ok...my name is Jessica im 15 years old and i am a very caring but outspoken person!!I love to help people with their problems...Im not saying im the best person to go to for advice but you can try it and ill tell you how i feel and what i would do if i was you and i will help you the best way i can...i have alot of problems in my life right now to so be on the look out for questions from me!! Love ya guyz!! *Jess*
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Location: South Carolina
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the guy i like likes my best friend and shes prettyer then me !very very prettyer then me !but she doesnt like hi shes only leading him on do i tell him or keep it to myself (link)
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well if i was you i would tell him because theres no since in him getting hurt over your friend...but then to think of the possibilities of your friend getting mad at you or whatever do what you feel is right...hope this helps
your friend,
Jess
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i have this little probelem, i am afraid to make out with anyone because i think i will be bad at it. i have never made out with anyone before, and my old bf was a little weirded out by the whole not making out thing. what do i do?
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ok dont worry about it...i went through the same stage when i was like 12 or so but i got out of it quick...find a guy you really like and then if you want to make out with him then go for it dont worry about being bad at it i know thats hard but some guys are bad at it to so just give it a try you'll get use to it believe me...alot of guys are weirded out if you dont want to make out with them...my ex boyfriend lets just say he loved to make out and if i wasnt in the mood or something he would get mad but if you dont want to dont let a guy pressure you do what your heart tells you to do...hope i helped
your friend,
Jess
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Ok so i asked a question a few weeks ago about doing something with a rose for Xmas for my girlfriend and i got alot of positive feedback about it.. you might of read it.. had to do with a glass rose? well if not i decided to change it up a bit, tell me how you(a girl) would feel if your boyfriend did something like this for Xmas::
Along with your other presents, brough over a vace we 11 roses in it, and one glass rose, making a dozen roses total. And put a card in there that says, "I will stop loving you when the last rose dies." (for all the not-so-smart girls out there, 'a glass rose wont ever die') Sooo how would you like it? yes? no? maybe? (link)
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yes i would love that...i think that is soo sweet i would love it if my boyfriend did something like that for me lol...if i was you i would do it because she would probably flip out or something...girls love that kind of thing ya know
good luck,
Jess
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I think I might like my ex boyfriends best friend. I don;t now what to do. I still like my ex but I think I may like his friend more. what should I do. If you have ever had a problem like this please tell me what you did. thanks. (link)
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Ok...to tell you the truth i've been through this plenty of times and when me and my ex broke up i still had feelings for him but i went out with one of his close friends and they still stayed friends...no problems well when me and that guy broke up i still liked my ex and i started talking to some other guy and a few weeks later I found out that he was friends with my ex too but i still went out with him and they were like bestfriends and i didnt know it and they actually stopped talking and was about to fight over this and now we're broke up to and they still dont talk so i dont know it all depends on who these guys are and how close of friends they really are...But if you think about it and still like his friend more then find out if he likes you and go for it!!
Hope this helps,
Jess
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For some odd reason I am sometimes not physically attracted to my boyfriend ive had this problem before but is this normal? I mean he’s not at all a bad looking guy but its just sometimes I just catch my self saying (in my mind) eww! But I feel really bad because I love him and he is really in love with me and I can’t seem to stop this
Is there something Wrong with me?? Or does every girl have this problem?? (link)
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OMG this is so weird im going through that too...I went with this guy for like a year or so and i loved him to death and i know he felt the same way but sometimes i was like "omg grrl what is wrong with you?" you know well i still do that sometimes and we're not together anymore but we're still real close...and like sometimes he's like soo hot and the next he's like eww...and i know my friend goes through this too so i guess its kind of normal i dont know lol i hope this kind of helps you out a bit!!
your friend,
Jessica
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hi i like this boy who i no is just using me for sex but i keep letting him because i like him what should i do (link)
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hey...i've been in this same situation most guys where im from is like that...if you like this guy then stay with him but dont let him use you because it will go around that you're easy and stuff and believe me you dont want that so maybe you should talk to this guy and make sure he is using you for sex!!
your friend,
Jessica
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my boyfriends bestfriend and i was hanging out yeaterday, and my boyfriend does not even know and i want to keep it that way any ways we were flirting all day and i know it's really wrong to and he does too but when we flirt it's like we're donig the right thing but it's wrong. im going to hang out with him again and i wondering would i be wrong if i break up with him on his birthday and flirt with his best friend (link)
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ok if i was you i WOULD NOT break up with him on his birthday because i mean would you like that if somebody did that to you? I dont think you would i know i wouldnt...so wait a few days after his birthday and then break up with him (IF THATS WHAT YOU REALLY WANT) but sit down and take the time to think about this and make sure this is what you want and make sure you're going to be happy this way because if not then its a waiste of time...I think that it is wrong for you to be hanging out with his bestfriend without him knowing it to...talking on the phone with him would be ok i guess but going out and flirting with him and stuff thats kinda wrong...but if you're wanting to go out with his bestfriend then wait awhile before you date him because that would hurt your boyfriends feelings BAD so wait alittle bit...hope this helps you out
your friend,
Jess
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hey umm theres this guy that i like and my friend was iming him and sh asked him if i asked him out if he would say yes and he said yes, so now i want to ask him out but ive never had a bf so i have absolutley NO clue how to say it...please help asap!!! btw im 13/f if it helps (link)
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ok i think you should go up to him and say "hey i heard that you liked me is that true?" and see what he says and if he says yes then say "oh i like you too,so want to go out sometime?" or something like that...you have alot of guts...asking a guy out lol thats something i've never been able to do i make them ask me lol...but i think its sweet if you ask him!!
Hope this helps you out,
Jessica
Get back at me and let me know how things workout!!
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Okay me and this boy have been friend FOREVER
and now he is saying that people in our school are saying that we are going out, and were not.
And so now everyone thinks we are and i am like WERE NOTTTTT OKAY and so now he asked me should
I go out with him??????
he is cute but he's not that cute HE IS REALLLLLYYYYYY NICE!!!!!!!! (link)
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ok i went through this too seriously actually a few months ago lol but anyways if you like him then go out with him it wouldnt hurt anything just make sure it doesnt ruin you guys friendships...but make sure he likes you really and that this is what he really wants and if you decide you like him or you want to give it a try go for it...hope this helps
your friend,
Jess
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ok here the thing. i have a girlfriend and i love her to death. but, i got an ex girlfriend who doesn't know when to let go. my ex always talks about how she misses me & wants to kiss me & all this other crap. so my question is, how do i get rid of my ex without hurting her feelings & without breakin up with my current girlfriend?
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okay...i think you should tell uour ex how you feel without hurting her feelings...do you still love your ex girlfriend? i mean think about all this before you tell her to leave you alone...just sit your ex down and tell her how you feel and then see what she says and see what happens...this girl obviously cares for you so just see how she feels and if you dont want to be with her then you two just be friends and see what happens in the long run...hope this helps
your friend,
Jess
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okay, so i like a guy and i think he likes me back. the only problem is that there's this girl at my school who's his ex-girlfriend and they've been though a lot, and also just recently broken up. the girl isn't really my friend, but sort of a "friend of a friend". so i don't know whether to keep liking the guy, or to forget about it because he might be "off-limits". i'm really confused, please help!
[i give 5's for good answers, thanks]
by the way, i'm in junior high. (link)
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ok i think you should talk to this guy and see if he still cares for his ex...if not then go for it but if he does then just be friends with him for a while and see how things go in the future
your friend,
Jess
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what if your boyfriend does not know your kissing his best friend and me and his friend act wierd around him (link)
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ok...i know this might not sound to great but why in the world would you kiss your boyfriends best friend? You should not be with this boy if you're kissin his friend...that makes no sense you should break up with this guy if you dont want him...i think you should sit this guy down and tell him whats been going on and tell him that you're sorry and maybe break up with this guy and date his friend since you've been kissin him...but i think you and this guys friend arent true friends to this guy...
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WHat if the whole skool find out that your pregnant. But you didn't want errybody to know. You told the one person you thought you could trust, and they told. What do I do? Should I deney it or should I say something to that person I told? (link)
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i think you should confront the person that you told because i dont think its right that you trusted them not to tell and then they go off and tell other people but if i was you i would confront this person you told and see why they told everybody else...hope this helpes
your friend,
Jessica
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ok so i know you gyes hate these qustions but i cant answer it on my own. ok so i still like my x but he has a girl friend.shes really mean and dose not want us to be friends.so today she went home sick and my x DID NOT seem to care. So today he huged me and flrted with me. He also spraed his favorite colnge on me which smelled really good!! I dont know if i should ask him if he still likes me or just let narure take its corse?? I really need help on this one i want to know if he still likes me??
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ok i think you should talk to him about this and see what he says...maybe he just wants to be friends with you ya kno...but i do see where his gf is comin from because i wouldnt want my bf bein friends wit his ex cuz that would be weird...and i think you should talk to him and tell him how you feel and see how he feels and go from there...hope this helped some!!
your friend,
Jessica
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14/f so i've been with my boyfriend for half a year.. and umm we made out a little i guess... so we were lying on my bed...watching tv and whatnot. his hand was on my pants playing with the belt hoops and suddenly he put his hand down my pants slightly...then he went farther and i kinda jumped...and told him no so he was okay with it...soo its a couple of days later..and i'm hanging out with him... he has his arms around me from behind and then his hands drop around my stomach and lower..then he puts his hands on my legs and he moves his hands... brushing up against /there/ and then he suddenly moves his hands to my stomach again...then few minutes later he puts his hands against THERE again...and i kinda got stiff...and i told him not to do it again.. i dunno.... so im just confused. in my mind i wouldn't mind if he did it but my parents said that im too young to do anything below the neck so.. yea and thats stuck in my head so i'm just stuck in middle of wondering what to do.. so..
the next time he does that..what do I do? break up with him or seriously tell him 'NO'. yeah..
lately hes getting a little weird..or horny i guess? cuz when we hang out...he's always behind me pushing my ass into him and whatnot... or like..he pushed me up into a table and talked to people while he was between me..then he would come closer and kiss me while leaning over the table a little too much.. almost like the missionary position. yeahhhh. i dunno. i'm just..blah right now. i don't want to have sex because that ruins a relationship...if you dont get enough or if you do it too much. gah. i dunno! (link)
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i think you should sit down and talk to him about this because maybe he's taking things alittle to far...i think you should just tell him your not quit ready for that yet and see what happens...i know its kind of hard but you have to do it or he will keep on and keep on!!!hope this helps
your friend,
Jess
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There is this girl I like at work. She seems really cool and it seems like we have alot in common. But she says she has a boyfriend for 7 months. What are some ways that I can get her to leave him and date me? I know its bad, but I think there is a chemistry there. (link)
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ok i think you should see how this girl feels about you first before you try to get them two broke up...if she likes you as much as you like her then she'll probably leave her boyfriend for you anyways but what if shes happy with this guy that shes with? You wouldnt want to mess all that up would you? Think about it!!
your friend,
Jess
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Ok there is this new girl at my school and I am friends with her. My ex boyfriend broke up with me the other day due to he liked someone else. So today it turns out that they have known each other for 2 years! So I am getting the feeling that he likes her. Like today when she first came he kept standing beside us listing to our convorsation. I still have feelings for him and still love him but I am so confused whether he likes me or her! He flirts with me but then again he acts like he likes her. So what can I do? Sorry that I asked this question b4. :) (link)
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ok i think you should sit this guy down and talk to him about how you feel and see how he feels...i think it would be wrong if he started liking your friend or whatever but then to i guess you dont have control of who he likes but just sit him down and talk to him and see where you get then...hope this helps some because im going through the same thing with my ex boyfriend and my friend ya know its a rough situation but i hope this helps you out some!!
your friend,
Jessica
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i have liked this boyy for about 2 weeks now and he is so hard to read i dont know if he likes anyone? but he flirts alot and stuff and he flirts with me too but i dont want to tell him that i like him...but if he doest know that i like him he might not ask me out? and i do not like asking guys out at all like i wont do it...any advisssee?? hopefully lol
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ok maybe you should get to know this boy alittle better...maybe then you could tell if he likes you or not...but if i was you i would flirt back with him and see if he ever notices that you like him...if you dont want to ask him out which i dont blame you because i dont like asking guys out either lol get a close friend to talk to him for you and see what he tells her/him!! hope this helps you some!!
your friend,
Jessica
let me know how things turn out!!
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uhm, i am kind of confused here. it has been a week of this great guy being really sweet and nice. Maybe you answered and read my question about "does he like me?" well basically he always offers me his jacket so i can be warm and he meets me after a couple classes, and yesterday he gave me a hug the whole time we talked (like we were hugging and having a conversation at the same time. And he got dumped 2 weeks ago. I am thinking that this is maybe why he hasnt me out yet. That is fine; I can wait because he is worth it. But I would just kind of like to know when you guys think he might ask me out. thank you! :) (link)
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i think that the guy wants to ask you out its just he just got out of the relationship and maybe he wants to get to know you alittle better and that maybe why hes waiting...just wait it out and see what happens!!
your friend,
Jessica
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ok hey, question for the girls. How would you feel if your boyfriend did something like this for you on Xmas. (by the way i am the male not the female lol) I get 2 roses, and put each in their own wrapped box. Ill say "when this rose dries up and dies, i will love you more," then give her the box and let her unwrap the first rose. then say "when this rose dries up and dies, you will love me more," then give her the box and let her open it. Then i will take a third box and say "when this rose dries up and dies, i will STOP loving you." and she will open the box, and it will be a glass rose. (for all the blondes out there, glass doesnt dry up and die ;-)) Ever. lol. what do ya think? (link)
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ok i think that is soo sweet...if my bf did that 4 me i would flip the script lol...i think u should do that because thats just so sweet and i would love for my boyfriend to do that for me...lol
15 female by tha way
your friend,
Jess
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