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sillyrob
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Okay... there is this guy who goes to my school and we were talking online and i know he liked me because he asked me if we wanted to hang out and we even made plans and he seemed realllly excited. but then he messaged me this morning and was like sorry this isnt going to work its just going to be too awkward im sorry to lead you on. (weve never hung out in person before)
I know my ex bf left me a comment that was kinna angry because he knew about this new guy. So that may have added to him sending me this message. But like he just seemed SO excited about hanging out and i KNOW he liked me. I told him i agree and I could see myself liking him but it might be too soon. And he said we should be friends for now.
The friends for NOW still gave me hope.. but im just really confused. Im thinking he may have just like freaked out or something. Ahh what you you guys think? Thanks soo much. (link)
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guys sometimes do act upon instinct. they will make plans without thinking and then realize that they actually did have something else to do with the family or something. my brother is exactly like that.
does this new guy know your old bf? maybe he felt he would be betraying him by hanging out with you. just make it clear to him that you just want to be friends. If you send that vibe out first, he won't feel bad and you may evolve into more!
Good Luck!!!
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i like this kid a lot and whenever we talk it's interesting and he's really open and sweet and i know he's been hurt in a relationship before. now he doesn't really want a relationship because of the history with his last one but i still want to talk to him and get to know him and for him to get to know me but i've run out of conversation starters and topics in general. we're in 2 classes together but talking about school never starts a deep conversation.
he doesn't do sports so don't say that please. like i said he's really open about stuff when we talk but it's hard to find topics that he'd be interested in talking about. also i don't want to talk to him in the way that he'd think of me as "one of the guys" or just a friend because eventually after he gets over this no relationships, lets be single thing i'd really really really REALLY like to go out with him. i've liked many guys before but this is the first guy in 2 years that i've gotten butterflies over when i think about him so i really need help. (link)
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i suppose you should talk to him about nargles. you know, they are really blooming in the world today and although it does freak some people out, we need to do something about it..
ok im totally kidding
ummmAys
well i usually talk to guys about what they did that day that was interesting. like get his # and talk to him about stuff that happened in your day. this guy i like and i keep this list on our computers or notebooks of random things that came into our minds that day and then we talk about them on the phone. it may not seem like the most interesting of things to do, but it really works, and you will look forward to his call each day!
and he will so not look at you as "one of the guys"
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Okay, i know this is going to sound really comceted, but theres this guy in my school, who really likes me! But i dont like him, and he follows me everywhere, and keeps asking me on dates and stuff, and me being a softie, make up an excuse! Then he asks again and again! But i really don t like him, and all my friends say that im all he talks about, and that he likes me! Hes always coming to my locker to hug me, and puts his arm around me, and i like this other guy and the other guy thinks that i like him and i DONT! its really frustrating! I need advice!
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don't lie to him any longer. if he is flirting with you, just be like "ahaha your so funny" but then say "you know we are just frends rite?" keep it casual.
your sitch reminds me of icarly (lol dont diss) because she kisses freddy on the nose and it makes jake think that she likes freddy and not him so he getss back together with his ex, if that makes sense at all.
don't let this guy take advantage of you. tell him to get his arm off you right now or you will never speak again.
the guy you like sounds kinda emo. good lick ;)!
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Hello I've got a story. Well, I was with this guy for 4 months, then we had to break up because of his parents,(they didn't like the fact that i was 13, 14 now, but he was 17) and so..we broke up. A month after, we got back together, he told me "I don't care what my parents say." so it was a month there, then broke up because of this girl. She didn't know we was going out, and she randomly brought up that he was all over this girl. So finally, I told her we was going out, and my boyfriend didn't want me to..so see I'm confused, he said "she starts stuff." and now I see that she does, but I know he would NEVER cheat on me, he even told it to my face, but when we when out the 2nd time, he never had time to call me, cause he was so busy with school, work, football, ect.
So what do I do? I want him back, but I don't know if I should ask him or not..I asked him the first time, but we kinda both agreed. But the girl that knows we broke up..wants me to go with this one guy, but I'm still in love with my ex..it's so hard to talk tohim now, and he just says "ttyl, bye" and not I love you.
But this new guy, we talk everyday on the phone for hours, and makes me smile, laugh. The sad thing is, me and my ex never had anything to talk about..even tho it was 4 months, we just had nothing. But now I'm not so shy and I have things talk about. I mean, we talked, but just not like me and this new guy talk, but now it'll be different.
So what do I do? Go with this new guy? P.s., he likes me! So yeah.. Think I should give him a chance?
Sorry this was long, I'm just so confused. (link)
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so, contrary to your long question,ill give a short answer. i think you should go out with this new guy. see where it takes you. you dont like it? you can always break up. ah,the beauty of freedom. try to stop thinking so much about this old dude. he likes you, great. he doesnt, thats his problem.
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well i liked my friend for like the longest time now. we dont go to the same school anymore but hopefully ill go to school with him next year. the thing is i saw him yesterday and its like i didnt like him anymore. that should be a good thing because we cant be more that friends but at the same time it kinda hurts me. its just that without my feelings for him i feel empty. he was the one that kept me going and taught me so much about myself and now i feel like i lost that. we're still friends and all but i cant control these feelings and i wish that there was someone i could trust but i cant... (link)
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so i read this over a few times. i think you two need to reconnect a bit. make up for lost times. you guys could do something chill at first like invite him over and just watch a movie with some other friends so your not pressured to talk. but start doing more things with him around. if there is a dance coming up, ask him to go as friends and see where it takes you.
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I really like this girl. I talk to her a lot and I know she doesnt like me. I kind of tolds her and then said it was my sister. She is a really nice person and I just want her to like me. Can anyone please help me out. I am 13/m and I want someone to like me. Especially this girl. If anyone is a romantic genius please answer. (link)
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If you know she doesn't like you for sure, then why are you still after her. I suggest talking to other girls, getting to know them now so you can broaden your horizons. Don't totally rule out the girl you like a lot, but don't let a crush rule your love life. Go out with someone new and if it doesn't work out, move on.
There are plenty of fishies in the sea =D
hope i helped =^)
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okay, i'm looking for a DEAD honest answer. and i promise i will rate you really high if you do truly give me your honest answer & back it up.
i have a guyfriend, 'z' & i just got his sn like yesterday and we started talking last night. i guess you could say we're 'friends.' but i'm not really sure. def. not close enough for me to tell him who i like. well, i really want my crush (s) 's sn. well 's' i'm pretty sure likes me, but i can't just ask 's' straight up what his sn is. so i was thinking of maybe 'z' could put me a chatroom with him. but idk if i can trust 'z' enough. should i just ask, 'hey, z, do you have s's screen name?" wouldn't that be super awkward? wouldn't 'z' know that i like 's'?
please help! & don't just say, "JUST ASK HIM! WHAT COULD HURT?" tell me WHY i should ask 'z' what s's sn is. (link)
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u should not only ask him for "s"'s sn but sum other people too so it doesn't seem suspicious. thats what i'd do...
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