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So I went out with someone a little over a week ago...and he hasn't really talked to me ever since...in fact, I think he's ignoring me almost completely. I think maybe I did something wrong...should I confront him about it?
Instead of jumping down his throat and asking him about why he has been ignoring you, ask him if everything is okay because maybe he has a lot on his mind and he doesn't want to be by anyone.
If nothing is going on and he just doesn't want to talk to you, then that's your cue to confront him.
I highly doubt you did something wrong in a relationship that's been going on for a week.
You have got to talk to him about this before your feelings for him start to diminish.
Good luck
hi, my name is Caitlin and i am 14 years old. i will be 15 july 28. okay. i have had acrush on a boy since his first day of school. it was sort of obvious i liked him. even the teachers asked if we were dating. anyway... on the day of promotion he told me he liked me. i told him i liked him. he is not aloud to date til he is 16, but he acts like i should ask him out. on the day we got together with a whole bunch of friends he would put is head on my sholder and put his hands on my arms. he got really close to me and it made my stomach do flips. what should i do? ask him out or wait until he asks me when he is 16?
If he can't date until he is 16, then you and him should follow that rule. Instead of having the label "boyfriend and girlfriend", whenever you two are together, just be flirtatious and maybe just be "together" for now. Ya know, just like each other.
If that doesn't work, the option of being friends is always there.
Why does my man always need to know everything that I do? I have a cellphone that I bought and he wants to know every minute who I am talking to and what I text when I text. He wont let me go out or have any friends. I am just expected to sit home and wait til he gets home from events in his life. Is this love or he loves to control women? He did this with his ex and now me. I didnt know that he was like this. He is the same way as when I am on the internet. I have to even let him know when I have to pee or take a shit!!!
I agree with Christina VV
This shows very early signs of obsession with you. If you don't take action now, follow your instinct, and end it now, then i hate to say it, but this is going to get worse.
Please, do the right thing
How do i make a girl want me? Everything iv sad or dont she has sad she heres it all the time from other girls and she always gets screwed over. How can i show her that im not gonna screw her over and that i truley want to be with her and that i am different from every other girl? helppp
The best way to answer this is just be yourself. Instead of using other lines people have used in the past, be creative. Don't hover over her all the time to get her to notice you because that's a little creepy. Every now and then, give her a nice smile whenever you see her or say hi and keep walking. If you keep it short and sweet and make yourself irresistible, she will want to talk to YOU.
Once you two get comfortable with each other, explain to her that you are not like anybody else she's been with. You do truly care about her and want nothing but the best for her. Maybe you won't use these exact words or this method. But, if you sit her down and have a conversation and spill your feelings out, from your heart and soul, she sure will understand and make up a decision.
I hope I helped :) GOOD LUCK!
Well I'm a junior in high school, and last year this boy, who flirts a lot with many girls, including me, started to really have feelings for me, and I just blew it off because he was always just play flirting. He finally convinced me he was serious, and I really started to develop feelings for him. I found out he had a girlfriend this whole time, and got mad at him for flirting so much with me. He told me he didn't like her and broke up with her. I really liked him so we started dating over the summer. He started acting very weird and ignoring me after a few weeks, I finally got sick of it and we decided we were going to take a break, which turned into a break-up. We came back to school and he apparently liked a new girl. He still texts me and tells me he misses talking to me, but always changes the subject when it comes to our relationship. He also told me he didn't like the other girl. I don't know what to do because I've tried to get over this boy but I really think I fell in love, and now I'm stuck because I know I should get over him but I cant. I don't know what to do because he obviously has problems with staying with one girl, but i just dont get how he can go from being sooo into me, to this. I'm just miserable and don't know what to do because I dont want to give this up when I know hes the one for me. Please any advice that would help would be greatly appreciated:)
Aw, I know exactly how you feel because I've been in the same situation. Boys always send mixed signals and it gets you so frustrated that you want to pull out all your hair, right?
In this case, this boy may like you a lot, but he sounds to me like a player. He flirted with you while he had a girlfriend, dumped her, went out with you, ignored you, you two broke up, and then when school starts, he's liking another girl !
He may have seemed worth all the trouble in the beginning before you found out about him fully, but now since you know what he's like, you should still be his friend of course, but nothing more. But, if you really want to be with him, you should tell him how you feel about this situation and how it's affecting you emotionally, and if he understands, you have to tell him that he must change in order for this to work.
If you need anything else, just ask !