Im pretty late...and I'm 16 going on 17 btw I feel like an idiot and I know its all my fault. Anyway how am I gonna break it to my parents?
Buy a pregnancy test first! You don't want to "come out" as pregnant and then find it was something else. Stress can delay your period, & so can numerous other factors. Know for sure before you do anything.
Then, if you ARE pregnant, just stay calm like you are now, and break it to them, because there's no easy way.
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I've been with this guy for about 9 monthes now. we are not officially together because that is the way i want it. BUT we are exclusive and aren't supposed to be with other people.
I cheated on him friday night. This isn't the first time i did it, but i told him about the other times. After the last one, he told me if i cheated again then we'd be done.
Do you think i should tell him what i did? I really do like him a lot. I'm seeing him today and need advice asap.
thanks
If you really wanted him, you could AVOID cheating on him. I'm amazed that he's given you this many chances. You don't deserve him if all you're going to do behind his back is find someone else.
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Hey I'm a guy and have a situation I'm embarrased about. When I'm with my girlfriend, I feel comfortable and myself...except for one part. My body sometimes responds in the wrong way, like it feels like I'm gonna stain my shorts or something. Anyways, just wondering because I don't think thats normal, doesn't feel right either, and its embarrassing. I never even think about going there or want to. So what should I do? Is this normal? Will rate, thanks.
It's puberty. Very normal, it happens to everyone. Even if you're not emotionally ready for sex, your body still reacts like that. There's really nothing you can do.
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Hey I was just wondering...where does it start, that is, STDs. If a guy and a girl are both virgins, is there still a chance? How does it like begin, because it doesn't seem to make sence. If its not infection by spreading it, then what starts them? Thanks - will rate.
HIV/AIDS could be spread by blood mixing ( I read an article once about two people that kissed that had open sores in their mouths, one had HIV & transferred it to the other ), by your mother having it, or by sexual activity as listed by others.
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i'm a male, over 20, alone as hell.
i've never been able to get a girlfriend, i've tried and tried.
it seems like some crule cycle with me, meet a girl, ask her out a couple of times, start to like her and suspect she likes me too, try to be there for her and everything, try to move things up a notch, get the "you're such a good/nice/fabulous guy, i just wanna be friends" routine. Then i'll let go of how i feel as much as posible and try being "just friends", then she picks up the biggest jerk known to mankind and i get to sit across the table watching them make out (TORTURE, for those who care). then the arshole will proceed to cheat on her, she's crushed, i have to listen to all the bullshit and cheer her up, only to find her back with the butthead a week later, then a month later he'll cheat on her AGAIN...
by the third time this happens i simply fuck off, cause she's still won't go out with me and she keeps on going back to the total jerk and every month i have to be there for her.
WHAT THE FUCK, girls always tell me what a "NICE GUY" i am and the friendship crap, but why won't they go out with me.
I'm starting to accept that i'll die alone and bitter, and am starting to avoid woman totally.
I just don't know what to do, i'm really starting to lose it with woman.
I'm over 20 and i haven't even kissed a girl yet. WTF?!!!!!!!!!!!!
should i just kill myself now instead of becoming a full blown alcoholic?
should i try to like guy's more, and simply go gay?
at least i get alot of attention from gay guys trying to chat me up at bars, though im not gay. but women.......FUCK
i need advice please.
I realize you've probably gotten all the advice you need, but here's another point of view.
I used to date a bad boy, who treated me like crap & really hurt me several times, but I kept going back to him - including ruining a relationship with a really amazing guy because of it.
However, every girl interested in guys has to have the Bad Boy phase. Some part of our wacked-out, illogical mindset thinks we can change him, tame him, whatever. We'll deny it, but it's true.
Deep down, we DO want a Prince Charming. We do want the really sweet guy that'll be there. We just probably don't know it yet.
There's going to be an amazing girl out there for you, and she'll love you as is.
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is it ok if your boyfriend looks at porn? i thought it was, like i had nothing wrong with it. but today i found out that he sent a message to some girl on myspace asking for pictures of her "down below" is this ok? should i say something to him about it? what should i do? it was some girl that was not from around here.. and you know how like there's a lot of girls on myspace that only have like naughty pictures on there? it was one of those girls. i don't know what to think :-/
I adore porn, and watching it with my significant other is a huge turn-on. However, the fact that he's looking for pictures of girls he's talking to online is a bit creepy - but I wouldn't dump him for it. However, I'm not you.
If it's truly making you uncomfortable, I'd ask him about it - but he might get defensive & angry with you, be warned.
Remember, though - it's completely healthy for guys to be interested in porn.
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