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I am terrified of asking someone out and being rejected. I don't want to be made fun of and it would hurt me. I have always seen boys I like go because I have been to afarid to say anything. I don't want that to happen with the current guy I like. So my question is how do I get over the fear of rejection? Thank you. (link)
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Rejection, though heartbreaking happens.
The best advice I can give you, is to just chance it. If you don't go for it, you might let a good thing pass you by, which can feel worse than rejection itself.
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There's this boy i really like but... i have a boyfriend and im going to be going out with him for 6 months this friday and I already had sex with him and I really like this kid named josh and we have 2 classes together and he’s in my grade. My friend asked him if he liked and and he was like ummmmmmmmmm ummmmmmm ummmm and asked who? And she said my name and he said ummmm no. how do I know if he likes me.??????!!!!!! Really need to know!! He’s moving to California in July and all I want is just a lil piece of him lol and I like in ny so we would NEVER see each other (link)
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It doesn't sound like he knows you, let alone like you.
Second, you have a boyfriend, that you obviously care enough for that you slept with him. But are already thinking of "getting a piece" of this other boy, that obviously doesn't even know who you are.
I think you need to sit and honestly think long and hard about what that says about you..
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i dont usually do this but ok..im in love with this one guy that i've been with for 11 months, and he claims he is in love with me, but when we get in an arguement he says he doesnt love me right now, which is weird bc i thought that if you was in love with someoen you would love them unconditionally, he makes all the rules and doesnt let me have input on anything.every timei talk to him i end up crying bc he hurts me so bad emotionally..the only time he acts good to me is when he is about to get something(you know what i mean) after that he's back to his normal self.what should i do? i try leaving him but i always get weak and run back to him.i love him alot and i dnt know what i should do.i try telling him how i feel and he gets pissed so i just keep it to myself..im getting really close with this other guy who feels the same way about me as i do my guy, and i dont know what i should do, i love the guy im with, not the one who treats me like a goddess,..*confused*..what should i do..sorry its so long..forgive me lol (link)
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Sounds like your in a bad situation. You say you love him, but it's obvious he doesn't feel quite the same, or quite as strong about him as you do.
The fact your left crying and hurt over things he says.. and being hurt emotional is a sign of abuse. Abuse doesn't always mean hitting and slapping, there is emotional, and it's clear that this guy is doing that to you.
You need to get away from him, he sounds controlling and things can only get worse from here, not better.
If you find your not strong enough, then you need to surround yourself with friends who will support and help you while you break away from him.
You might not like the guy that treats you "like a goddess" but, that's exactly what you deserve, and someday you'll find someone who will.. that you will love dearly and feel the same way for.
Keep your chin up, be strong, you can leave him.
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Do guys prefer girls to make the first move? Say a girl sees a real cute guy for the first time. Would he want her to approach him first, or would he approach her if he wanted to? I'd really like to meet new guys to get over this one that I've liked forever, and I want to get some pointers on meeting new guys. Any help, thank you. I rate 5's. (link)
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Girls tend to think guys always need to make the move. What they don't realize is that guys are also shy about making the moves on a good looking chick.
I'd say go for it, make your move, if you like him, what could be the worse thing that could happen? Right?
As far as pointers, hang-outs in your town are always a good starter.. and simple comments on something you realize you both have in common.. (noticing his clothes.. a game he's playing.. a topic he's talking about something.. ) are good conversation starters.. go from there.. Good Luck!
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well there is this boy that told me he likes me, but i only liked him as a friend then....and now that i saw him again, he acted totally the same but then somehow i am madly in love with him now...i am pretty sure that he still like me but i am not really sure...how can i know...and also, he doesn't go to the same skool as me so would it be bad or weird if i was his gf? (link)
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If your not sure, you have to put yourself out there and ask him.
If the two of you can still see eachother, I don't see how it would be weird that you'd be his girlfriend..
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Hi, I like the group ICP and my girlfriend doesn't, she doesn't like it because it has killing in it, she hates it. Should I stop liking it or just keep listening to it, I just wanna make her happy, what should I do?? (link)
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It's just music. You can try to not listen to them around her though.. ;) Surely she can't be mad about what your listening to when she's not around.
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I'm involoved with a married man and have been for two years now. We started out as just friends and the relatonship evolved.He's scared to leave his wife because they share two children together. I'm very much in love with him and want to be with him. Lately I've been feeling he's been wasting my time because he hasn't left her yet and I feel he never will. When I ask when will he leave or make a decision on leaving, he tells me he cant leave his kids with her and wants to know he could get full custody before he leaves. What should I do in this situatuion? HEEEELLLLLPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Ok.. first you should of never let the relationship evolve. This guy is MARRIED not only married, but WITH KIDS. Which should tell you, that even if the marriage is "rocky" now at one time it wasn't like that, no matter what "stories" he's told you.
As far as men getting full custody? He'd have to prove her completely unfit in the court of law, and having friends in this situation, where it looked SO CLEAR that they could prove her unfit, it rarely happens.
You shouldn't waste your time waiting for him to leave his wife, because if he wasn't going through a divorce when he met you, he probably never will. NOT only that.. but what happens if he does?
Can you live with yourself knowing that you ruined those childrens "family"? Do you think they'll ever respect you when they find out, and they will find out, that your the reason daddy left mommy??
Not only that, if this man is cheating on his wife, it's most likely out of boredom REGUARDLESS of what excuses he's told you. What happens if/when he leaves her, and gets with you? How long do you think it will last till he gets bored again.. and is cheating on you? How do you think you'd feel in the same situation?
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I've been liking this guy at school. He's been giving me many compliments & flattering me lately. He's been asking to hook up in school several times and I really do want to, but when it comes down to it and we're finally alone in school, I freak out and stop myself. I've waited so long for that kind of moment with him too. We'd be perfect together but I'm just scared someone will see us, I'll look slutty and he won't respect me because we don't go out. Should I just finally do it or forget the kiss? (16/F) (link)
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It's not so much a slutty thing to do. But if all he's asking is for you to hook up, he could just be a creep not looking for an actual relationship with someone, just someone to fling around with.
Even the sweetest guys, can turn around and tell all.. so follow your gut, if you don't feel "right" about it.. then don't do it.
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Hmm, okey..
I was just wondering which one of these is best:
WinMx
Bearshare
Kazzaa
Imesh
e.t.c
I've heard some of them give you viruses?
So which one is cheap and doesnt give your computer any viruses?
I appreciate any answers =D
Sorry about the spelling mistakes, just that im in a hurry :P
Have a nice day ;) (link)
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I use Limewire, I've had no problems with it. Being a home-made computer the others have bogged it, and then I'd have pop-up problems but, this one seems good enough ;)
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I have this really close guy friend and we tell each other everything. I started liking him a while ago and he felt the same way. He asked me out and I said yes. We haven;t been going out that long, but for some reason it's so weird for me and I almost feel annoyed with him. He's such a sweetheart and hasn't done anything wrong. I am just feeling weird about the whole thing. What do you think is wrong? Should we just be friends since its really weird, or should I give the relationship a chance?Thx. (link)
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If you feel better as friends, and the relationship just feels odd. Then perhaps you should break it off. Sometimes being friends just is better, I'd at least talk to him about it, you might find that he feels the same way.
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okay...theres this boy that i wanna ask to our end of school dance, but i already asked him whose hes goin with and he said no one and i didnt ask him to the dance. i have no idea how to do it. any suggestions? or any ways to get him to ask me? (link)
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Just be brave and ask him. He's already said he doesn't have a date yet, and trying to get him to ask you can take too much time. Just go for it. Good Luck!!
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hey my name is Ashley and i'm a feamle(of course) and i'm 14 yrs. old heres my question for anybody with good advice!!!
I like my best friends ex!!! Heres the scoop... they broke up because my best friend was confused and she cheated on him. Well now(two months later) she starts telling me she now knows what she was missing and she really did love him and she wants desperately to go with him again. Now i've been talking to him since they broke up because he needed a friend cuz he really liked her but she cheated on him.(yea i kno guys actually have feelings...well at least the good ones) and i'm starting to like him now i mean he's the perfect boyfriend he's cute, hilarious, loving, i don't know he's just soOoOo great!! the thing is that my best friend who i've been friends with for almost 11 yrs. still "loves" him i really really think she'll be so mad if he askes me out or if i ask him. I dont know what to do cuz i dont want her to be mad at me but i dont get very many guys nowadays and i really like him and he told me i was hot yesterday please help me!!
Luv,
~~~ASHLEY~~~
P.S. i rate high
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Never date a best friends ex, it can only lead to fights and possibly losing your best friend.
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... i love my boyfriend and never want to leave him .... its just sometimes ... i dont and i want to kill myself because he never seems happy with me ... he get irritated and even slaps me sometimes. But i dont want to break up! Please help ... I dont know what else to do
~ Hurtin' on the outside (link)
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It doesn't matter if you love him, it matters if he loves you. And NO MAN no matter how much they say they do, loves a woman they hit. You really should get far away from him, he's not good for you, or your self esteem.
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hi, im 15 f and i really want a bf. but everytime i go near a boy i get all shy, is this normal? please help
confused girl :S (link)
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It's very common for girls to get shy when around their peers. I wouldn't worry much about it, and as you get older things will get better ;)
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