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here is the deal. I like this guy, and he used to like me, but he doesn't anymore. He said that things "just faded" for him. Now, he still talks to me just about the same way he ever did, he still acts sexual towards me and everything, and that just completely breaks my heart. I'm pretty sure he likes another girl, though I don't know her name. I still like this guy as much as I ever did. Talking to him still makes me giggly, he makes me want to run around in the rain and dance, he is still the person I wish I was falling asleep next to, and I dream about him all the time. We are really good friends now, but it is really hard. I feel like he only wants to talk to me when I am really happy, so I pretend that I am, and that is even harder. I feel like I am making the effort in our friendship, almost all of it, but don't want to tell him that, because that would let on that I'm nowhere near as happy as I am pretending to be. I miss this kid, and everything little thing about him.
what can I do to get over him?
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....just ditch the guy! he's useing you! cant you see that??
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If this guy told you "things just faded", YOU NEED TO BELIEVE HIM...! If he still acts sexual towards you, it is because he wants to keep the contact "just in case" he needs sex, and nothing else. He figures he told you the truth, and if you hang around anyway, whatever happens is ok.... in other words, I'LL USE YOU WITH NO STRINGS ATTACHED. It is ok that you still care for this person, and you may for a long time, but you don't have to wait for the feelings to go away before you take care of yourself, and that's what you need to do. Make yourself stay away from him, and let your heart heal. If you need to express your feelings, do it in a journal, or tell a friend, but HE is not worthy of your precious energy.
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I've definetly been in your place! just confront him and be like "i need to know what's going on." it's not right for a guy to lead you on. find a guy that will treat you right. or have a girl's night...those always make me feel better! *MuCh lOvE*nazY!
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time. sadly it really sucks that's all i can tell you but seriously time. don't do anything rash though.. you just have to wait for these things to fade out or just drop dead (like me in some cases). this is just one guy out of like a billion that you'll like fall head over heels with.. remeber that =].. it kinda makes me easier to get over them or not want them that badly. don't worry.. you're 100% not alone. it takes me a long time to get over those kind of guys too. my last ex took me almost 6 months to get over and it was silly because when he found out i still liked him and we went out the second time.. i just kinda realized that we weren't meant for each other and that the chemistry was long gone.
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well just ask him if he says "no" then just go with it find someone else
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