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i don't get him
yesterday, the guy i like randomly called me with one of his friend. i asked him online why he was callingand he was like "she wanted to say hi" but i doubt that was the only reason. he's so confusing, i dont get what he means!!! help.
(things to keep in mind while answering this question: he knows i like him, i asked him out once and he didn't answer and was purposely taking it for a joke for some reason, he's never had a girlfriend, his friends talk to me about him and i have no idea if they're messing with me or not, he doesn't go to my schoo, we go to the same camp and have a couple of te same friends, this summer, he randomly became sooo nice to me after hating me the summer before. and he smiles a lot around me. theres so much else to say but i dont wanna bore u lol)
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Girl imma tell you like this.... first of all, leave him alone. I know that it's hard to let go of feelings that you have developed for somebody that he's playing games! If you was intrested in you, then you wouldn't be doubting yourself. He is trying to get his friends to ease you off of him apparently and you can't fall for that. You need to let him know that he needs to be straight up with you and tell you how he feels. If he can't do that, then let him know that you deserve better. You're not asking him to marry you (maybe not yet lol), but if he can't even act good enough to be friends with you, then he's garbage. If you keep on falling behind in this way, you are going to end up feeling bad about yourself and thinking that maybe there is something that's wrong with you. But there isn't. Some guys just aren't worth the time, patience, or the energy. Let him know what he's missing out on. Like I said, ask him what's going on and see what he says. Let him know that you wanna be cool with him and that it's not a joke. If he is still actin all retarded, then move on. There's someone out there ten times better.... TRUST ME!!! let me know how it goes... work it out girl! :)
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Boys are confusing aren't they? Well, what you can do is try asking his friends if he likes you, and if they try and take it as a joke, make sure you telll them that you aren't joking. If they say they don't know, try asking him online if he likes you. If you like him, try telling him. Best thing to do is try talking to him when he's not with one of his friends.
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