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Wassup? I love giving advice! You thank me later...Name: Jen
Age: 16
Location: Maine
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Go ahead and ask a question. I answer em everyday, and im know for good advice! Dont beleive me? Eh go ahead and give it a try. Ive been through everything. Brother/Sister situations, parentals, School, Sex, Drugs, Alcohol. I know it all. =D
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I was wondering, do you ever wonder why cirtain guys dont like you? I mean im young 13, n i jus wanna get a hott guy to chill with
Sorry i cant really touch this one, except to say, if your only looking for a *hott guy to chill with* then your too young to date. =D
I gave up on love awhile ago..even though I don't want to, it just happened. Most of the guys I've dated were jerks. I don't trust guys and I resent all of my ex's and I can't help it. I haven't met a single guy in my school or area that was decent and I'm really starting to hate men. I'm not going to like females but I don't understand why men are such jerks. Someone help?
Simply, its in their blood. lol. No seriously though. It could be that you just havent found the right person for you. Are all the men youve dated had anything in common? *besides being, "jerks"?* Its possible that all you need is to do a little research. Maybe you need to look Beyond looks, or hair color, or eye color and dig deeper. Theres ALWAYS someone out there =D
i know this boy and we dated for 8 months 2 years ago then we didnt talk for 2 years and then we started talking and we botrh started liking each other and like i moved to vegas from ga and im goioing bak in about 10 montha and we decieded to have sex then we got in a huge fighta nd he still thinks i will have sex with him whne i come bak what sohuld i do i really do love him im not sure if he loves me
Look. There is one simple answer to this. DONT HAVE SEX UNTIL YOU WANT TO! If you feel like he is pressuring you or going to make you do it, then you need to tell someone. BEcause thats wrong. Another thing, just because you love someone does not mean you need to have sex. If he loves you back he will understand. =D
xo-Jen-ox
Ok well Ive liked this guy since the first time i had ever layed eyes on him. I was the new girl so I thought he was out of my league... as years went on we got really close. We had liked each other at one point... but nothing really happened. Well I'm trying to get over him. I've tried everything! a different guy... trying to tell myself that I dont.. everything. But with a different guy I never have the same feelings as with him. And when i keep telling myself I dont, it works kind of good... until i see him and all my feeling start rushing back. He has hurt me so many time... I dont know how many times I have cried because of this guy. I just need help.. what do I do?? I dont THINK i'm like in love with him or anyhing... but every time I see him, all of a sudden, every care in the world goes away... and I get kind of nervous... but I try not to let it show. My bff keeps telling me that I need to get over him because it's been too long (like 4 years!) and he has hurt me so bad... but I cant help it! what should I do?!? ahh! please help! I'll rate if you ask!
Well.You didnt really mention how he feels about you. Have you talked to him about it? Casually bring up the fact that like *last yea i totally had a crush on you.* and see what he says. The rush feeling could also be love, but not in that way. Brotherly love! Like ive mentioned to others, when you know someone that long its just like knowing your brother. You get jealous when he dates other girls because you still want him to be around you, and you hate it when he hangs out with his other friends and not you. Its perfectly normal. So try telling him how you feel if you guys are close friends. Its better to let it out than keep it in and hurt your self.
xo-Jen-ox
Okay, I got this male best friend, he is one of the most sweetest boyz in the world, and we both know eachother EXTREMELY WELL. But see I hooked him up with on of my buddiez, and I just realized how much a cared for him when I noticed how jealous I was when they both started talking. Now he knows my situation and we still good friends and all. But now it's gotten to the point to where I can't look at him the same. And I feel bad cause I am jux that jealous. But he knows my heart and he knows the kind of person I am. So do anyone think he'll come around or anything like that? I know I got him thinkin about it cause I tell him all the time. I really really do love him alot, and I'd give my life for him anyday and he knows it....it's just weird cause he is my bestfriend....so what should I do?
Ooh. Ive been in this situation before. See i have a friend, who hooked up with a friend..blah blah. Its Jealousy not necessarily because you care for him as more than a friend, but because you love him more like a brother. It kills me to see my best friend date other girls, because i get so jealous, but its really because im afraid that im not gunna see him so much and not going to be able to be with him as much. But you've got to realize this yourself before you do anything. You cant make him feel bad about going out with other girls. If he likes someone else, try to support him. Thats what real friendship is all about.
xo-Jen-ox
Ok i dont no what to do i have this guy friend that has been my friend for over 2 years and i really like him alot more then just a friend but i no if i ever told him i like dhim then just a friend he would freak out and i dunno what he would do but i still want our friendship to be there and i feel if i tell him that i like him he wont talk to me or something
Ok heres an idea. Something ive used once or twice. Sometimes its easier to do things yourself, but sometimes another girlfriend can help out alot. Send in a spy. Tell her to pump him for any information he might have about you, and his feelings for you. But dont get dissapointed if he says he dosent like you. Sometimes its nice to have a girlfriend who dosent want to go out with you. He might feel like your the only girl he can talk to carefree without worrying about the whole love thing. =D
xo-Jen-ox