all this is, is young lust honey!!! if you really liked somebody, then you would know. ya'll are tossin each other around like a box of assorted chocolates...they look on the outside but then you bite into it, its the nasty cream ones and you put it back and somebody else looks at and kinda wants it but not really cuz somebody else had it but then again because somebody else had it, you wanna see what was so good or nasty about it... yes... it is confusing but you have to realize that you can not stress over something that isn't really there. it sounds to me that you and your friends juss wanna be with somebody. you need to get out of that circle of people and quit all this sharing thats goin on. guys juss wanna have a cute girl on their arm... it sounds like you're young and that goes for a lot of young people. so they dont care who they're with, as long as they are with somebody. you deserve somebody that isn't gonna bounce from your friend to you and then set your friend up with one of his friends.... all this madness needs to stop! you need to focus on school or juss bein you and lovin yourself before you try and get into a relationship. you dont need one and you might be better off without one right now until you get your head straight. i've been where you've been more times than i can count and thats where my advice is comin from... my own experiences. you need to get over all of them and let them know that you dont have time for games. thats all thats happenin.. ya'll are playin games with each others mind and emotions and bodies and its not right. you need to distance yourself from the concept of being with one of them and im sure that in the midst of that, somebody will emerge and you'll see that this guy really wants me for him and he's not after my friends if i chose not to be with him or whatever.... you'll see.. work it out girl and juss pray about it! all your friends needs Jesus! :).... but you'll be fine. juss let it go for now and see what comes of it... surround yourself with other, better people and im sure that you'll find someone soon :) let me know how it goes! Good luck and God bless!

Apparently... Miss Thang has feelings for some of everybody!!! She is playin you and draggin you along from what I see. I hate to sound harsh but as a female, I know how wonderful we can be but I also know how triflin some of us can be too. You too seem young to me because that seems like a immature act on her part. You can't get her to break up with anybody. You seem like a nice guy and I know that you deserve better than that. I don't care how pretty she is. It's an ugly thing that she's doing and you shouldn't sit around waiting for somebody that is juss gonna be plotting to be someone else. Obviously, she can't make up her mind what she wants. So, let her play the field and do what she feels she has to do. But you need to get yourself together and move on with your own life because by her having you wrapped around her little finger, she is just draggin you right along with her games. You are wrong for wanting her to cheat on him with you. Don't you see that you cheated on you with someone else and then someone else and I'm sure that it'll keep going. Girls like that won't stop because they love the attention that they can. You don't want her per say... you just miss the feeling of being with someone that you can care about and that cares about you. And that's what you deserve. You may WANT her badly but what you NEED is someone that is gonna want and need you and only you. You need a girl that is gonna be hoenst and stay by your side no matter what you go through. I really hope that you don't fall for her games. Let me tell you somethin... my ex of almost 5 years did the same thing to me. I loved that man more than life itself but I had to let him go. I couldn't hold on to him forever but it was holding me back. But wheneva he came in my face tellin me he missed me and loved me, I fell right in his trap. Cuz as long as he had a good woman and his other females, he was already. But you can't have your cake and cookies with ice cream and expect not to get a stomach ache!!! You'll be fine on your own once you build yourself up to be somethin that any woman will be lucky enough to have! Good luck sweetie and let me know how it goes :)

Okay... first of all, take a deep breath and pull back. You are saying that you are having feelings for her and that she seems pretty cool but it seems to be that you only talked to this girl maybe once or twice. The feelings that you are having might be the need to be with someone that you find attractive; not necessarily the need to be with her because of the things that you like about her... you see what i'm saying? I don't know what has happened to you before in the relationship field or whatnot, that is causing you to have premature feelings for her and at the same time, not being able to approach her. Maybe it's the fear of rejection. Rejection sucks for everybody, I don't care who you are but it's one of those things in life that we must go through to make us who and what we truly are. You have to build yourself up so that she sees you as an attractive, confident guy that wants to be friends and then sees where things go later on. You don't want to scare her off by coming across as someone that is always around and "waiting". But by calling her and by im-ing her, you've already shown interest so you gotta let her take her time. Sometimes as females, we have to warm up to people and find things within ourselves to continue forward. She is probably wrestlin with some things just like you are. But you have to be confident in yourself and hold your head up high and just walk up to her and tell her who you are and ask how she's doin and let her know that you wanted to be cool with her and just allow things to be open. (that gives her a chance to respond and not feel cornered by you). You'll be fine... you're just nervous and like I said, she probably is to. If she didn't like you, then she would have told you by now and she wouldn't have taken your number. So you gotta just be patient. Start bringing out the qualities that you want her see and it'll make her feel more comfortable, ya know? It'll work out... just be patient, give her some space and time but keep in touch with her at the same time. Not everyday... but every once in awhile so she knows that you're around. Good luck!!! :)

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Just because he tickles you, doesn't mean much. You already know he's a flirt so don't take those too seriously because you're not the only one he's treating that way. I tell a lot of girls that they deserve better and I can tell that you're young so don't fall into none of that mess. That's how guys are so don't let it get to you. You're young so have fun (safely lol) and go tickle you somebody :)

Girl imma tell you like this.... first of all, leave him alone. I know that it's hard to let go of feelings that you have developed for somebody that he's playing games! If you was intrested in you, then you wouldn't be doubting yourself. He is trying to get his friends to ease you off of him apparently and you can't fall for that. You need to let him know that he needs to be straight up with you and tell you how he feels. If he can't do that, then let him know that you deserve better. You're not asking him to marry you (maybe not yet lol), but if he can't even act good enough to be friends with you, then he's garbage. If you keep on falling behind in this way, you are going to end up feeling bad about yourself and thinking that maybe there is something that's wrong with you. But there isn't. Some guys just aren't worth the time, patience, or the energy. Let him know what he's missing out on. Like I said, ask him what's going on and see what he says. Let him know that you wanna be cool with him and that it's not a joke. If he is still actin all retarded, then move on. There's someone out there ten times better.... TRUST ME!!! let me know how it goes... work it out girl! :)

I have always been the person that people have come to for advice or just some help with something. I'm not saying that I have all the answers because that's far from it. But I have been through so much hurt, pain, and bad times in my life as well as joyous ones to know how everyone feels. I am very understanding because I've been there and I know what it's like; I know what it feels like to be so much in love that you're on top of the world and nobody can touch you... and I know what it's like to hate everybody including yourself and every fiber of your being... I don't judge because that's not my place but you better believe that I tell it like it is! I love meeting new people and helping out however I can...its what I love to do. So, if you have any questions about love, pain, or why your dog won't listen (haha)... anything.. you just be sure to let me know and I'll help you and talk one on one with you the best I can. God Bless, take care, and just know... you can't just grow flowers with sun alone.... its gotta rain sometimes :)

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