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well I DID go out with this guy for 9 months and last friday we broke up and surprisingly i got over it not fully but i dont feel the same for him as i used one cuz hes a jerk now and two hes not talking to me but there is this reallllly cute new kid who i talk to all the time he already knows i like him and he likes me . we talk all the time like to the point where people are wondering if we are going ouT! but theres the thing i do want to and he does too i think but idont know if its to soon to do go out should i just date like hang out a while or just wait a month and then go out with him???! (link)
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no dont wait if you honestly like this guy you shouldn't wai its not to soon specially if the other guy is a jerk youll get over him soon cuz your already almost there anyway so if i were you i would go out with the new guy
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I have been with my boyfriend for over two years now. He's always been so good to me and I love him so much.
A couple weeks ago, I went on his computer and saw that he left a comment on this girl's picture saying how beautiful she was. I can't explain it, but this literally broke my heart. Probably because it was so unlike him to do something like that. I confronted him about it and he said it didn't mean anything and it wasn't a big deal and he was sorry. I believe him. I really do. But I can't understand why it still hurts me so much to think about it. It still kills me inside even though he really didn't do anything that horrible. Sometimes when I'm talking to him I'll remember what he did and I'll get upset about it all over again and he doesn't understand why it's such a big deal.
Can anyone explain why I can't get through this? I don't want our relationship to all of a sudden be bad over a stupid comment. (link)
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you are having troubles becuase you obviously love your boyfriend so much you cant stand the thought of anything like that thats whyit hurt you so much just let him know that and that how much you love him and how much you believe him and then just tell him your having a hartd time getting over it even though he may not understand its worth a shot
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I'm blaming my hormones for this cause I really can't think of any excuse for someone feeling the way I do. I'm in love with an asshole. Yes, you heard me.. I'm fully aware that the guy's an idiot, yet I'm cool with it. Except I'm not. See.. I walk around constantly being mad at the guy, I hate him. No seriously.. not hate as in "i hate that he doesnt like me" or "i hate that he treated me like a jerk" as in - seriously, 100%- i hate who he is. His attitude towards things, his looks, his way of being. I just don't like it. Yet, I love him. DOES THIS MAKE SENSE TO YOU?? I mean, really, is this normal behaviour?? I hate everythying about him, yet I love him. Now this is not good. Because he's an asshole and we will never be together.. and I made sure to get over him.. I live in another country now (so ill never see him again!!) I deleted my msn and his phone number and go out every night.. I'm doing everything according to the get-over-someone rule-book. BUT IM NOT GETTING OVER HIM! I'm not listening to our songs, I'm not thinking about the way he touched me or the things he said or the way he made me feel. I've accepted that I was being used. That he did not care. And that we will not be together again. Yet I cant help but praying in the middle of the night that one day, he'll come up to me, like something out of a movie scene, and tell me he finally relaized we were meant to be. But he wont. I KNOW him so well, I knwo what he's like, he pretty much said it loud and clear "i - don't - think - you're - worth - it" he thinks im a bad kisser, and he doesnt like my body, and my sense of humor.. HE DOESN'T LIKE ME. I can't seem to get it through my head. I mean I know I can't make him like me, so i have given up.. but it's the WANTING him to like me that I can't stop!! I promised myself if he one day said "lets pick up from where we left off" I'd say: "No." So I guess I don't actually want HIM. I jsut want him to want me. No thats a lie. I want him. Every part of him. I want to marry him. Be with him forever and ever. If I had him I'd be so happy to be me - I wouldn't be able to envy anyone, I'd be able to tell freakin Angelina Jolie "Ha! You might think you're lucky, with Brad Pitt, lots of money and you're perfect body.. but you know what?!! I HAVE RICHARD!!" I love him. I hate him. HELP!!! Do you see?? This cant be normal? I hate my hormones. I hate being a teenager. And I hate that I just turned 17, and I didn't get HIm as a birthday prsent. I hate that I let myself obsess over him for 4 years, and he stopped liking me after 4 minutes. And I hate that everything i think, I think for him. I don't want to get married one day to be happy - I want to get marrie one day so he can see I'm over him. I dont want to go to university to get a good future, I want to go to university so he can see I'm a success. I dont want to get a facebook to stay in touch with friends, I want to get a facebook so he can look at my amazing life and regret not being a part of it.
Help me, please help me, I can't feel like this anymore. Have you ever erased someone out of your mind? Please share your secret, because I'm afraid one more day of thinking about him and I'll lose my mind.
I've done everything that's possible to get over him I swear, I've gotten closure in every way possible. AND I've given it time, lots of time. So NOW what?!
I love him. I hate him. I love him. I hate him. HEEELP!!! (link)
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there is something deep inside of him you love thats why you love him you just dont see wat it is right know
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So I'm going to be a junior this year.
I really am lonely. I like who I am,
I'm comfortable with myself to an extent, I mean I think I'm a pretty decent girl. But I've never had a boyfriend, I try flirting with boys. I dont know what I'm doing wrong, should I focus on school more, and then focus on boys?
Its just one of my biggest fears is being alone forever, I just guess I need reassurance on that I wont be. But it does seem evveryone around me has a boyfriend, so I dont know what I keep doing wrong :( (link)
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i feel impathetic for you all my friends have boyfriends and im still single my crush notices me but weve never talked befor scince he is an upperclassmen do have somebody you maybe like get to know them better and see if the act nervous or really nice then once you become good friends maybe you cant ask him out
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He broke up with me 3 times, first he broke up with me because he HEARD a rumor that i wanted to break up with him but she couldnt so he broke up with her, so when he found out it wasnt true that i wanted to brake up with him so wegot back together and 2nd time was he broke up with me again because he doesnt have feelings for me because he liked someone else when we were going out but he didnt wanna tell me because he was scared that im gonna hate him, but after that we still talk to each other a lot and he asked me if i had feelings for him and i said yes and he did too and he asked me out after that but then he said he wants to keep the relationship a secret because he didnt want people to know and its annoying when people asks about it so we went out AGAIN for 4 DAYS and he broke up with me again because he was confused and didnt know what to do and i told him not to talk to me for a while but he still does and after that he asked me to move on and stuff he gave me advice about moving on but then he asked me to call me and i told him no because im gonna fall in love with him again and he says"who knows maybe we could start over again" and im confused because hes the one told me to move on but now hes saying this, this is his 4th chance and my friend told me not to because she doesnt want me to get hurt and stuff but i really dont know what to do what do you guys think? (link)
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ok well this guy sounds like an ass if he keeps on breakin up with you or wants to keep your relationship a secret but dont get hurt by it and i would start over with him but NOT as a secret and this should be his last chance
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15/f (soph in high school)
okay so.. this is gonna be really long and confusing sooo im sry. okay theres this guy i went out with for a REALLLY long time. lets call him "A". so i broke up with A at the beginning of the summer but i still kinda like him. like whenever i talk to him again i like him more. i dont kno i never really stopped liking him. and he like keeps asking me to hook up with him and stuff. like i dont think he likes me, i mean he could but all of his friends hate me for some stupid reason (probably bc i go to a different school than him...its stupid) so he would never admit to it. but then theres this other guy. lets call him "B" (he goes to my school). hes one of my REALLY good friends. well i kind of like B but i think he likes this girl in another state. which is really stupid bc nothing will ever happen between them. she lives on the other side of the country! well he like flirts with me and we like text/talk all the time and like there was a dance last night that me & my friends decided not to go to and he texted me and he was like "where were you tonight?". which means that he like cares somewhat right? since at the dance last year he was like all over me. ok just to make this more complicated.. theres this other guy. lets call him "C" (he goes to my school also). well C is like one of my best guy friends too. i was talking to him a few days ago and he told me that he liked me. this was on aim. i havent seen him since like july but like we talk a lot and stuff. i told him i didnt know who i liked. i told him i was deciding. and he asked me if he was one of the people i was deciding between and i just said yes bc i didnt wanna make him feel bad. so now he like really thinks he has a chance. but i dont like him.. but i also dont want to hurt his feelings. so what should i do about him? theres this other guy too. lets call him "D" (he goes to my school also). hes another one of my good guy friends. i was talking to him online a few days ago and he was like "you hate me" and i was like "what? no i dont" then he told me to rate how much i like him on a scale of 1-10. he said 5 was really good friends and more than 5 was more than friends. so i said 5 (because i only like him as a friend). and he like got all mad. so i dont know what to do about him. then theres this other guy lets call him "E"..jeez this is getting complicated haha i hope youre following all of this. but anyways he goes to the same school as my ex and theyre really good friends. anyways E calls and texts me all the time. hes told me before that he likes me. and he says all this cute stuff all of the time. i like him as a friend hes really funny and nice. but i dont really like him as more. i mean i flirt with him and stuff but hes just a fun guy ya know? like even if i did like him i couldnt go out with him bc my best friend went out w/ him in like january and also hes my exs best friend. anyways hes basically like obsessive. like i feel like hes stalking me sometimes. so idk what to do about him. like i want to tell him to back off.. but then again i dont want to hurt his feelings. then theres this other guy. lets call him "F". ive been kinda on & off about this guy. sometimes i like like him and sometimes i dont. hes really confusing bc sometimes he like picks fights with me and then other times he flirts with me like A LOT. like he keeps asking me to hang out but then when we did him & his friends like ditched me & my friends. i think it was kinda a joke but i still got mad at him. so i dont kno whats up with him either.
HELP? (link)
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well dont go out with someone you dont love and even if there nice dont flirt with them becuase when you tell them you want to be friends theyll be heart broken i think you should date the one you love the most the one thats right for you
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okay well, heres a little backround information...
josh is my current boy, brandon is my x-boy.
in basic form: josh skrewed some girl while going out with me and i have him admitting it on recording but i havnt said anything to him yet, and brandons step dad wants to do everything he can to mess my life up and upset me and my family. and now that brandons coming back i dont know what to do... help please! please. brandons coming back into my life again in a week.
in long form:
josh and i have always had a thing but had never gone out. brandon and i had gone out, and we where going out untill brandon got locked up. at first it was okay, we sent eachother letters, but then we couldnt anymore. so i broke up with him. i loved brandon so much he ment everything to me. i thought he was the one, the one i was gunna marry. anyways, josh started making moves on me while brandon was locked up, somehow he wone me over even though i voued to stay with brandon. i started going out with josh and it was awesome. we have been going out since january. now brandon is getting out in about a week, im so skrewed because im still head over heals for him. he had my friend that got out on a pass from being locked up call me and tell me that brandons still in love with me.
but get this...
this person that called me also let me listen to a recording of my current boy, josh when he was drunk and he admitted skrewing my friend sara! and he said that he would do it again. i havnt said anything to him yet but oh my is he going to get hell. and my parents dont like him because hes not white (im white.)
and brandon, his dad called my parents and tried to skrew up my life by telling them terrible lies about me and saying that brandon didnt want anything to do with me although it isnt true. but my parents dont like brandon either because hes been locked up.
help please, please. (link)
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well im sorryt but i think you should dump him if hes just going to skrew her agian and i dont think sara is a very good friend if she did that to you i no you love him but it doesn't matter if he skrewd somebody else and as for brandon you could get back to gether with him even though your families dont like it but i can tell you it will be hell so you can get back together with brandon or go solo for a while but i wouldn't stay with josh
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Alright, so there is this guy in my spanish class that i've had a crush on since like 6th grade. i know this sounds stupid, but i don't really talk to him that much. However, this year he sits diagonally from me. How do i get him to notice me, and how do i start talking to him, i guess to like become friends. I'm kind of friends with the guy that sits behind him, and he talks to the guy that i like.
also, there is this other girl that is really popular, who i think is ugly but all the guys like her, sitting right next to her.
ahh help. (link)
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well if youve had a crush on him scince the 6th grade you should first talk to him and become good friends even if you dont like to cuz you get nervous or you just dont like to cuz if you dont then you guys will never go anywhere or you can just leave him private notes that way you wont make a mistake and embarrass yourself
then if your afriad to ask him out get somone you can trust to ask him out for you and as for that popular girl problem we have some of those girls in our school too psh girl please you got to get to know him if he falls inlove with you then that other girl dont matter evil dont cost no thing and that girl is worth nothin
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