him a pic of yourself, and just write something cute on the back of it like"I really like you a lot, will you go out with me?" If he doesn't feel the same way about you the worst he'll say is no. It'd be okay, because there's lots of guys in this world. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm really sorry. Luv ya hun! Good luck with this!!!! Let me know how it goes okay? I'm sure you'll do fine! If you have any other questions, just leave them in my inbox.
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I am MADLY in love with this guy that could, well, basically care less about me. I told him i liked him and we have talked since then but he hasnt taken any moves forward. He is EVERYTHING i am NOT...he cusses ALL the TIME, is loud, rude and is a BIT too physical...(he plays football so i give him a bit of a break)...but when we are together in front of my friends or his friends he puts his arm around me and talks like nothin is wrong...I REALLY like this guy....I would DO almost ANYTHING for him....what im wonderin is..Is he worth it......or should I move on? Ive cried myslef to sleep over this guy...so he means a lot to me....I RATE HIGH FOR GOOD ADVICE!!
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Hey hun,
I really think he isn't worth it. If he was interested, he probably would've moved forward with things already. Since he cusses all the time, is loud, rude, and too physical, he probably wouldn't treat you so good. It wouldn't be so fun to hang out with him. Also, you've cried over him and that's not good at all. This guy should not be making you cry. He's really not worth it hun! You can find someone so much better than him!!!! It's up to you though! *Any guy who is worth your tears would never make you cry* Remember that!!!! I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm really sorry. If you have anymore questions, just leave them in my inbox. Luv ya! Let me know what you decide to do.
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I like one of my best guy friends. His name is Justin. We became friends in the 7th grade and have been friends ever since. His ex keeps telling me that we should go out. I know he likes me and he knows I like him. I want him to be my bf really bad. We flirt all the time.Sometimes a little to much. I want to know if I should make the first move or wait for him. Please help me. (link)
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Hey hun!
Awww! This is a really cute question! I think it's great that you two like each other so much. If I were you, I would make the first move, because a lot of guys like that when a girl makes the first move. It's not always up to the guys to make the first move, and a lot of girls think it is. It's all up to you though. If you wouldn't feel comfortable making the first move, then I would suggest waiting until he does. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm so sorry. If you have any other questions, just leave them in my inbox. Luv ya! Good luck with this! Let me know how it goes.
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i have a friend who ive known for 2 years, we've dated on and off through out those two years, i love him too... which is why i need to get something special for him, does anyone have any cool ideas, cuz i cant think of anything, i can spend up to like $70 maybe a little more, but not a lot
**Thank you to anyone who gives me ideas**
*it needs to be really special too*
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Hey hun!
Awww! This is such a sweet question! I don't really know what type of things your ex likes, but if I were you I would definitely bake a cake for him, and make a card for him! I bet he would love that, because he would know he's very special to you since you made it yourself and didn't actually go out to buy the card and cake. If he likes sports, you could get him something that has to do with that. Maybe get him some balloons, write him a poem, write him a letter, or if he likes any certain types of cologne you can buy him that.(that's what I want to buy for my really close friend that's a guy)You could also buy him a video game if he likes playing games, a watch, any movies that he likes a lot, or give him a picture of yourself and put it in a frame. You could write a little note on the back of it. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm really sorry! Luv ya! If you have anymore questions, please leave them in my inbox. That question was so sweet! Good luck with that! Let me know what you end up getting for him.
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Well I'm 16 turning 17 in less than two weeks. I had been dating this guy for almost 4 months, and our anniversary was coming up in less than a week. I had already made plans with him and his family for Thanksgiving and me and him were doing amazingly well. Then about one week and a half before prom he started blowing me off to hang with his friends all the time, and he kept lying to me. I was afraid he might be cheating and because of the immature way he was acting we started fighting alot. Then came prom night. We were dancing, laughing, having a good time, and he kept telling me how much he loved me. Then after prom he told me to go straight home because he was staying at his "friend's" house, whom had a 16 year old slut of a sister, and she kept eyeing my bf at prom, and not paying attention to her date at all. Well I didn't want him to go, because he promised to hang out with me after prom, but I had to go so I did. All that night I cried myself to sleep and when I woke up he finally called me. I came over and he was upstairs on his bed crying. I came over and asked what was wrong and he said he was "just thinking". Finally he spit it out. He said he needed space and wanted to take a break because his schooling was bad, us fighting was stressing him out, and the fact that I wouldn't let go of some of the mistakes he made in the past. I have this awful feeling he cheated and it hurts so bad to think that he would do that. His whole family is pissed at him because of this and I don't know what to do. I can't stop crying because I feel so betrayed and hurt. I'm afraid that if he comes crying back to me that I will take him back. It's so hard to see myself without him and actually feel happy, because we hung out so much, and I got so close to him and his family. He's like no other bf I have ever had, and it hurts so bad to let him go, even though I know I have to and it will be better in the end. Can someone please tell me anyway that I can stay strong, stop crying, and get over this guy, because I cannot take all the pain he has out me through, and I know I deserve better. I feel that he is stringing me along and it hurts so bad to feel like that. Someone help please. (link)
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Hey hun,
I'm so sorry! That's horrible! I think to get over this guy, you need to occupy yourself with some fun things to do. Even though your probably not in the mood to do anything fun, it'll keep your mind off of him. If he was a real guy, he would not have made you cry. You do deserve so0o0o much better than that, and someday you'll find a very sweet guy who won't break your heart. In the meantime just go shopping at the mall, go see movies, hang out with really close friends, read, take walks around the block, go out to eat with your family, paint your nails, go on the internet, and maybe start a new hobby. You should also surround yourself with people who have always been there for you, because they'd be able to make you feel so much better. You could talk to them about this, and you'd feel a whole lot better just by getting all of this out. It's not good to keep it in. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm so sorry. You deserve better than this, you really do. Don't cry over this guy anymore. Forget about him! He's not worth it. Luv ya! If you have anymore questions, just leave them in my inbox. *Any guy who is worth your tears would never make you cry*
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ok so i really like this girl how do i impress her?cause i asked er out already but she never gave me a straight answer and she's still thinkin so yeah answer (link)
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Hey sweetie,
I think you should just show her how sweet you can be. Show her that your not going to break her heart. Do nice things for her. If she knows that your a really sweet guy, she'll most likely wanna go out with you. It's so hard to find a sweet guy nowadays. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm sorry. Luv ya! If you have anymore questions, leave them in my inbox.
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i dont know what to do!!!!!!!!!!! i think i like the same guy that my best friend likes...me and this guy have been friends for a long time and my best friend has liked this guy for a while too...i dont know what to do cuz i want to get over him cuz of my friend!! please help!!!! (link)
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Hey sweetie,
This is a really great question. It shows that you have a great relationship with your friend, and you don't want to lose your friendship with her by going out with this guy. To get over him, you should just occupy yourself with a lot of fun things to do. Go shopping, hang out with friends, play games, go on the internet, go to a movie, take walks around the block, and just keep telling yourself that this guy is off limits to you. Eventually you'll meet a really sweet guy who you'll be able to go out with. I think your an awesome friend for wanting to get over this guy, instead of going out with him. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm really sorry. Good luck with this! If you have anymore questions, just leave them in my inbox. Luv ya!
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i really like this guy ...and its not like he doesnt know i excist we talk alot but he doesnt think of me in "that" way at all ...he goes for a different type that just is not me ..i dont know if i should change for him or let it go because i am just wasting my time. And hes kinda a bad boy so im not so sure he could hold a girlfriend even if i got the chance ...what do you think .. help me out please ?
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Hey hun!
Please do not change yourself for this guy. You should never change anything about yourself just to get a guy to like you. If this guy doesn't like you the way you are, then he's definitely not worth your time. I'm sure you could find someone so much better, who will like you just the way you are, and not make you feel like you have to change your appearance. The personality is what counts :) I'm sure you'll find a great guy someday!! Plus you said he's a bad boy, so he'd probably end up breaking your heart, and we don't want that. That wouldn't be so good! You seem really nice, and no girl deserves to have her heart broken by a guy. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm sorry! Luv ya! If you have anymore questions, just leave them in my inbox.
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Alright i have a boyfriend and we have been dating for a week.. and I thought i loved him so much and now i dont even know! he is the first guy that has treated me ok! but i feel like hes goin to fast and Now i just dont know if i love him or if i even wana be with him! I DONT KNOW WHATS WRONG! when Im with him i feel good but i feel weird! and like i feel like he is moving to fast and now I am thinkin should i break up with him? but then he wont talk to me! and he doesnt live in my city he lives like 30 mins away.. and now im noticing how many guys in my city i could get! that are real sweathearts! but i wont cheat on anyone cause im not like that! The thing is i made my boyfriend promises that i wouldnt break up with him cause i thought i loved him! and now i dont even know if i wana be with him right now! I promised him I wouldnt ever break up with him. and he said well other girls that said that broke up with me the next week. I mean i totaly like him alot but i am so confused! and he likes me so so much i dont wana hurt him! HE IS GREAT!
what do i dooooo!? (link)
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Hey hun,
If you don't even know if you wanna be with him, then I think you should break up with him. It's not fair for him if he likes you a lot, and your not sure about your feelings for him. Just let him know you don't have feelings for him anymore. Plus, if he's moving too fast for you, he's not a great boyfriend at all. If he had any respect for you, he would not move too fast for you. Any real guy would take things slow. Plus, it's really hard to try and make long distance relationships work. If there are a lot of guys in your city that you can get, then maybe you should stick with the guys in your area. It'd be a lot easier for you with the whole distance thing. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm really sorry. Luv ya! If you have anymore questions, just leave them in my inbox. Good luck with this! Let me know how it goes. Your boyfriend should understand if you choose not to stay with him. If you don't stay with him, make sure you tell him that you hope to stay friends.
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okay i like this guy lets call him bob so at lunch my friend told me that she likes him too and then i was fine with it but then in 7th hour this girl that i CAN NOT stand told me that she likes him also and i was soo madd i like this bob alotttt BUT i also have a boyfriend we've been going out for 7 months but i really like bob and so do alot of others apperantly what should i do (link)
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Hey hun!
You should not break up with your boyfriend for Bob. You've been going out with your boyfriend for 7 months! That's a long time! If a lot of girls like Bob like you said, then you might not even have a chance with him. You shouldn't just break up with your boyfriend to try to go out with Bob, because you might not end up going out with Bob. Then you'd be stuck with no boyfriend :( That'd be horrible. Please stay with your boyfriend. You'll be a lot happier if you just stay with him. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm really sorry. Luv ya! If you have anymore questions, leave them in my inbox.
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Okay, so. I have a huge problem that I need serious help with. Okay. So me and my boyfriend are crazy about eachother. Like, for the first time in my life I could honestly say that I am IN love with him. And I know that may sound like shit because I'm not older or anything but I don't think age means a thing. (I'm 14. He's about to turn 16.) So anyways. His mom totally like, hates me or something. But that's beside the point. So he got grounded for getting a horrible grade in Trigonometry. But it wasn't exactly his fault because I mean c'mon it's Trigonometry and he's only 15 and he had come in half-way during the semester and had to make up all that stuff he missed. So anyways, he got a 37 in that class. And he got grounded. At first it was only until progress reports so I didn't think it was all that bad. But I just found out last night that he's grounded until January 12th. Meaning he can talk to me on the phone all he wants, but he can't see me. At all. So. I'm gonna go absolutely insane until then. But by January 12th he'll have his car and he'll be able to see me a lot. So is it worth it to wait? Keep in mind, I truely am head over heels in love with him.
Pleasseee give me some advice. Please. I'm desperate (link)
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Hey hun!!
I really think that it's worth the wait. You seem like your in a very great relationship, and you shouldn't ruin that just because he's grounded right now. Until you can see him again just talk to him a whole lot, and try to do some things to occupy yourself. You'll get your mind off of him for a while, and you won't go insane. You shouldn't worry, because January will be here in no time. Stay with him!!!! I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm sorry. Luv ya! If you have anymore questions, leave them in my inbox. I'm really sorry your boyfriend is grounded.
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