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Hey,my name is Amanda aka Mandy,and im 16. Like most teen girls ive had my fare share of boyfriends, break ups, friend, health, and family issues. I guesse you can say ive been throught the whole teen drama. Il Try my best to give good advice!
E-mail: xox_mandy_16@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Oshawa, Ontario
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Age: 16
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My gf and I just started having sex 2 months ago. She's been with 6 guys before me and all that. I can't make her cum and she said it's because my penis is too small. She wants me to make it bigger by taking the pills they sell the stores. I am only 17 and I think you have to be 18 to buy the pills. What can I do for her instead? I feel bad because she's so sure it's because my penis is too small and that's embarrassing. Shes really into having sex and if she can't get off she is really unhappy. Should I just break up with her so she can be with a guy who is bigger? I get hurt feelings because after sex every single time she goes on and on about the problem (link)
you can NOT make your penis bigger

end of story.


dont bother with pills, theyre just money scam.
and most likely not all that great for you.

Tell your girl friend... who is obvioulsy shallow that what you see is what you get and if she dosnt like it... too bad so sad.

find a lady who treats you better and hasnt been around :)

you deserve better!



i hooked up with this guy 2 weeks ago and we had sex. it was fun and after he asked for my number. i gave him my cell but he hasnt called me yet. he said hed make sure to call me soon. how can i tell if i was just a hook up or if hes really interested in me? he seemed like he was really wanting to be with me more than just hooking up and sex. he even kissed me before i left. but he hasnt called and that makes me think he just used me. my bff said to give him time. how much time? (link)
Im sorry to say it seems to me as though you were just a hook up. When a guy likes you, and wants to see you again, you`d have heard from him by now.


I recently discovered that my wife isn’t in love with me anymore. She hasn’t left me, but it’s come pretty close. I know that after we had our child, that the spark hasn’t been there. Our focus has become our child and our careers. I also know that I have made some mistakes in our marriage. But I do believe that I am a good man, and a good husband. She doesn’t have high hopes that we can ever get back what we used to have, but I do believe we can get through this. I love my wife more than words can describe and I just want to win her heart back. Has anyone gone through this and succeeded? Can anyone give me advice on how to make her fall back in love with me? (link)
the way i look at it is she fell in love with you onece upon a time. Why not reflect and see what the two of you were before getting caught up in a life of children and careers. Romance her, take her out on dates, spend some alone time like you used to. Just make time for one another and see what can (if possible) be rekindled.
Hope this helps, :)


I know everything happens for a reason but i honestly am so confused about this...

There was this guy last year named CJ and he was dating someone named Julia and i didnt want to start any drama but i really liked him and from what i could tell and what i heard he like me too. He always flirted with me and stared at me. At his graduation, he stared at me. Not his girlfriend. And because of myself not wanting any drama i kept my feelings private.
-Is this wrong???

Now all i do is think about what a chance i had, and why did I have to screw it up?? Saying i regret it is an understatement. But sometimes i see him driving down my street. Every time he sees me he just stops and stares, even when he is with her. But he is leaving for college in august and is going to have a new life.
-What should i do??? (link)
I've gone through this many times. For some reason i find my self beeing the nice girl, like you.
But i also find myself wondering what if i spoke up?
My advice, dont let yourself wonder. Tell him how you feel, but in a "take it or leave it" way. You dont want to force him into anything or make things hard for him seeing as he already has a gf. Just let your feelings be known. Like getting it off you chest. Then the rest is up to him. If he acts on it good. If not, there's someone better out there waiting for ya.
Hope this helps. Good luck.




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