im pretty much the middle age of teen years so ive been threw alot of experences! ive been asked to help ppl that are older then me and been very helpful, ive been helping my peers out all my life and been always there for them, if you ever need me for advice plz ask me i will be more then happy to help you! im usally better at friendship problems and love problems! kk love ya always! KaY!
E-mail: Kaysweetay2009@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: IN
Occupation: student in the 8th grade!
Age: 14
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Okay well Im going out with this kid Lucas... he is a year younger then me... Im 13 hes 12... I have never made out with anyone... & I am really ashamed of that kinda... idk... so yea weve been goin out for 3 weeks today... and hes on my bus n all my friends are stupid n they are always tryin to get us to make out n stuff... n I just feel like weird especially on the bus where everyone can see us... I dont know if he has ever made out with anyone... I think he has because his last g/f he went out wit he was with for almost a year... also in the back of my mind I keep thinking that he doesnt really like me and i cant help but be paranoid... n Ive been ignoring sitting with him on the bus n stuff just to avoid kissing n stuff... idk..
So I guess im just asking for advice on what to do about kissing and how to stop being so paranoid! any help you can give would be great!!
thanx so much! (link)
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well if you dont feel like kissing him then dont! wait intil you 2 are alone if you want, im 14 and my first kiss was on a bus and i kind of regret it! the guy was hott and everything just not the best place i guess diffently for a first kiss! make it perfect placing and make sure you really have feelings for this guy becuase your first kiss is the kiss you will always remember! its okay bein 13 and never kissed before! when you go to kiss for the first time you will know how to believe it or not you just go with the flow you might think its going to be hard and you will mess up but you wont! just dont think to hard about it alrighty! good luck! -kay rate me plz!
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there is this one girl that likes the same guy as me and she keeps on stealing him. I know he likes me b/c he has admitted it, so why did he go out with her?? I really like this kid. Should I ask him out again when he breaks up with this girl, or should I find someone else?
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maybe he just went out with her because he didnt think you were ever going to ask him out, maybe he figured that he shuold jus try to give up on you, go ahead and ask him out! if he really likes you he will say yes! good luck! rate me! -kay
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iv been going out with this guy for a few months now... you see the problem is we break up and get back together.. but idk now we rnt we have been pretty committed untill last weekend when he dumped me he swore to me he wouldnt but BAM he did first he told me he loved me and he would enver do that.. but then his feind told me he was goin to i asked him and he said he might and thats when i called it off. then i told him i was sorry we were both havin a rough night he agreed but then he kept sayin he loved me and then he dumoed me this happend about 4 or 5 times until tha last one he told me he loved me for good and that he reall did want it to last and it has lasted but its soo werid b.c now i think he is gonna dump me constantly even tho he swears he wont but i keep thinking hes goin to... do ya'll think he will or do u think he acually means it this time!
Xo ConFuZed Xo (link)
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well girl guys can be jerks and maybe he does really mean it this time. if you really love him then stick with him but dont get to upset if he does break up with you again, but maybe he wont becuase he might just realized this time how great you actaully are and actually grew up a little since the last time he broke up with you! goodluck!
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I have a new boyfriend and things are going great, but I can't help but shy away. I really want to get close to him, but I have been hurt before and I don't want to get hurt again. Does anyone know how to break down the walls that I have built up to protect myself? I would really appreciate it. Thanks... (link)
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all i can say, is just becuase one guy broke your heart and is a complete jerk maybe not all guys do, your giong to get hurt, but thats life just deal with it and dont give up on other guys though becuase he might be the actual guy out there for you! hope i helped a little! -kay
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ok so i want to break up with my boyfriend and i dont know how to do it. I want ot break up bcuz we dont talk that much and its just awkward. I am a girl and 14 yrs old...plz some one help, i wanna do it tomorrow
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just tell him stright up, that you would like sum time off becuase u never get to talk anymore, but u still care about him its just that you want to take a break for a coupel weeks to see if you too realy care alot about one another.. i hope this aleast sum wut helps and sorry if it doesnt1 but good luck.. oh and dont EVEr tell him theres another guy.. that gets him real mad n upset! ;-) Kay!
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There is this guy i really like, but my friend has been really flirty to him and is also messing w/ him hardcore and one day i was on the phone w/ him and he was like i don't like it when your friend is all over me and that he likes me alot and i'm the most beautiful/ wonderful/ nicest person he knows and about then she beeped in on his line so when he came back he was like i told her i couldn't go out w/ her because she is christian and i was like ohh. but, he goes to church with me? and he asked me out and i was like i dont even know, because my friend aparently likes you and im a christian and he was like it was just an excuse because i have wanted to ask you out since matts party ( november 9) and he wasn't sure if i liked him. yet, he is the 1st and only i have ever frech kissed and that i've liked this much and i don't know what to do because when he holds me in his arms it makes me feel good inside and i know my friend likes him should i tell her that i want to be with him or should i wait till shes over him if he likes me as much as he claims then he could wait. i dont know though. please help, i rate high. *sorry for the length*
Genni (link)
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wow... we have the same problem thats like so weird im 14 f too n hes 14 m and my friend likes him too, but anyways i think you should just go for the guy beucase he seems to really care about you and if your friend is a good friend n a real tru one then she would understand that! and want you both to be happy, if you ever want to talk about this then IM me mvgurlie09 cuz i need sumone to talk about it too!
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16 female. I really love my boyfriend but I'm kinda interested in this other boy that i met. I don't want to break up with my boyfriend for the other guy because im afraid that im going to lose him forever even his friendship. But i don't want to lead the other boy on. Some of my friends say i should choose the other boy and some of my friends say i should stay with my boyfriend. I need to know who i should choose. Please help. (link)
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if you really love your boyfriend and you know it, you should stick with him becuase you will prolly lose him, yah you might have a crush on this other guy but do you really know him? he might just be a player or just wants you to break up with your boyfriend so he can have you for a week or 2 and break up with you. stay with your boyfriend intil you actually get to kno this guy cuz you mite do sumthing you REALLY regret if you dont.. hope i could help Good lUck!
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I am a 17/m and i have problems talking to girls. There i admited it. Now i need help. Please give me some advice.
P.S. I will rate good for HELPFUL advice (link)
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just talk on the internet its alot easier to express ur feelings tehre! gl!
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hi! me and my boyfriend have been goin out for a long time...almost a year off and on and we hve been hving many troubles throught out the whole year..one of the ones that i brought on was that i cheated on him once and then we ended up goin bak out..then i figured out that my bf kissed another grl over the summer that he swore that they wer jus friends...we wernt together wen they kissed but its jus the fact that he always swore and she was one of my good friends...me and that girl dont tlk anymore. and another lie i jus heard about was that a new grl at our skewl likes him [already knew that] but he swore he didnt like her but i jus found out he TOLD her he liked her..i know these things r both true for a fact and then the girl he kissed over the summer he swore he would never go to her house nemore but i kno he has been there...i like him alot and i dont kno wut to do alot of my friends r jus sayin brk up with him but idk if i could...HELP! (link)
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hey, i would have to say that you seem like a great girl and you dont need all this stress in your life, you needa break up with him, you mite think its impossible but its not, its your first love obviously and not your last. i promise you will get threw this babe! good luck!
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i use to date this guy but we broke up. i still love him and i know he still loves me. hes with this gurl whos a total witch, but hes to sweet to dump her. he thinks he loves her, but shes just doesnt care. we re still friends he talks to me bout and wants my advice but iam always at a loss. do i say what i want him to do? or what he should to be happy with her? or what? (link)
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hey, i think you should straight up tell him how you feel about him, and just tell him you know he still loves you deep down side even if he doesnt realized it yet you will. still give him so advic n act like u are okay with him n that girl, but kidna make it obvious that ur not lol, yea im confushin but i did it once n he realized he rilli did love me after all and realized the girl wasnt worth all of it we are still togather tilt his day too.. i hope it goes this well with you sweety! good luck!
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well lets see im 14/f and i like this kid and i dont know if he likes me... i mean ive known him forever.. and i dont no how to comfront him and tell him how i feel and that ive felt this forever.. i really need help with this. i mean hes hott and nice and sweet and everything and i think hes the one.. when i talk to him i get butterflies help me please!!!!
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brittany* (link)
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well i think you should just write him a note and ask him if he likes anyone, if he has trouble answering its more likely going to be you, then you just tell him how you feel about him if he doesnt feel the same its okay what is there to lose if hes really that sweet guy you think he is? good luck sweety!
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