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hEy Im annie and im 13. Im hEre tO hElp yOu wIth nOrmal teenAge prOblems, Or jUst whAtever yOu neeD advIce wIth.. I've Been thrOugh alOt sO i hOpe i cAn heLp!

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My boyfriend is 16 and he has a anger/authority problem. His name is John. He has been to the jdc 5 times and boot camp 3 times. I was just wondering if you think that will eventually cause a problem in our relationship or if it could cause him to get violent with me?

14/f P.S. we have been together almost 2 months now.



yah i deffinetly think so* i wouldnt want to date a guy whos that angry at the world and such. when hes 18 he might get in jail.. break it off



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Ok...goin out wit dis guy he is just turned 16 and i have bin 14 for a couple of months we have bin together for a while, he is so spesh i had my first kiss with him and he told me he didnt care if i was rubbish and sed help me, but after he was so mazin, nw we kiss all da time and are crazy bout eachova, but my parents r so phyco, well if they found out they wld FLIP MEGORLY!! i duno wt 2 sy 2 dem, hw cn i break it 2 dem 2 let them knw we r seroise n wld never have sex underage coz he isnt like dat n evry bad time iv had he has bin there...i am like my dads little princess..and wen my mum found out i was txtin a 16 yr old she fliped imagine wt she wld do if i told her!!PLEASE HELP I BEG OF YOU!! I JUST WNT A GIRLY CHAT WITH MY MUM BUT I DUNO HOW!!! ITS AWKWARD SHE HATES ME!! I WNA TELL HER BOUT MY BF!!! Plz help xx upset girl xx



dear upset girl,


just tell her your dating him, not his age or the kissing just you have a bf. then later like a week or two tell her his age. about the kissing.. does your mom have to know about thta i mean thats personal. tell her if she asks but if she doesnt then.. dont



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OK, recently I had this weird dream that ( i asked a question before about my BF two-timing me) my BF and I were in a blech place, like a dirty basement, except it was a set of a movie... we weren't filming we were off stage. And somehow we talked about kissing and he said, 'do it if you want,' I was smiling by now.. and so I kissed him -- LORD IT FELT SOO REAL! Grr, I hate those dreams when they feel real but they're not. Anyways, do you think my dream was telling me something? check my other question out about my boyfriend two-timing me.

kiss him in real life. it will be even better


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okay.. im only 12 and me and my boyfriend have been ating for 2 and a half years.. and like we kiss ALL THE TIME but WE dont french kiss .. and i like really wanna french kiss him but i just dont know if he wants to ...what should i do :( Thanks !!!

all guys want to move up a step. i bet he is thinking the same thing as you.. lol so just slip him the tounge and see whats next! lol

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Hey, thanks for replying. I understand what you're saying, but I mean It's so hard to just move on. Everytime I try to, I always picture myself with Him. I don't have a clue what to do. It's so difficult.

i know butits the right thing to do. you cant have your mind on this guy all the time. its auvious he isnt the one. maybe get a hobby or join a club (co ed club) like a sport or maybe a hobby club. you'll find the perfect guy there!

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There's someone, someone I love. We were so perfect, but if there's something he doesnt like about me, he'll confront me on it after we have broken up. We were "friends" everytime after we broke up, except this time. It's gotten so bad. He cusses me out on everything, and leads me to believe that he wants to get back together. I want him really bad again, and I keep falling for him, really hard too. It's crazy and mixed up. Everything is so weird and my relationship is way too long to explain, but from that what should I do?

cussing you out? i dont think so. it seems like this guy is playing you. leading you on and such. if i was you, i would find another guy, maybe one who actually cares about your feelings. i noticed you said "we were so perfect" key word there, is were. i think he makes you sad and no guy should do that. it may be hard but forget about him, there is someone else for you.

~hope for the best~


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dear annie....

lately ive been kinda lonely....i miss having some1. i dont know what to do i keep trying to find some1 new but it doesnt work. alot of people tell me i seem depressed....maybe i am. im confused and need something to finally make me happy. what do i do? ( and ive already tried hanging out with friends,having fun without ...someone and evrything id normally do to feel good....i feel stuck so i need some really advice)
-confused

dear confused-

i've felt the same way many times. its like.. once you have a boyfriend and then it ends, you are just needing a new guy. i hated it but i moved on. this is what i did. i espetially hung out with my friends a whole lot. there is always some guy out there that likes you but you just dont know it. try talking to another guy about it. if you find some one atractive ask him out. the worst thing that could happen is him say no. hang out with your favorite family member. talk to your friends about it and they can help you. i really hope this works!

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annie

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my friend just told me she was talking to my boyfriend ont he hpone and he told her he didnt really like me anymore =[ and i kno shes not lieing cause like i dont kno you can just tell and cause the way hes been atcing . and knowing him he won't tell me this for like a week and i dont kno what to do

confront him about it. simple and easy. if its true, then deal with it. wat else can you do?

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i dont know whats wrong with me but when i day dream its always about this one guy. I fantasize about him all most every second of the day. The weird thing is i never talked to him before. he lives near my grandma and whenever i go over i see him there. I think hes hot shyt but my mom and cousins wont let me tlak to him. I egt so mad when i go there and he doesnt come near me. why do i think about him all the time when i never even talked to him?

ive felt the same way about a boy, and it never went any farther than seeing him and wishing he would come over and talk to me. i think youve got a crush. not love.

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My friend Jane has a mom, and Jane is dating a spanish boy, and her mom says she has nothing against Spanish people, but her mom isn't allowing her to date Jane's bf! What is her point?

maybe janes hispanic boyfriend is trouble?

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if my boyfriend live long away apart(not that much he lives in alexandria v.a,i live in d.c) and he wont me to come see him and i wont him to see me because i couldnt see him anyway cuz my parents wont let me go that far so wat do i do and i really love him truly

im 13 and he is 16

id say forget about him i mean you are 13 and i think it could just be a middle school crush.. im sorry he lives far away but youve got many more years to live and meet other guys so break it off and find a new guy.

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Hey. My boyfriend is my best friend as well as my boyfriend. He was my best friend first, 4 years prior. He is dissapointing me as a boyfriend, and though we usually talk everynight, I want to take a break from him for a while. I need advice on what to think about, what to focus on, instead of him. Thanks.

ooh this is a toughie.. id say get a new hobbie and meet a new guy! there is plenty of other fish in the sea.

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i just found out my bf is gay! i don't have anything against gays but i mean... it's my BOYFRIEND! what should i tell him and how should i react. this is really hard for me!
please help!
I rate high

i think you are going to break up with him since you are a girl and he likes guys. im sorry!! first confront him about it and if it is true, then the right think to do is split it off.

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ok well i kinda like this guy but mi like best friend likes him also so i dont no wat 2 do? should i tell her? or just act normal and say nuthin? not really sure wat 2 do

i think you should tell the boy your feelings. if he says he doesnt like you, then its over and you dont have to worry about your friend
hope that helped!
xoxo
annie

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k.. i really love this kid john, he loves me alot too. but hes going away for 2 nd a half weeks, he said he was gonna ask me out in augest the begniging (sp). should i wait for him to ask me out? or should i just TRY to get over him?

i rate high. =)

x.O.x. c.o.n.f.u.s.e.d x.O.x

you should deffinetly wait. if you guys are both serious, then wait. he may be the one!

xoxo

annie

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i really wanna get into a good relationship with a guy but so far all of my relationships have just been flops. not a serious sexual relationship, thats not what i want im too young 4 that. but just the kissing and holding hands and cuddling. but so far nothing. im not ugly or anything im actually pretty popular and pretty. i know i might just have to wait for a relationship like i want to come along but its really hard. please give me good advice i can rate high thx 13/f

i know it may be hard to wait, but if you find a guy who is cute, and your good friends with him, then i say go for it. he may be shy, so talk to him, maybe online or even give him a note. say i know were friends but your really cute and im interesed in dating you.shocking but true: i did that and i got a guy he didnt even knew i liked! he asked me out like a couple days after i gave him the note and i had a great relationship with him. hope that works out for you

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