ok well in one of my classes there was this cute guy well i kinda liked him but whenever i did he had a girlfriend then he didnt but then i started talking to a guy i had liked for a year and a half but that didnt work. then at the end of skool i kinda liked the guy in my class again but my teacher wanted to set him up with my friend and she had just got rejected by her guy. i am all like ok whatever i will let her have him but then my other friend got involved and started talking to the guy from my class and then she started liking him and he started liking her...so my two friends didnt talk for a while because one was hurt...well then i am trying to get over that guy i have liked for a year and a half so the friend that got hurt tried setting me up with this other guy...well i met him on monday and was messaging him well it turns out the friend who was setting me up with him fell for him...and he was flirting with her i was on the phone with her and i could hear him...wel my friends best friend also likes this guy and so my friend doesnt know what to do. then the guy(the one i was suppose to be set up with) tries and sets my friend(the one who fell for him) tries to set him up with one of his friends...its confusing i know...but i dont know if i like the guy but i think i might start to and then the guy in one of my classess well i do like him and he has been texting me lately... and i am still trying to get over the guy i have liked for over a year and a half...so one guy off limits becuase best friend likes but i liked him first...other guy to many girls like and the guy i have liked for a really long time he is the one i trying to get over....what do i do...please help me...i am losing my mind!!!!!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MizzDiva3203 answered Friday June 29 2007, 12:19 pm: all this is, is young lust honey!!! if you really liked somebody, then you would know. ya'll are tossin each other around like a box of assorted chocolates...they look on the outside but then you bite into it, its the nasty cream ones and you put it back and somebody else looks at and kinda wants it but not really cuz somebody else had it but then again because somebody else had it, you wanna see what was so good or nasty about it... yes... it is confusing but you have to realize that you can not stress over something that isn't really there. it sounds to me that you and your friends juss wanna be with somebody. you need to get out of that circle of people and quit all this sharing thats goin on. guys juss wanna have a cute girl on their arm... it sounds like you're young and that goes for a lot of young people. so they dont care who they're with, as long as they are with somebody. you deserve somebody that isn't gonna bounce from your friend to you and then set your friend up with one of his friends.... all this madness needs to stop! you need to focus on school or juss bein you and lovin yourself before you try and get into a relationship. you dont need one and you might be better off without one right now until you get your head straight. i've been where you've been more times than i can count and thats where my advice is comin from... my own experiences. you need to get over all of them and let them know that you dont have time for games. thats all thats happenin.. ya'll are playin games with each others mind and emotions and bodies and its not right. you need to distance yourself from the concept of being with one of them and im sure that in the midst of that, somebody will emerge and you'll see that this guy really wants me for him and he's not after my friends if i chose not to be with him or whatever.... you'll see.. work it out girl and juss pray about it! all your friends needs Jesus! :).... but you'll be fine. juss let it go for now and see what comes of it... surround yourself with other, better people and im sure that you'll find someone soon :) let me know how it goes! Good luck and God bless! [ MizzDiva3203's advice column | Ask MizzDiva3203 A Question ]
runawayxlove answered Friday June 29 2007, 12:13 pm: Hey, well i lost my mind too, trying to read that. That was way too confusing. I think that i might have caught your drift a little tho. If you want to try and make it less complicated 10x, go ahead and message me in my inbox and id be glad to help =]. [ runawayxlove's advice column | Ask runawayxlove A Question ]
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