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how do i get a girl friend

Well 1st you gotta like sum1 lol...wen u find that person go up to her and tell her sumthen nice like you have beautiful eyes and u wanna get to know her im sure if that doesnt work then shes a loser lol..hoped i helped

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Ive had the same boyfriend for about a year and 6 months and lately there hasnt been much time for us to spend together. He left for a week to go to some soccer camp, then he went to an afternoon camp that ran for a week from 4:30 till 8. And now hes started varsity soccer which is gonna cut into the time we spend together. He practices 4 hours a day and his mom invites his friends over all the time which leaves me with about a day a week to see him. I dont think this is fair. And for a week i was sick with mono which he gave to me...and he didnt bother to call or send me flowers like my other friends did. I dont know what to do with him any more...any suggestions?

Tell him how you feel..I really think you should do what your heart tells you I mean if you dont talk to him much or see him whats the point n going out..hoped i helped

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Im 14 and a female and My B/f and i have been together for 4 months. We broke up a couple of weeks ago and he asked me back out. He said the reason for dumping me was that i never called him and didnt see him enough. Things havent been the same since the break-up. He never tells me he loves me anymore and acts different. What should i do?

Tell him how you feel..let him know that you dont like whats going on and that you wanna work it out..the only way to help this problem is 2 talk about it..hoped i helped

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hey sweetie..question!:) my boyfriends birthday is coming up on sep. 3rd..and the same day is our 6 month ann. my first varsity soccer game and his 17th birthday. i already got him gifts, but i wanted to know what else can i get him..or surprise him with. i was going to hang out with him that night and do stuff with him like normal - but make it all about him..but i have my game..are there any little things you can think of? thanks!!

x0x-dani

Make him a nice dinner like candles everywhere and slow music goin and give him a massage guys luv that..hooped i helped

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i really like my best friend but i dont know how to tell him cuz i dont want to ruin wat we alreadii have...hes like my goofy brother but ive liked him for soo long! what do i do! thanks!

Tell him how you feel...but if he doesnt wanna go to that level let him know you dunt wanna ruin ur friendship still...hoped i helped rate plz

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I have been talking to this kid Rob online for a while now and we like eachother.. and were both from the same state and... my cousins friend Jack who is also my sorta friend i have been around him alot is Robs best friend.. and thats how we started talking.. wehave never met but we want to sometime... should i meet him.. i mean i know were the same age.. and i know hes safe since hes Jacks best friend....

what do I do..


and do u think its bad that i sent him a pic of me?

Yea i think its ok i met one of my friend's friend off online in we've been going out now so try it :)..rate plz

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I've decided that I want to give my EX another chance.. But whenever I talk about him.. everyone in my family starts sayin that I don't need him and that he's not worth it..I haven't changed my mind on giving kevin another chance.. I just wanted to know if anyone new how i could get my family to forget about the things that kevin has did to me and how i could get my family to like him...

*~Needing help~*

You gotta realize family is suppose to do that lol their gonna see how sum1 treats you and tell you wats n their hearts but if u like him and think he realli has changed tell ur family...hoped i helped

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Is it true that girls dont like gamers? By gamers i mean people who play video games as a hobby or a profession. Also is it true that they dont like computer techs? It seems like everywhere around where i live that girls find that to be a turn off. I live in Tennessee, if that helps. Just wondering.

well dunt lol but some gurlz might be turned on by it..maybe you should spend so much time on games lol

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I like this new kid at school a lot its taken forever to have new people come and hes really hott! We have a lot of fun together and he is my neighbors best freind... so i talk to him wenever i talk to my neighbor n stuff... and hes soo funny and nice, but i dont think he really likes me "that way" like when we're around eachother hes soo funnny and sweet... but i think that he likes one of my other friends and i think she sorta likes him and that makes really mad as happy as i should be for the two of them it makes me mad especially considering im the one that intorduced them... if i would have known they were gonna swoon i would have never done it! But what do u think i should do about him should just continue talking to him or should i like tell him or what? please help!

I think if you really like this guy you need to get him before your friend does..write him a letter or hang out with him one day and let him kno how you feel if he doesnt feel the same way its ok atleast you gave it a try...hoped i helped rate me plz

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my boyfriend called last night and asked me why i haven't called him all summer. the truth is that i have called but i can never get through. so he thought i was mad at him, but i wasn't. at the end of the coversation we broke up. we had been going out for three months but we never saw or talked to each other. and techanically i shouldn't of been dating him anyway because my parents set the limit at 16. so now that we're not together, i think he's mad at me. its really confusing. what happens now? did i lose him as a friend as well as a boyfriend? if you can help me then please do. thanks.

Well it depends how the convo ended maybe u should call him n tell him again wut happen and let him kno that you wanna be friends...hoped i helped rate me plz

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During the summer I met one of my sister's boyfriend's friend.I met him once,I went to his house with them.His name is Stevan and he would IM me and we'd talk about different things just life in gernal{{sp??}}Yeah well one day he told me he was going to his dad's house and he doesn't get on much so I should call him.Well i didn't want to becuase I never talked to him on the phone so I thought it would be weird ya know?Well I did call.And I called everynight during the summer.We'd always flirt and stuff you know the normal.I started to like him and I told him.Then he told me he likes me.Well at the end of summer we kinda stopped talking but he's still the only guy I think about.Well I went to his house on Sat.He had his arm around me and stuff and was holding me tight.Well we kissed.And then it lead to making out.And when everyone was out of the room he kinda not fully but a lil on top of me and we made out.Well he hasn't asked me out. =-/ so what should I wait for him to ask me out{{which makes me crazy and I cry everyday....}}..Idk what to do....sorry it's long but it's my life.I'm 13 and female.

Maybe you should bring it up and see wut he says give him a lil hint you kno--hoped i helped rate me plz

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i Met this guy at a festival about 3 weeks ago called Shane.We got each others numbers and talked like alot but then last monday he said that we should wait a while till he calls agian cuz theres not really that much to talk about hes said ill call you in a few days and ill make shure sumpthing happens and if nuthing happens then ill make suttin up but ill ttyl.Its been 7 days since he last called do you think hell ever call agian???i know this is a really stupid post but im worried i really liked him

Well i dunt think he gonna call usaully if a week or 2 goes by they arent gonna call sorry but he might you never know..hoped i helped plz rate

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okay well my ex boy friend when i was on vacatio i found out that he hooked up with this gurl from a friend but he still liked me but he also liked this other gurl so i broke up with him!!!
see i still like him but i dont know if i should just be his friend now or just forget about and i think i still like him what should i do?????

If ur not completely over him express ur feelings to him and let him kno that ur willing to straighten out your problems after him and that gurl are over..but 4 now i think its best 2 stay away 4rm him cuz when your friends with a guy u like they tend to bring up things that will make u get really jealous lol..hoped i helped plz rate

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I was obbsessed with this guy for like 6 months. I just got over liking him but my one of my best friends told me she went to a party and asked him to slow dance and they danced together 3 times. When she told me this i was speechless even though i stopped liking him. I am kinda mad that she danced with him-or i think i'm mad. I'm not sure whether or not i'm mad or just jealous...i still might have feelings for him. Do you think i'm mad at her or just jealous?

I think a lil part inside of you still likes him maybe if you even expressed your feelings to your friend about it that would probly help you feel better about it..hoped i help rate me

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my girl is really beautiful but everytime i tell her she jus says im lieng wat do i do?

Well maybe you should explain why u think she is if she doesnt listen then your gonna have to deal with it hunni...rate me pretty plz :)

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can you make a guy love you?! and if so..what kinda stuff can you do?!

You can't make a guy love you..it has to come from the heart..hope i helped rate me plz

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is it wrong to be so in love that you would die for him?

no but you gotta watch out cuz the ones u love the most are the ones who either cheat on you or doin other things their not suppose to be doing

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my boyfriend... who i HAVENT talked to in like 3 weeks... seems to be ignoring me becuz he knoes im wantin to dump him... so what do i do sinc ei can never get in touch with him? Do i call and leave him a message breaking up with him?

You need to get to one of his friends and ask them to tell him or if they wont leave a message

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How can i make my ex like me again, they told me they loved me once and now they basically ignore me. What can i do?

Believe when i say this guys only say they love you to get one thing(sex)..but if your trying to get your ex back tell him that you still have deep feelings for him...hoped i helped

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for some reason guys always take me as a whore..is there anyway i can make them stop thinking that?! i realli need help! i'm so depressed n crying! i'll rate!

Sorry to say but no you can't really change guy's mind..but you can stick up for yourself and not let them walk over you with out any fight!

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