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Ok my Mom says I'm to young to fall in love and have a boyfriend and my Dad does as well..but she found my journal thinger and found out Im dating normally she flips out and is all your way to young..im 15 years old..and I've been secretely seeing this guy behind her back for about 3 weeks almost..and she just now found out..she wants to meet him and he says he is christian and she is really christian like really christian..and I'm scared of what she might think of him..if she dont like him..what do i do..where do i let them meet..where i can be...and how do i meet his parents...HELP ME! (link)
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You definitely need to talk this over with your boyfriend and your parents. First of all, I don't think it's very "Christian" that your mom read your journal, you definitely need to discuss that one with her. And you reall need to talk to your dad too. Tell him that you're 15, you're not a little kid anymore and if he doesn't understand then so be it.
-Hope I helped!_
mEb
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Alright, these past two nights I've been crying myself to sleep because of my boyfriend.
I RARELY get to see him because we go to different schools, maybe once or twice every TWO/THREE months. :/ But we talk on the phone like every 2-3 days, and on the computer a lot.
So, a few days ago..Thursday, I was expecting him to get on the computer, but he never did..and I didn't call, because, I dunno. i just hate calling when he doesn't tell me to right at the moment..even though he told me I can call anytime. So, I don't know..I just started crying because I was so upset and stressed out from not seeing him anf stuff. Tonight, he hasn't gotten on, and I started crying again. I think a lot of you won't understand really, because you don't know how much I miss him, you have to know the situation better.
But..what do I do? Because, he hurts me a lot. I mean, this has happened multiple times. But like..a couple days after this goes on he finally comes online and says 'hi', and I CAN'T be mean to him..or tell him that he just made me cry. I don't know why, I just can't do it. It's like emotional abuse, and i just don't think I can take it anymore. (link)
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Sweetheart, I hate to sound mean or non-understanding, but how can you two have a real relationship if you never see eachother? Two to three months? That's a long time to wait to see your boyfriend!! And you go to different schools? Talking on the phone or on the internet is not enough to keep a strong relationship going. You have to see eachother and hang out together and stuff. I think you two should break up. This type of relationship will never work.
*Hope I helped!!*
-Miss Emmy Boo-
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There's a boy that used to be the kind of friend that I would tell my problems to when me and my b/f were going out. But after my b/f and I split, my friend completely fell in love with me. I don't like him that way, just as a friend, but he's trying to control my love life by being over jealous.He says he won't stop until I go out with him. I have a new b/f now, but I can't let anyone know because I don't want my friend to find out and he'll be hurt.He gets mad whenever I'm on the phone with my b/f. What should I tell him? I don't want to lose his friendship, because he is a really good friend.
Sorry about the length, but please help!! Thanks! (link)
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No matter what happens you are most likely going to lose the friendship. Just tell him that you really don't have feelings for him like that, but you really care about him and want to still be good friends. If he keeps up, then just ignore him or tell a trusted adult that he's harassing you or something. He's probably not a true friends anyways if he says he won't stop until you go out with him.
*Hope I helped!*
-Miss Emmy Boo-
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my boyfriend always calls me sayin how some girl kissed him today at school but if i just say my friend likes my butt he freaks out and i dont care about him flirting cz we dont go to the same school so im not there to do something..anyways i wanna tell him on halloween i was holdin this guy i just met hands but i dont want him to freak out..how can i tell him and ask why he freaks out about me doin the smallest things with my friends and me not doin nothin about him and his???
o yea when he flirts i get jealous but i dont act or say nothin about it..is he tryin to get me jealous? (link)
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Your boyfriend KISSED another chick? Wow...you need to dump him. I think that kissing is WAY, WAY beyond flirting. Lose this loser!
*Hope I helped!*
-Miss Emmy Boo-
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Okay.. i went out with this one kid a couple times. One time we broke up because we didnt hangou enough.. and then brokeup again because we hungout 'too much' i really really like him but he acts like such a jerk around his friends! i asked him back out and he said he didnt know.. then his friend came on the phone and said NO. what can i do to make him really jelous and come to his senses (link)
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Well, there's really nothing you can do to make someone like you or whatever. Just move on, there's a zillion more dudes out there!! And it seems that neither of you two know what you want, I mean you break up because you spend too little time together, ansd then you break up again because you spend too much time together. Just forget about him and move on!
*Hope I helped!*
-Miss Emmy Boo-
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I don't want to be just cool with this guy that I really like. I want to be more than friends, but I don't know where to start. It's usually not that hard for me to talk to somebody. But he really makes me weak and when I try to talk to him, the words won't come out right. I don't know how to tell him. Because if I'm the only one feelin, he might not want to talk to me anymore. I don't know if I only feel that way. I think he likes me, but I'm not sure. How can I tell him how I feel with out wreckin our friendship? (link)
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Well tell him that you like him and then say, "But if you don't like me that's cool, we can still be friends." And then if he doesn't like you then just act like nothing ever happened!
~Good Luck!~
*Emmy Boo*
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hey,Im 14 I have a Bory friend right. And there's this guy at school who likes me,but I have a BF but I wanna get to know him better. I mean incase me and my Bf break up maybe I can go out with him. Should I give him my phone number, whould people think it the wrong way. Cause I dont want people thinking that Im cheating on my Bf. (link)
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Well, you can be friends with the dude and talk to him on the phone *N* stuff. Just don't put him before your boyfriend and tell people that you're just friends!
*Hope I helped!*
-Emmy Boo-
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Well last night i went to a superbowl prty at my friends b/f house, his friend was there!To be honest i nvr really liked him but we were flirting and we sat down to watch the superbowl and he sat next to me, we went closer and closer and by the end of the night we were holding hands and cuddling.But in the middle of all this he starts talkin about the girl he likes.And he says he likes me but he likes the other girl more.But it's one of those shes way out of his league and she doesn't like him at ALL!!Should i ask him out or should i get let him get over her?But i want to go out wit him in time for valentines day!
~Tina~ (link)
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I think you should let him get over this chick. Wait to let him ask you out. This chick doesn't like him so nothings gonna happen. If he doesn't ask you out by Valentine's Day, then just invite him to chyll somewhere with you.
*Hope I helped!*
-Miss Emmy Boo-
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okay i like this guy we'll call him erik so anyways erik and i have been good friends since school started and well now that he had found out that i liked him he flirts with me even more and gives me at least one hug everyday but you see the hug is longer then it is with the rest of the girls that gives him hugs and also he holds me really close to him so i really want to ask him to the dance this friday but im not sure how does anyone have any ideas so i possibly wont get rejected if he was just playin with me? sry for the length (link)
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Well, it sounds to me like this dude is into you. To ask him to the dance, just flat out ask him, or you could write him a note or something. Or if he's into sports write it on a ball and throw it to him!
*Hope I helped & Good Luck!*
-Miss Emmy Boo-
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Me and my ex boyfriend don't really talk anymore, he has a new girlfriend now. But, i found out that he cheated on her and i know for a fact cuz he told me too. Should i tell his girlfriend?? his girlfriend and i have always hated eachother but i hate them being together it makes me like sick cuz i'll always love him :-/.. i think thats why i want to tell his girlfriend the news. Should i tell her? or leave it alone? thanks ill rate (link)
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Well she definitely deserves to know. But, her boyfriend should be the one to step up. Otherwise I don't think any of it really concerns you.
*Hope I helped!*
-Emmy Boo-
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Ok well i met this guy when i was 13 and know im 15.we met each other at a resort.we talk all the time(internet and phone)the only problem is he lives in Iowa and i live in minnesota. August of 2004 he asked me out. i said yes of course.its really hard though.we live about 7 hours away so its hard for us to see each other, plus we both cant drive yet.I dont know what to do i really like him a lot, so should i stay with him and see what happens or should i dump him and forget all about him??? i'll rate you!thanks for your help. (link)
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You're 15, you have your whole life ahead of you! I wouldn't stay with him, but if you truly want to, then do so! But there are so many more options out there!
*Hope I helped*
-Emily-
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i know this is kinda confusing...
ok i met this guy on-line from one of my friends last saturday night and we talked and all, and i think i may like him i dk hes 2 years older n he went out with one of my some-what friends, i mean i talk to her but were not like close or anything...they recently just broke up and all....so he said he was single n looking or w/e, we were joking around n crap over cyber stuff on-line then he asked me how far i went with a guy...and im like uhh well im not suppose to date till im 16 so i have to wait and then he said n ur turnin 15 soon arent u and i said yeahh...then he asked me how long would i wait to have sex. or if i would give a bj or a hj...or if i would enter the back door and all...then he said that i would prob b the only one who doesnt have muchs bf all threw high school and i said yeahh well i rather be single then screw my life over be4 i graduate then he said that i could use a condom n i said yeahh condom or no condom if my parents found out i would be dead...i get a feelin that i wont turn out a virgin when i graduate im gettin this feelin that i wouldnt but anyways...then he asked me if i was bush or bare as in the south of the border..and i basically refused that and all..he knows i know his ex..and i was wonderin if this sounded like he liked me or something? any ideas?
- thx (link)
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Ok, I totally agree with Toca on this issue. Sounds to me like this dude just wants some action and all he cares about his sex. Run far, far away. I wouldn't associate with this dude!!
*Hope I helped!*
-Miss Emmy Boo-
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I'v been doing the whole secret admirer thing for a day or so now. I think that this girl knows its me doing it. Should I just play it off and continue with the plan or should I just forget it and go for it. (link)
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GO FOR IT!! :) And stick with your plan!
*Hope I helped*
-Good Luck-
*eMiLy*
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Let me fill you in before I ask my question..Ok my ex and I have one of the most perfect relationships in the world. He finally admitted he loved and everything was going good and we were getting really close. Well then this other girl asks him out and he says yes he sed he wants to have a lil fun before we get into a relationship because he will be tied down..Also that he is scared because he got out of a serious relationship not that long ago and he is scared that ours will turn out like theirs did but anyways..What should I do?!?!?! I dont know I want to ask him to break up with her but I dont know if I could actually do that Im hoping they will break up by themselves but I still dont know what to do..
~*Perfectly Imperfect*~ (link)
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I think your boyfriend is a jerk. I mean, he says he doesn't want to be tied down, yet he's DATING someone else? I think you should forget about him and maybe have some fun yourself. Try to get back in the game with someone else, this guy's an asshole.
*Hope I helped*
-Emmy Boo-
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13-F! Tommorrow there's a dance at my town, I'm thinking of goin and need some help. How can I do my make-up? How can I do my hair?(A few inches below my sholder.) And what to wear? I'm thinking jeans and a white tee or tanktop. By the way* My crush is going to be there and were both single and how can I get him to know I want him? (link)
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OK, hun lets get this show on the road. :D
*Make-up: light green eyeshadow for the eyes & lots and lots of black mascara, just do your regular routine with foundation or whatever, and wear some clear or neutral lip gloss.
*Hair: I think that loose pigtails(braided) with a few loose strands in the front would be sooo cute. If not that, then a half-pony tail.
*Clothes: Definitely wear some tight jeans! ;) And I think a white tank top would be really cool and maybe some big, dangly earrings.
*Crush: Well you could always go up to him and be like "Hey (his name), what's up?" OR you could totally dance with him. ;) If you're shy just go for it anyways, life doesn't last forever so take all the risks you can. ;)
~Hope I helped & bTw HaVe fUN!~
*!*Miss Emmy Boo*!*
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so i like this guy but like i dunno how to like get him to really NOTICE me. LIke he knows who i am but.....he doesnt see me like that i guess. I htink he used ot like me when we were a little younger, but now i think he just sees us as friends. He sits next to me in one of our classes, but like is totally flirting with the girl next to me. Wat should i do to get him or just guys in general o notice me?? (link)
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*How to get dudes to notice you*
-Be sweet and innocent, don't act like a hoe because then they will just see you as a piece of ass.
-Be different, guys like a girl who can stand out in a crowd.
-Start up convos with him. And FLIRT your head off! :D
-You can also wear or do something that you normally wouldn't, that will def. catch his attention.
*Hope I helped!
~gOoD lUcK
*Emmy Boo
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For v - day... if i got my boyfriend two little teddy bears... (ones a girl and ones a boy)... that have magnetic noses so its like they are kissing... would that be too girly like giving him teddy bears and stuff? (link)
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Well unless you're boyfriend is extremely sensitive and overly sweet, forget the teddy bears. You might want to stick with a good CD that he likes, or a mix of "your songs" or maybe just a card with some mulah!
*Hope I helped!
~Miss Emily
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ok im an 18/f.. whenever my boyfriend and i get in arguements i start screaming and cussing at him when im really mad. i usually feel bad about it later cuz i can be so mean.. but i cant calm myself down when i need to. when im really pissed off i dont think about it, i just start yelling. sometimes i feel like its the only way i can get him to listen even though i know it only makes things worse.. what should i do to stop doing this? (link)
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Well...everytime you wanna scream at him and kill him, just calmly stop yourself. Then. just start making out with him, I promise it works! ;) You two will be argument-free in no time.
-Emmy Boo-
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I'm in love with my boyfriend.. but he used to be best friends with my ex boyfriend. Me and my ex are friends but my boyfriend told me if i talk to him he would get pissed.. but i feel bad because i would have to like ignore my ex.. what should i do? (link)
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You need to sit down and have a serious talk with your boyfriend. Tell him that the way he is treating you is totally unfair. And since he said that then HE'S not allowed to talk with any of his exes. If he continues being an ass, dump him.
*Hope I helped!*
-Emster Boo!!-
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Hey my name is J.B. I am 17 year old male and I really like these two girls at my school. I have asked one out several times but she is always busy. The other girl is not dating anyone else and is also (in my oppinion) the most beautiful girl in school. Im not sure she even notices me. I need some help.
P.S. I love to write poetry and i have used her as inspiration a time or two. (link)
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Well you definitely need start up a convo with this chick! :) Just go up to her and be like "Hey, what's up? You're really hot." Girls LOVE that, lol. And just get to know her and tell her exactly how you feel, and share some of the sweet poems you wrote about her!!
*Hope I helped!*
-Good Luck darlin!
***Emily
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