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Not much to say today. I only know I should be getting to bed because it's late. Oh snap. Here comes another calender day.
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i need help.......
there is this boy i rely like in my school. im seriously obsessed with himm.....at first when he asked me out and like i rely didnt want to go out wif himm at first but than i relly started to like himm than he dumped me. and we ended up going out lik 6 different times and he dumped me all the times and i relyy lik him n he says he wasnts to be my friend but w.e im around him hes always rude to meee n lik i havent gone out wif ne 1 else cuz i like him sooo much
what should I do???
ps srry if this was to long
Get a man. He treats you like dirt, and you don't need that. He is just a waste, and you should move on.
Im a 13 year old girl. I really like this guy but the only problem is that hes kinda popular and im scared that it would be embarassing if i asked him out and he turned me down. Can you tell me what i should do? Should i flirt with him...or not?
Ignore squeaky and spike. =/ Anyway, you should be friends with him first, and if you still like him, flirt...or just flirt.
Agh... I'm so agitated and confused and depressed at the same time I can barely type this...! Anyways... my gf and I have been going out for about 10 days. My friends and I and her hang out all the time. Well it started last night. My friend was just joking around and he said "I'm like a star in the sky!" (Yeah we're pretty weird sometimes.) And my gf said "If you are then I will love you haha" and this kind of got me down, even though she said she was just kidding. Also, the same day, my friend was just like "My butt hurts." Then she says "Haha let me check that out for you then", and she touched it lightly... In a joking way, but it still didn't feel right.Another thing is, today, when my friend and I were walking towards her, she was like "Hey (friends name)!" And I was thinking to myself... "Eh? :( She didn't even say hi to me..." But... my gf said that she is crazy about me and she really loves me and everything like that, and she said that like the 7th night we were going out... but on msn. =\ Anyways, my question is, does she still like me? Or could she be liking my friend, and not me? I mean, she says she's worried that I will like another girl and dump her in the near future, and she also says that she's afraid to get hurt again, so maybe she will hurt me, and everything will be fine for her? I don't know, but we still held hands and hugged and all the normal stuff we do like that, but it still made me sad... please help... and thanks for reading...
You shouldn't be with her. She doesn't want to get hurt, so why should you? Just tell her that even if she says she loves you like crazy, it still doesn't feel right and that it bugs you. You can still be friends, and maybe one day she WILL like you, just not at this very moment. Also, if she says your going to dump her anyway, then what is the point on being her boyfriend? She doesn't even act like you both are going out with each other so yeah...Dump her.
my bf and i r in a huge fight ...but its kas he made me upset..i really wanna talk to him about it..but he needs to appologise to me 1st.. should i wait 4 him or should i say sumtin...im 15/f/ if it helps
If he doesn't say it first, then you should.
Okay Im almost 15....a little over 3 years ago i met this guy...we went out fer a few months but then i had heard that while i was on vaca he had cheated on me with this other girl....i dumped him...he denied it all...then we went out again...and we went out for about a month...then i had dumped him because tha school year was about over and i had also found out that he was playing me with one of my freinds. Then tha next school year i didnt talk to him at all. He only stayed at my school for about 3 weeks n then moved. I was sooooo happy!! but i was bff's with his cousin and she had persued me to write him a lil note tha day he left. Then about 2 weeks after he left he called me..we talked for a few hours...but then i had gotten mad at him bc i think he was being a jerk to me online. Then tha summer before...8th grade i started talking to him and we became REALLY close. we went out but only for a week or two bc we were going out behind my parents backs bc i didnt want them to know i was seeing him again bc they didnt like him bc of what had happened b4...well later i told my mom everything and how he had "changed" and we went out for about a month or so...but then we broke up bc things just werent going good...our timing has always been wrong..but now...this summer my summer b4 ninth grade we have gotten really close. We talk all tha time online n on tha phone...we flirt n yeah. Its soo nice bc today he told me that he missed me n that he really wanted to be with me. He said he really wanted to work things out n us to be together. I'm suppose to go to his house tomarrow but im not sure if he really wants to be with me n has changed this time or if he just wants me for sex. The problem is we r both going to tha same highschool. So chances are i will see him around. And i am TOTALY crazy for him. What should I do??Plzzzz help im soo into him but im not sure if hes real!!! Thanx lots of luv*
In which finger does the turn-on-turn-off-years-relationship ring go on to?
He isn't worth it. He has proved it so many times before, open up to others get a man. He is only playing with you and your feelings.
Uh i have new him for 5 years hellow>>??? you crazy
How do you expect me to know about YOUR life when I don't even know who you are?
-rolls eyes-
how will i no if i found the right person. Cause i think i found him but im scared to ask him out?
For life? Heh...if you think out found the right person for life, but never talked to him, I don't think he is. Heh...
I can't help you, through. Just pop in a conversation, say Hi once in a while, etc.
I dont understand how all these younge kids come on here and ask for love advice and say how they are in love and "falling" for people. I dont think you kids really know what your talking about. Maybe instead of saying love so freely you all should start saying lust. thats what it really is.
*laughs at cowsoink reply*
Oh, man...
Don't tell us little kids...^^
That was rude of me, I'm sorry, it's just so funny.
But anyway, I'm 13 and it bothers me too. BUt whatever floats their boat...
guyz- what makes a girl really stand out from other girls?
*is a girl*
Stalk him until he gives in.
(yes, that was a joke.)
how do u get a boyfriend i dont wanna act like a whore
Be friends first. Or at least know the guy.
if uv notticed iv asked a lot of q's. sorry about that..but i got a lot of problems..ne ways..I'm really shy..and a lot of guys i feel take advantage of me..they r always trying to get me to give them a hand job..or touching me..and i feel really unconfterble..idk wut to say to them..i wana tell them to stop..but then idk y but i feel bad so i just let them..wut should i do the next tiem some guy slaps my ass??? or the next time a guy ask's for a hj..or trys to flirt with me???? N how do i do it nicely..i feel like iv been molested too much :/
Just say no, and if they can't accept that, kick them in the groan. Or just slap them. If you let them do it, they will think your "easy" and most likely lead to rape.
Hello, me and my girlfriend have ben dating for about 6 months and have ben going out for 3 we are boath ready for sex (we are 15) so the other night we were in my room when we decided that we were gonna have sex. so when it came time to bring out pappy (aka my cock) she said it was a monster penis (13 ins) and she didnt want to do anything, i was so horny that night and my hopes got shot down, what should i do to get her to like big weaners
thanks you so much
o.0
Well, I don't know what can MAKE her like it, but the vagina stretches...just try not to put the whole thing in her. :-/
Anyway, what if she got pregnant? All you need is hands :-|
i have been single for like 5 months and i feel really lonley i dont like anybody now but when i do i feel like they are not gonna like me back i mean i dont put my pic on my advice column cuz i feel like people are gonna be like "wow shes ugly she needs to take that off" what do i do??
You don't need a guy to live for, and post it!!! :) Or just have a mask on. ;) I'm sure your cute, you just don't think your not, and it's sad. If you don't like the way you look, give a day for yourself, and get a new hair cut. :)
i have and incredibly small penis my friends call me my friends call me teni weni (my last name is valenTINI)my girlfriend went dowm my pants and she asked wheres ur penis and the looked and laughed and left my house
how can i get her back?
i love her
Well, that woulnd't be the problem if she really liked you...:-/
I don't think there is anything wrong...but not sure how to help you on "getting her back." If she can't accept you have a so-called "small", then just forget about her. You seem like a cool guy, and that is what matters.
iv liked a guy fer 2years..and we have had our "thing" but now its done and he dsont want me ne more...n i havent had a b/f n ferveer...n im jsut at the point where i want to come 2 some1 i love and who loves me to and jsut be able to have some1 who cares for me like that yah know...its been ferever...n its killing me jsut like seeing coupples 2gether knowing i dont have that*
You see the man and the woman together, but you don't really know what their relationship is like.
You don't need a guy to live for.
me and eddie ( me exboyfriend ) broke up about 2 months ago, we went out for 3 years and things were really serious. i was 12 wen i went out with him and now im 15.i lost all my friends, and he lost all his.he broke up with me about 2 years ago and he was cheating on me for the last week of our realationship.i finally got over him and he came back to me.so we have been going out ever since.eddie is very controlling.he wouldnt like it if i had on makeup,he would get mad when i wore a thong to school, i had NO guy friends, and it was jus bad. i broke up with him bout 2 months ago cuz i couldnt take it anymore. he had an anxiety attack and went to the emergnecy room. he begs me everyday to go back out with him .ive been talking to a couple of guys and hes been threatin them.i have to admit- i do play with his head, one day im havin sex with him, then the next i dont talk to him. but now im really sick of it cause we still fite wen we dont even go out. i think i love him but idk if i shood talk to him or jus not talk to him at all. but if i hear he is with another girl ill get upset. im really confusing but i just need advise , should i not talk to him again? [ me and him cant work out as friends ] or jus try to aviod him..oh ya i saw ur pictures ur madd pretty
Just let him go. If he actually does like you, he would be at least less controlling, and give up some things too, not just you.
I met this guy last week at choir camp. i really like him alot. he gave me his phone number, but i dont know what to say to him when i call. i am mostly afraid of calling and having one of thosse uncomfortable silences. Can you help me? i have no idea what to say to him when i call! PLEASE HELP! i am a 16 year old female. i dont really know him all that well.
Yeah, I hate those awkward silences. Think of ideas when that happens, and write them on a sticky note. Haha...
Like:
-me too...i also like...
-so what are you thinking about?
-anythin else going on?
-what were you doing before?
-what are your plans for this week
-Hey, you don't have my phonenumber...yet...
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and of course, when it's late and you really don't have anything to say, there is the:
-Well, I have to go. Call me!
or the
-Be right back
-someone wants to use the phone/internet (if you can't tak on the phone and be online at the same time).
Hope it works out for you! :)
Hii.. im 13 years old, and im kinda changin my style. i wanna get a punkiish style, i've been taken guitar lessons for over 2 years... and now im in a band, and havn't really picked up the style yet, still stuck in that gurly faze... so i need some really good advice on like where to shop, and what kinda stuff i would buy... s0o can you please help me!!!! ~*~ i rate ~*~ thankx, lots of love
You can't just pick a style and actually be it. It's just sad, and what some people call "poseur" or "wannabe" and "a fake." Either way...just be yourself. Is there something wrong with that?
I am going into 7th grade and i am not allowed to have a boyfriend.I really like this guy and I know that he likes me.he asked me out and i told him i would think about it...what should I do.I really like him and i am afraid that if i say no that he will forget about me and...well just move on.I think that she is about to let me have a bf anyway.
Please give me advice.
~Thanx~
Introduce him to your parents. If that doesn't work, they probably just want to protect you. You two could still be friends, and later on, who knows, maybe then your parents will let you date him. Until then, just be friends with his guy.
okay, my ex bf had sex with this girl like 3 yrs younger than him about 6 months ago, she gave it up to him really easily, they werent even going out or nething..then he asked her out like 2 months later..but then he broke up with her after like acouple weeks..now i hear that they are back together as "fuck buddies"..do u think he really likes her, or is just using her?
"Fuck buddies" isn't a good idea. In fact, it's gross. If they aren't ready to be parents, they shouldn't have sex, and from what I read, they aren't.
They could get a disease...
Anyway, it's wrong and he is just using her because "she easy." Talk to her about it.