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Okay people! (I've Only Had One Boyfriend In My Whole Life) I have been single for 9 months now, I like this guy and he likes meeh back, but there is restrictions causing us not to date, and I somtimes think he is pushing me away, and I still wanna be his friend. So what do I do to get other guys to like me? _LoNelY OnE_ (Thickbabyie4u)
dress to impress, make youself pretty with makeup and stuff. if you know your going to be with guys make sure you look good. dont be shy try to be as outgoing as possible. tell me how things work out.
much
Hey, i'm 17 and there is a great chance of me being pregnant right now. I'm not on birth control or anything! So, i was just wondering if someone that has been pregnant know's the syptoms of the early pregnancy? I haven't started my period yet.. its only a few days late and i've been having sleepy spells. If you know could you please help me out!? :( Thank you.
ive never been pregnant before but i would say you should take a pregnancy test and birth control. tell me how things work out.
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My angel is leaving for the Navy in about 14 hours and I am having a lot of trouble coping... Does anyone know any good coping skills for me to try? I really would appreciate advice... (by the way, I am 17 and female) ~SammyPie
im really sorry hes leaving. my sisters boyfriend left too, but in the long shot he got to come back home. turns out he had kidney stones. he'll come back in a while it might seem long but you'll manage. find ways to entertain yourself and get your mind off things. also he can send you letters and such so you 2 can still talk. tell me how things work out.
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ok well this might be weired cuz im one of the advice helpers here but i cant help my self...so please help me...ok well it all started when i met this person and we always talked and we were like good friends..but then it kinda got oviose that, that person liked me and i started to like that person too...well then we admitted it to each other that we like each other alot...and everything is going great..but theres a probelem im not the only one that person likes see the person just broke up with a person and the person still likes the x alittle but the x likes the person still and the person i like likes another person too so the person likes me and another person andthe x alittle...should i make things work ro do u think i shouldent cuz im not the only one the person likes? please help me im really confused!!!!ill rate u for this!!
confused
that was really confusing but i think i got it. you should go out with this guy, he likes you and his X, but him and his X already went out and maybe he will get over here by going out with you. tell me how things work out.
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my friend who i have known for 6 years just told me that he is in love wit me.. actually its something out of a love movie.. an something i have always wanted.. only i think i dont love him like he loves me.. i love him so much but i dont know if its as a friend or more.. an i cant figure out how to figure that out. PLus there is another problem - i am in love wit someone else.. or wait.. not in love. but i like someone else. a lot.. an i cant figure out if i should go wit my friend of 6 years an try the fairy tale life.. just for a while.. or wait on this other guy (i have been waitin on him to tell me how he feels for a while..i know he likes me but he keeps too much from me, ya know?!) But i need my heart to tell me who to go for an who i rly do love/like. but my heart just wont tell me.. plus another problem. the guy.. fairy tale guy.. best friends wit for 6 years now guy.. well one of my good friends like him..an she doesnt know that hes in love wit me. but he is gonna tell her but. even though im barely friends wit her an i have known him an been tight wit him longer.. ARgh i dunno.. help plz
thats really hard. if i were you i would just wait it out and see if this guy you like alot comes through for you in the next one to 2 weeks and if he doesnt then you should give your fairy tale boy a try, it couldnt hurt. as for your other friend that likes your fairy tale boy she has to know that he doesnt like her like that and she'll have to get over that. tell me how things work out.
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My best friend is a guy. I've known him for a while and we're really close. He sleeps over my house a lot and hang out together a lot. But for a while i've been having strage feelings. I look in his eyes and wanna kiss him right then and there. I hug him and i never wanna let go. Im starting to think about him all the time. And i really think i like him. But should i tell him? I'm afraid if he knows what i'm thinking, he'll be afraid to hang out with me anymore and we'll stop being friends. And that would be the worst thing in the world. What should I do? xo0x ANO
dont be ashamed if you like your best guy friend. it happens all the time. just tell him how you feel, and who knows maybe he feels the same way. you guys could wind up being an awsome couple. tell me how things work out.
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I've have a weight problem. I know I do. Everyone one I know tells me i'm skinny and hott and stuff like that and I don't believe it I think that i'm really ugly. I know it's a low self esteem thing but I just don't feel that way. I don't know what to do. I look in the mirror and I see a fat ugly person and I've always made wishes and everything to be pretty and skinny. And then when I go out with friends or something then I get whisled at and get told i'm hott and have even strangers talk to me. I don't believe i'm hott AT ALL! I don't know what to do should I believe my friends and try to see it myself what????? I don't believe it!
-signed lost-
i know you hear this a lot but it is low self esteem, or you are just saying your fat and ugly for the attention. im sure your not as ugly and fat as you say you are if you are getting strangers whistling and talking to you. tell me how it works out.
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Hey my boyfriend recently got drunk and while he was drunk he said a lot of sweet things he has never said to me before. He told me he wanted to marry me and start a life with me. I was wondering if that really could be true. Because he was drunk. Do drunk people say whats on their mind or make up bullshit?
usually when people are drunk they are more openminded and will say anything on thier mind. i had a boyfriend and i was drunk and my friend was saying we had to go and i was lik "noo but i love him i dont want to leave" and it was the god honost truth...
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Hi,I'm Charm & am 14. I have been with my boyfriend, Gregg for 5 years. We are only 14, but we are in love, it was truly love at first site! Anyway,When we both met, we promised eachother to stay virgins, until we got married, we know we will!Gregg is so romantic, he is always leaving cards in my lockers saying I love you and always hugs me and one time on our 2 anniversary, he gave me a fake rose, before i asked him y a fake one, he sed it was because fake one's last forever, like our love! I love him so much, but we kissed before ,but never made out, u no. we wud kiss on the lips, like a peck or something, but never actually moving our heads or something and we really want to make out, but how will I no wat to do? Help, I need to no how to kiss him.
thats so adorable... ur so0o lucky.. but if u wanna make out just when u guys are sitting somewere all alone just start cuddling up to him and look at him and go for it.. simple as pie :-D.
tell me how it works out.
much
I have been going out with my boyfriend 4 a lil over 9 and a half months, but lately he has been acting a lil weird. Online and on the phone he has stopped saying, "I love you," and he seems 2 b more concerned w/ playing computer games than talking 2 me. When ever I see him though, he is his sweet, nice self. Does any1 know wit might b goin on? Or am I just making a big deal outta nuttin?
yeah after that long of going out the guy just seems to get so comfortable with u and him going out that he doesnt feel he has to say i love u and call u as much.. cuz he knows u know he loves u.. tell me how it works out.
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i like this guy and me and him have been going on and off for like 6 months and then i finally dumbed him for good then summer came and we stoped being friends and that hurt so much becuz i loved him so much but then i went to this place with my mom for 2 weeks and made some new friends and i met this kid and he was just so nice and sweet and me and him really hit it off and we started dating for the 2 weeks and i then found out that hes going to my skool so now im real happy but everybody keeps asking me oh do u still like well call him "fred" and i go no but today my friend steve asked me do u still like "fred" and i went yeah so now i dont know if i should just stay with my b/f becuz i love him too hes just so hott and sweet to me and everything or if i should dump him and go back out with "fred" im so confused someone please help me asap
im 14 and im a gurl and i need help
in my opinion u should stay with the b/f u have now bcuz it isnt fair to him if u break it off with him for some old boyfriend and u shouldnt go back out with ur old boyfriend because it didnt work the first time or how many other timees u guys went out so odds are it wont work this time and if u do go out with ur old boyfriend and break up again u just hurt another person in the process so just think about it. tell me how it works out.
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hey may name is kate ! i have a huge crush on this guy well call him "bob" and i have for a while hes just soo sweet and a super nice guy and hes hott! but i dont knoe if im in love whwen i see him my stomach like flips and i get sweaty palms and my knees get all week! and i think he feels the same way cuz hes always smiling and stuff and winking and starring but ne ways do i sound like im in love ! by the way im 15 if that helps ! please help me quick im seeing him tontie and i need to knoe wether to tell him how i feel ! plz help !
kate
its prolly a really big chrush u dont fall in love when ur 15 unless ur reallly lucky so most likely its a crush *get em all the time* tell me how it works out.
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i have and incredibly small penis my friends call me my friends call me teni weni (my last name is valenTINI)my girlfriend went dowm my pants and she asked wheres ur penis and the looked and laughed and left my house
how can i get her back?
i love her
what a bitch! dont go chasing after her. not worth it maybe u just havnt hit pubirty yet or something. just wait till it grows and until then keep girls out of ur pants and save ur self the humiliation. tell me how it works out.
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i have been single for like 5 months and i feel really lonley i dont like anybody now but when i do i feel like they are not gonna like me back i mean i dont put my pic on my advice column cuz i feel like people are gonna be like "wow shes ugly she needs to take that off" what do i do??
man i feel ur pain... i havnt had a boyfriend for ever it will be a year this october! scary! but ull find a guy sooner or later. theres a guy out there for u somewere and go ahead and put a pic inur advise column cuz the people who matter dont mind and the people who mind dont matter.! tell me how it works out.
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Hello, me and my girlfriend have ben dating for about 6 months and have ben going out for 3 we are boath ready for sex (we are 15) so the other night we were in my room when we decided that we were gonna have sex. so when it came time to bring out pappy (aka my cock) she said it was a monster penis (13 ins) and she didnt want to do anything, i was so horny that night and my hopes got shot down, what should i do to get her to like big weaners
thanks you so much
so0o she scared of having sex with a big dick? go with foreplay for a while and maybe she'll get to kno ur wang better lol! ttyl!
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everyone says it comes natural..but i don't realluy see how..i'm going to the movies tomorow night with my b/f and i know he'll try to kiss me.how do you french kiss?..what do i do?..move in close my eyes then what?! i'm guna cry..lol i'm 14 and it'll be my first kiss?..any step-by-step advice or encouragement is greatly appreciated
when he leans in to kiss you just tilt ur head the opposite way and he'll stick his tounge in ur mouth and when hes dont u do the same but dont do it to long and gag him lol! and make sure u got good breath cuz i made out with a guy and i started to gag i felt really bad dont let it happen to u.
--later.!
how do u get a boyfriend i dont wanna act like a whore
if u act like a whore to get him your turning into someone else for this guy and if u act like a whore he'll think u r a whore and thats not good. so just be yourself and dont be afraid of him. flirting never hurt anyone.
if uv notticed iv asked a lot of q's. sorry about that..but i got a lot of problems..ne ways..I'm really shy..and a lot of guys i feel take advantage of me..they r always trying to get me to give them a hand job..or touching me..and i feel really unconfterble..idk wut to say to them..i wana tell them to stop..but then idk y but i feel bad so i just let them..wut should i do the next tiem some guy slaps my ass??? or the next time a guy ask's for a hj..or trys to flirt with me???? N how do i do it nicely..i feel like iv been molested too much :/
okay dont tell a guy not to flirt with u like dont get all defensive or something. but if guys are asking for handjobs? youll get a reputation as a big slut. so the next time a guy starts feeling you up or sumthing just look at him give him a weird look and be like what are you doing??? theyll get the hint.
i live in a small town and there was a rumor that i was a lez but it blew ova a while ago but i still cant get a boyfriend in my town but i go to allot of otha towns and i can get any guy i want in but i like guys in my town more that probably y i can stay in a true relationship....how do i get the guys in my town to like me?
okay if u wanna boyfriend in your town then go for it and cram it into thier heads that ur not a lez but if they dont wise up and go out with u, then to hell with them go get a guy that really matters somewere else.!
Okay, I like this guy, he's 20 and I am only 16. No he's not a rapest. He's got alot of respect for me and my father (he's afraid of him) and also he won't date because I am too young. But he said he likes me back... what should I do... I know he's 20 but I've cared about him for about a year now... and he knows I want him.... so do yall think there's a chance for me in the future? Tell me what you think! Be honest Plz!
man my mom is 6 years older than my mom! 4 years is no biggie mabe if ur dad says something lik "i forbid u to see him" then wait till ur older and move out then u can do whatever your little heard disires!