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i liike thiis guy and we had a thiing and he liiked me but now he liikes thiis other giirl but ii am stiill iin love with him and ii just spent liike a whole day cryiing over hiim after liike tryiing to avoiid hiim for a month or so. i dont know what to do iim liike iin love wiith hiim and hes iis so mean to me so ii cant talk to him about iit. i have never felt thiis way. thanks for your help. btw you are really pretty. sometiimes ii see you around. (link)
i've kinda been in your place before.. i know you've prolly heard this a million times before but NO guy is worth your tears. it's hard to avoid someone.. and in your case i dont think you can. try confronting him; it doesnt have to be in person, try talking to him online. there's no reason he should be mean to you bc you obviously care alot about this guy. i/m me & i can you help you out more & thanks! :)

♥ nazzzyyy


I recently broke up with my boyfriend who is 16(I'm 14), because he didn't want a relationship and I did. All he wants is friends with bennefits. I told him I wasn't going to do that with him, and he said that was ok. He asked if we could hang out today, just hang out. so I said yeah, and I told myself that I wasn't going to do anything with him and then he came over, and the next thing I know, im straddling him (fully clothed) and making out with him. It got carried away and I ended up giving him a hand job. He thinks it was just friends with bennefits and I'm a piece of ass. I don't want that, and I want to know if I should just cut off all relations with him and stop talking to him, I dont need him as a friend. or a boyfriend. what do I do!? (link)
well.. you can either do 1 of 2 things:

1.) end the friendship. be glad that you know all he wants is friends with benefits and you stopped yourself while you were at it. if you get sick of him trying, just end it.

2.) if you still want to be friends with him, avoid being alone. make sure everytime you hang out with him, there's at least a couple other people there, too.

hope i helped! ♥ Nazy


hey this guy i know said that he loved me, but i never saw him before and know nothing about him..and after he told me he loved me i asked him if he knew anything about me and he said my name and then he said isent that enough..he was acting really retarded..and now every time i talk to him hes like hey babe, what's up sexys...should i go out with him?! (link)
okay, sounds like this guy only wants you to get some. (signs - he says 'i love you' for the first time ONLiNE, only knows your name... etc.) just be like "hey dude, it's over. :)" hope i helped!

♥ Nazy


I am going out with someone that is a year younger than me and no one has really said anything to me about it yet but i have a feeling they will...i cannot stand when people continuously say crap to me about it...is it really wrong that hes a year younger? (link)
well im not gonna lie, i wouldn't/don't date guys younger than me. but just ignore everyone that says anything.. they have no right to! :)

♥ Nazy


My girlfriend has lied to me several times... nothing EXTREMELEY serious, but about a lot of little things. I have threatened her with a break up, and she gets very emotional when i mention a break up. Recently she has lied to me again and i broke up with her... She is begging to get back with me and i want to be with her..... what should i do? (link)
omgsh dont get back with her. wait, that's bad. okay if you really like her make her promise to you that she'll always be open & honest so you'll do the same. your relationship won't last if there's lies in there. if she says that & lies, break up with her. hope i helped!

♥Nazy


what do guys like better: a hard to get kind of girl... or like one that leads them on? thanks.. (link)
def. a hard to get kind of girl.. guys really dont like girls that lead them on. they like the chase. :) ♥


I really like this one guy he flirts a whole bunch with other girls but he respects me more then the other girls as far as i know. do u all think its better to be respected of flirted with? (link)
Def. respect. cuz flirted with means youre just another girl to him. lOvE*LovE


How do you get guys to notice you without making a complete fool of yourself? (link)
just be yourself guys like that.. you shouldnt have to be someone else to get guys to notice you!! lOvE*lOvE


Dear Nazy,
Okay, so heres the dealio, i like this and he likes me too, but the thing is summer is so close and i'm going lots of places (that contain hot guys) and i dont know what to do if he askes me out because i dont want to cheat on him. but, the other thing i have never felt this way about someone before and i like it, ALOT. So, do i go out with this guy and this summer hang out with him alot and go to six flags and stuff, or do i not go out with him and meet hot guys, but i really like how i get to be with him. i need help.. Thanks Love Always! (link)
hey.. well i would def. stick with him! if you've never felt like this before yah know? hot guys will come && go but you can barely find any good guys anymore! i think you should spend alot of time with him.. but go outta town too! that's what summer's for!! hope i helped.. lOvE*lOvE::nazy!


NAZY! my favorite! okay you know who this is now.. but umm i like this guy **** and he told me he likes me but when people ask him he says hell no.. he told me it wouldnt work out b/c his friends dont like me.. what do i do? shit.. (link)
yeah i def. know who this is! if he really likes you, he wouldnt care what other people think. his friends prolly aren't his real friends if they care that much of who he likes.. tell him that! *MuCh lOvE*nazY!


Theres a guy I like. He goes to my school. Is in my grade, two of my classes, ect. ect.

But, he knows I like him, and doesn't like me back. He's told me multiple times. But lately, he's been acting like I'm okay. Usually he acts like he hates me. He even IMed me first on AIM. Which is like, a first. Ever. We've been able to talk more, and we're getting along pretty well.

The bad side is, well, I've liked him for so long, now that he's finally maybe liking me, I don't feel exactly the same. I'm in this odd stage where, I do and don't like him. I mean, he's hurt me so much, but I feel like I love him. I can't control my feelings.

So what I would like to know is:
Do you think he likes me?
What should I do if he asks me out?
and
Should I take action?(ME asking him out)

I have NO idea what to do.
(13/f)
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whatever you do, DONT ask him out.. it's just a no-no! lol tell him everything that you just said and he should understand.. give him a chance! :)


I'm 15, female and I have been dating my bf for almost a month now. I am a cutter but none of my friends know about it. My bf and I were talking about one of our friends being a cutter and he asked me if I was. I lied to him and told him I wasn't. Now I feel terrible about lying to him. I afraid of how he will react if I tell him. Do you think I should tell him the truth?
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just tell him you've cut before and tell him WHY. if he understands it he's a keeper!


I like someone and my crush likes me too. Whenever he tells me to call i make up an excuse not to because i get really nervous. Hes getting sick of it what should i do ? (link)
aww your just getting butterflies in your stomach! call him and once ya'll start talking the feeling will go away..it's just nerves :) *MuCh lOvE*nazY!


There's two guys i like very much...one is really sweet and has his heart in the right place and means very well, but he's over protective and though we are going out he barely talks to me and flirts with other girls. The other guy is about 4 years older then me, he's 17 and im only 13, but we like each other very much and he doesn't care about age. He's everything a girl could dream of. what should i do with my boy friend? i don't want to brake up he's just too nice and i don't want to brake up with him. How do i brake up with him?
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make a list. one for all the things good about one guy, and another about all the good things about the other. it helps! *MuCh lOvE*nazY!


theres this really cool guy that likes me and i like him, but the problem is that a lot of popular girls like him and i feel kinda like not good enuff for him. what should i do to convince myself that he likes me and not them and i'm good enuff? i rate u a 5 (link)
don't worry about what other people think about you. if you like him, then go for it! *MuCh lOvE*nazY!


here is the deal. I like this guy, and he used to like me, but he doesn't anymore. He said that things "just faded" for him. Now, he still talks to me just about the same way he ever did, he still acts sexual towards me and everything, and that just completely breaks my heart. I'm pretty sure he likes another girl, though I don't know her name. I still like this guy as much as I ever did. Talking to him still makes me giggly, he makes me want to run around in the rain and dance, he is still the person I wish I was falling asleep next to, and I dream about him all the time. We are really good friends now, but it is really hard. I feel like he only wants to talk to me when I am really happy, so I pretend that I am, and that is even harder. I feel like I am making the effort in our friendship, almost all of it, but don't want to tell him that, because that would let on that I'm nowhere near as happy as I am pretending to be. I miss this kid, and everything little thing about him.

what can I do to get over him? (link)
I've definetly been in your place! just confront him and be like "i need to know what's going on." it's not right for a guy to lead you on. find a guy that will treat you right. or have a girl's night...those always make me feel better! *MuCh lOvE*nazY!


k so yeah im in a tough situation..well i love my friends and family where i live but now my dad wants me to move in with him for awhile.. i dunno what to do i mean i love my friends so0o0o0o0o0o0o0o0o0o0o0o0o0o0o0o0o0o0o0o....................much! where i live i dunno what i would do with out them they have always been there for me! and i love them with all my heart.. but so yeah anyways..i love it where i live too and i kno that if i move i will lose two of my bestestest friends in the whole world! i dont wanna lose them but people change..and when someone leaves there is always someone there to replace them and i dunno we r like the closest people in the world! i dont want to lose them but moving just sounds interesting more guys..lol and id meet people and i think thats also what im scared of..i just really dont know..i kno u probably kno who this is and if u do dont say my name just answer my question..thanx so much!
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OmGsh..i SO know who this is!well it seems like you really like it here...so i'd suggest you stay!lol. but if you want to see what it's like wherever your moving, i think you should try it. NOT necessarily now..maybe during the summer or something. you're right people do change if you move...so i'd think about it. Maybe think about all the good things here--and then think about the good things over there. This is hard to tell you're such a good freind of mine and i reaaaaaaaaalllllly don't want you to move! :( lol i looooooooooove yah


Awww nazy!!-->guess who?? yup yup u guessed right! o i just love u i hope u liked ur thing that i made u it came fromt he heart!~i mean it really did!......... anyways the one that says will u have sex with me i htink that was *cole* i mean who else could think of that..lol *cole of u see this im jp* haha..well g2g... (link)
hey erin!lol of course i knew it was you--im gonna make your lil thing today..it's not gonna be like the one you made me..lol but o well!yeah i had a feeling it would be cole..haha! ily erin! *MuCh lOvE*nAzY!




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