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hey, i've been talking to this guy for quite a while now. The way i met him is that i saw him at his prom that i went to with my friend and added him to facebook. He starting to talk to me on msn a month later. He's really nice so i talked back. At the time i was grounded for a month and couldnt hang out with him. So for about a month and a half we would talk on the phone everyday. Everyday that we talked on the phone i started to be more open and comfortable with him. After i was ungrounded he wanted to hang out. But we didn't hangout till 2 weeks after i was ungrounded. When we did hangout i went over to his house, met his parents who were very nice, and we just watched movies all night. We didn't kiss that whole night till he drove me home and i said goodbye to him in the car, and we started to makeout. After that we hungout alot, i barely saw my friends anymore becasue i was always with him. He would pick me up from school and we would go out for lunch sometimes. After hanging out with him for a long time i discussed with him about dating or at least seeing each. I had had bad expericene in liking a guy before where i had got badly hurt. I had mentioned that to him and he understood where i was comnig from. I noticed whenever i hungout with him i could tell him anything. I would tell him that i had my period or problems i was having with my best friends, or even work problems. The guy before that i wasn't really that open with. I like this guy alot, but his reputation that i hear from doesn't look so good to me. He's the type of guys that isn't really a "kiss ass", or doesn't go out of his way even if he's dating a girl. I have had sex with him, and he was making me feel really comfortable with it. He wasnt the one to ask me if i wanted to, i felt ready so i talked to him about it, he had asked me if i really thought about it, which i did, and he told me he didnt want me feeling pressured that i have to becasue he didnt want to hurt me emotionally. I really want to date this guy, but i really don't know what he feels. Although i ask him about it i feel like what he's telling me isn't true. I always wonder what he says to his friends about me, or if he even talks to his friends about me. I don't want to seem like im rushing things just because i dont want to get hurt. But the truth is i don't think i can handle getting hurt again. All my friends are "if-y" about him, because i get really upset about him soemtimes, and they hate seeing me hurt. Should i break things off, or keep seeing him and see what happens? (link)
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it is my firm belief that your friends know you better than you know yourself. they can see what you refuse to when it comes to the opposite sex. it might be better to trust their instinct on this one sweetie.
i know this isn't what you want to hear, but it is better to pass up mr. right-now, than lose friendships with peole that can help you spot mr. right.
good luck sweetie.
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Hey,
Well this can get a bit confusing but I will try to explain it the best way I can.
There's this guy I have liked for a while.And we went to the movies all his friends and me and my good friend. So , he goes and sits beside me and I found him sometimes starring at me too. On msn we chatted and he said he was too shy to put his arm around me and next time he will and everything.Well, though after that day we haven't really talked.. should I keep talking to him? And ask him to come to catch a movie??
PLEASE HELP ME!
Thank you , betty! (link)
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absolutely keep talking to him... drop the hint about a movie you want to see, but you don't have anyone to go with.... he should get the point and ask you.
as for the physical contact part, keep talking to him, and as you get more comfortable around each other, things will fall into place.
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Me 13/female Guy 15/male
Lets just call this guy billy
Okay so today i gave my boyfriend a blowjob. first of all ive never even given him a handjob, we just kinda skipped that. im only 13, and i amm kinda worried i shouldnt have done that, am i too young? (link)
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I have to say, I have a little sister your age, and I would be personally mortified if she were in your predicament..... but I do think that in asking this question, you already know the answer.
However, because you made this first step on the 'road to adulthood', there are some things that you need to understand.
Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) CAN be transmitted through oral sex. You say that he is your first boyfriend, but that doesn't mean that you are his first girlfriend, or his first sexual encounter.
You must be safe in all of the decisions that you make regarding sex.
If you are feeling guilty about your choice to make this move with your boyfriend, than it might be best to tell him that it was a mistake to move that fast and that you aren't ready to do it again. tell him that maybe one day, you will be ready, and that if he really loves you, he will wait for that time, and not ask or pressure you into doing it again until then.
Good luck sweetie,
and don't force yourself to grow up too quick, you will have plenty of time for that later.
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16/M
I just met this girl the other night when i was out with my friend. I have been IMing her for like 3 days now and have talked on the phone w/ her twice. I neverrrr choke when i talk to girls, i usually always have something to say. Her friends told me she likes me and she told me.. i like her too for the amnt of time i have known her. I CANT THINK OF ANYTHING TO TALK ABOUT!! like i know ppl will say." start off with small talk get to know what shes interested in" or something along the lines of that, however its odd talking to her on the phone just asking a random question. usually i wld ask someone something becasue they hinted at it or w.e... all im trying to say is i need help talking to her, something new and exciting.. and nothing that will loose interest after a minute of talking abt it. (link)
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honestly hun, we have all had this problem at one oint or another. even with just starting platonic friendships. the best thing that i have found to work is to play a game on the phone. what you do is go back and forth asking each other questions. they can eventually get fun and random. from what is your favorite color to your most embarassing memory and what are you allergic to. it will give you both an insight into each other lives and the ablity to learn about each other in a fun and exciting new way. give it a try, worse thing that could happen... you both share some embarassing stories about yourselves.
and i can assure you that she will like it. all of us girls do.
just ask her if she wants to play this game once the conversation starts lagging. SHE WILL SAY YES. you start by asking her a question. remember not to cut her off, and be honest. we appriciate honesty.
good luck hon.
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Hi :]
my boyfriends birthday is coming up on the 16th and i wanted to do something really special. this year we had a really bad homecoming, i was in a really bad mood etc, at one point i told him his tie was really ugly ( a lie) but he got upset bc he really liked it and he ended up returning it well the whole night sucked. so for his birthday i went out and bought the tie and im going to give it to him with a note saying meet me here at this time like a restaurant and have him dress up and wear the tie and ill get all dressed up and go out to eat. then i want to drive him somewhere and pull over but i dunno where to go. and have a playlist set up and roll all the windows down on my truck and have our own little homecoming. but i dunno where to go and some basics to make it cute not cheesey please help :]Thanks.
ps i live in houston,tx
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Get your friends involved! His Too! If the point is to recreate the night, but to flip it and make it memorable for being "magical", not disaterous, then you might need some help. See if you can get your friends to dress up too! Maybe keep the dinner just the two of you, but find a well lit, not overly loud parking lot, (maybe a wal-mart) and have your friends wait there with the stereo and also dressed up. (have them wait in their cars, this is very important for the surprise. Tell you you just needed to pick something up or something... then, when you park,(at like, the farthest spot from the store, but closer to your friends cars, and ask if he wants to go with you. let him kinda get out first, and when he steps out, let your friends know to get out of thier cars, and start up the music.... ask him "may I have this dance"... and then arty the night away.
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