my name is emiLy mostly remixed as emMa ,eM, or eMmy.. i love gymnastics, cheering,soccer,basketball , football & baseball ( but i dont play those 2 lOL), hanging with my friends, and of course giving advice ..you can ask me anything =).. X0OX
my life is ever so messed up, i know you think that I`m head-over-heels in love with you but its just a crush..a crush thats crushing me.♥
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ok well i liek 2 kidds .. and yea .. well i like them but im looking for another person inside them that im not quite over yet .. it seems that every guy i fall for .. im lookin for this kidd that at heart is my best friend .. what should i do .. thanks ..
Love always ..
Maddy * (link)
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hey sweetheart =) .. you cant deney your feelings Maddy, I would talk to this boy that at heart is your best friends. You need to discuss the feeling between you guys. If there is nothing their mutualy then try talking to the other boys you like try to hang out with them see whicho ne you feel your most compatiable with. Dont worry hun everything will work out. If you ever need more advice you know you can come to me. I`ll always be here for you Maddy. Just i/m me! Needa chill more .. xo sisters
♥ emMy
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OK SO i LiKE THiS KiD BUT HE LiKE`SZ ANOTHER GiRL AND i WANT TO TELl HiM i LiKE HiM BUT i MiGHT LiKE ANOTHER KiD THAT i WANT TO TELl i AM JUST REALlY CONFUSED WAT SHOULD i DO ??!!
THANXX SO MUCH (link)
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be honest with them Once you figure out your feelings who knows they could like you just as much as you liek them.. hope i helped hun
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ok there is this guy name josh and we went out over the summer then broke up a day before school started. I still like him. we havent tlaked in a while but the other day we did a little bit. Last week my friend asked him would he ever go back out with me, and he just smiled. but he has a girlfriend. Also, alst week someone asked him would he ever go out wth this girl name brooke nad he said nnooo .. but he didnt say yes or no when someone asked about me. Then wed. at church, he sat near me but not right next to me .. it went me, his friend murphy(murphy likes me) and then josh and we talked in a group for a little bit. Do you think he still likes me? what should i do? im 14 and female (link)
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yes I think he might have a little crush on you =).. as too what to do I would wait for things between him and his girl friend to die down, you dont want to make enemys with them. good luck girlie.. give it sometime.. but if it takes more than like 3months Id try to find someone else you dont want to wait forever, but you cant deney your feelings.
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hey emily.. its liz. craig broke up w/me =( im upset about it i mean i REALLY REALLY liked him.. you dont kno how much.. in tha 1st place i didnt think he liked me (from wat you heard him say) but he gave me a chance & i gave him a chance.. we went out for 3 days & he told me it wasnt working out.. & itz like how isnt it working out if weve only been going out for 3 days?!? & id do anything to get him back! =( no1 understands why i like him so much but idc.. & everyonez sayin i can do better and i cant im trying to get over him & im trying to keep my mind off boys.. but its so hard to get over a person whos on your mind all the time.. im not trying to force him 2 like me.. i jus like him so much.. should i keep liking him & jus MAYBE we`ll go bak out again? or move on.. thankz emily love you grl -- best friends forever xo
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If you stiLl really like him .dont deney your feelings. it sucks to do that and makes you feel so much worse. There is a chance Liz! he`s guna wake up and say wow im such a dumb ass I just gave up an amazing girl I needa get her back! Any guy would be lucky to have you Liz = ).. best friends! just give it time.. becuase time heals all wounds and it will be hard so if you ever need anyone to talk to you can come too me! best friends love ya liz!
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I go out with this boy .. i dont really like him but i was doing it to get back at this girl .. cause she kissed my boyfriend and shit and was flirting with him .. i dont no the boy to like him .. but he says he likes me .. what should i do ...
lol you no who this is .. love ya (link)
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you shouldn`t go out with him yet. who knows once you get to know him you could start to like him for real. but for now i would end it , I think it is for the best, because you might both get hurt worse than you already are * Its your choice but I bet this desion is mkaing you unhappy as well as he will feel *xOox
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p.S i know who this is .. best friends
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ok so0O a couple days ago this boy asked me out n i said i duno n i said ill tell u my answer tomorw cus he didnt seem like he would be somebody that i would go out with so0O i said yea n now that we go out im like SOO CRAZY about him i love him so0 much n hes not use to goin out with shy girls n im shy n he noes that n he told my friend how long should i wati to ask her to kiss me 2 or 3 weeks n like im afraid hes guna cut me cus it doesnt seem like he likes me that much anymore so0O do u think i should kiss him or talk to him n see if he still likes me or wat shuld i do
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he might be trying to give you space because your shy..and let you feel comfortable, but dont kiss him if you dont feel ready or you dont want too, you oculd try talking to him but he might deney anything bad it im not sure, if you really want someone to talk to him have a friend or one of his friends.. hope I helped .. rate honestLy.. if you need anything else just ask =)
♥ eMma
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Hey emma ... this is Desiree , is it ok to feel like you wanna die if the love of ur life brakes up w\ you .. he said he didnt mean it and it was because it wasnt working out, im not mad at his but i feel like without him im shit! I feel like i cant go on. At first when katie called me and told me i thought i was okay , but then i got on the computer and talked to him and balled my eyes out. I never really thought i could cry this much , i mean i never did not even when my grandfather died , i didnt cry this much , i was grantful for what i had when i had him because i always thought he`d come back , but now look at my , i feel like im slowly dieing with out him .. i cant stand it ,
so is it okay to feel like you wanna die? (link)
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No it isnt. Its understandable your feeling your heart break bit by bit. and enventually you will get over this. If you ever need to talk about it you can i/m me.. I know we dont talk much but Im always here for you ..I hope in a couple days you dont wanna die hun.. you`ll get through this.. X0O .. rate honestLy *
♥ eMma `
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(im 16 and a dude case it helps) ok i liked this girl for...lets say a long time n ppl say she s liked me a lot for a long time too...and i asked her out n everything was ok for two n a half months n she broke up with me n sed we should jus be friends... so obviously i was like WTF n then like a week after she dumped me she hooks up wit some other kid n i still love her wat can i do to make her realize how much i care for her n how can i basically get back with her without causin any BS wit her neww bf
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I would tell her how you feel. I think its the only thing you can do, with out interfering with their realashonship. Sorry this advice isnt long. I couldnt really think of anything else but be honest with her that wouldnt interfer with her boyfriend. I know you wont probably rate high. But I tried to help =/
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mii boii freds b-day is comming up i asked him wat he wanted he sed nothing all i want is you but i really want to get him something but i dont know wat to get him!!! (link)
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what is he into?.. if he likes sprts get him something to do with his favorite sports team or sport. You could get him a hat.. or a chain.. or a chain bracelet.. im sure anything you get him he will love.. hope i helped
♥ eMma
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I think I'm falling for my bestfriends boyfriend. We'll they really don't go out yet but they really like each other. But the thing is I talked to him more than she does. What am i supposed to do? (link)
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you can`t ignore your feelings. but I wouldnt interfere with their relashonship. but I would tell him how you feel. I know it seems hard but I would just tell him online or in a note. follow your heart. rate honestLy
♥emiLy
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Hey Emily, Whats up ..nm here just chyllen .. Umm ..I really like kid and he asked me out but i had to say no because my friend likes him .. and i really like him , but i dont want to do that to my friend. And she keeps saying shes over him then says shes not and i dont wanna wait forever cause i really love him =( .. So what should i do go out with him , or not ? cause i feel like a bad friend if i go out with him but she keeps changin her mind!
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talk to your friend about it. This boy isnt gunna wait forever adn neither shouLd you. SHe should be happy for you ( i think )>. but then again I see where u and your friend are coming from. So talk to her then talk to this boy . lOl
♥ eMma*
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how do i get this boy to like me cause he knows i like him and he likes but he wount ask me out and im afraid to ask him out. (link)
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you could have a friend ask him out for you.
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you give crappy advice. What do i do? (link)
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Don`t ask if you dont like my advice =]
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whos older carmine or john gotti? (link)
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Carmine is older than John.
hope I helped.. Rate honestly
♥ emiLy*
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well i love this kid named phill..when ever i havnt seen him for a long time (1 week) then when i see him i love him!! he just got out of a 1 year relaship (sp) with a girl named gina. phill likes me and stuff..but idk i love him..should i like ask him out or wait a little bit! i rate high
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Its your choice.. but go for it. ( ask him out )
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ok well my friend really likes this kid, and i think he likes her but im not sure. he has a web page and on it it says in a relationship but it never said who so i think he just wanted to put it in there. they talk on the phone and all she talks about is this kid but i dont want her heart to be broken if he does have a girlfriend, cause she really likes him. i have a strange feeling about him cause he smokes and drinks but she said she doesn't care. What should i do to help her? (link)
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I would just tell her your worried or what you think about him. Try to get her to meet or hang out with other boys. See if any other boys liek her , help her get to know him , an make plans with him . I`m sorry I can`t tell you exactly what to say* I hope i helped you in some way tho.
♥emMa *X0OOXXOX
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i lyk liz but i dunt want newun to noe n evrywun thynks i do should i keep away frum her or tell her wut if she tells the skoo i dun noe i thynk she pretti i would of got her sutin for vtines day but i didnnt noe wut
i am not gun say hoo dis is or ne1 (link)
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you dont have to say who it is. Dont care what other people think. If you have feelings for her you cant change them. I would tell her , or have a friend find out who she likes, or you could talk to her on the computer and ask her and then she most likely will ask you adn just take the chance and tell her hope I helped.. rate honestly
♥ emmA *
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Heyy emily iitsz Desiree wats up babe? well quess what! i lost my virginity =/ i had sex! but i really like Sam! Me Katie Nicole all had sex we met mexicans n we did it! i regret it! Katie *&* Nicole can be such hoesz! they made me should i styll be friendsz with them? help me Outt! Desiree Ooxx (link)
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Are you serious ? and no one can make you have sex with someone else it is your choice but.. someone can make you have sex with them but that is rape. I seriously hope this is a joke. And I dont knwo Nicole, but Katie isnt a hoe.
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okay there is this girl that i no nd she really likes this kid that doesnt like her.
she gets all pissed at everyone for talking about Him and i really like him..
I Wanted to lose my Virginity to him but im not sure if that would be the right thing to do?
My friend that really likes him is moving soon so should i hook up wit him then?
i am really confused because i dont no what to do and its going to be vacation soon And than thats wen i want to do Stufff with him.
Thanks for Ur Time,
x o Me o x (link)
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I`m not 100% sure what you should do ,I mean it`s your choice if you want to lose your virginity with him but you may lose a friend too. ( If she finds out ro if anyone else does.. how old are you? because you might be to young and want to wait anyway, ) I also think it is sort of wrong because your friend likes him. If you want to do stuff with him .. I would wait until your friend loses feelings for him or until she moves. ( well atleast wait to have sex with until one of those things happen ).. thats what I think is right. But its your choice.. I`m sorry I couldnt tell you exactly what to do. But I hope my opinion helped you in some way.. I really hope I helped you. Rate honestly
♥ *emiLy
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first off, im sure your not ugly dont think that hun!.. next , I would write him a note. and just be like so did you think about it yet? do you want to go out with me. Only write him like one note saying that and asking him other wise he may tink you are pushy and pbsessed just be patient, he may need a little time to think about it because he has never had a girlfriend before. and you have had boyfriends, so he might be shy and is afraid to be unexperienced. Hope I helped. Rate honestly.
P.S > Don`t listen to your friends even if he isnt the cutest boy that shouldnt be what its all about and they should be happy for you , if I was your friend I would be =).. *( do I know you ? )*
♥ emiLy *
X0OXO`
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