Hey! My name is Kathleen. I am overrall a spontanious person. I love to talk, an all my life my friends and family come up to me an ask random things about how they can make there life better. So I feel that it is only right for me to help others to. Only if you all choose to except me. I am willing to talk about anything. I mean it, I am honest. I wont tell you a lie, I feel as you should all know the truth. I hope everyone decides to welcome me in. Thanks!
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14/f...I like this boy named Phil. He is really shy and kind of hard to get to know. I have never seen him flirt with any girl including me so I can't figure out if he likes me or not. I talk to him probably everyday and his friends have told me that they don't know or he probably doesn't like me. Here is an example. We were playing truth or dare and I was dared to kiss him on the lips and when I leaned in to kiss him both of our eyes were open and his lips didn't even move. But he just did it and didn't say anything about it. Like I really like him but do you think he likes me or not? (link)
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Ask him
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13/m
i'm in love with a girl in my class. i have no idea what to do. seriously. i told her i thought she was pretty, and i think she knows i like her, but i have no idea what to do from here. i want to ask her out, but i'm not so great at that. HELP PLEASE
thnx in advance
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You could email/ write her a note, or have a friend ask for you.
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ok well i went to this thing called student life tour in arlington, and i was with this guy named Morgan....well me and him were kinda flirting at the begining, but then when we went up by the stage for the music part, he was starting to put his arm around my waist, but then someone bumped into him and he moved it. Then we sat down to hear the teaching and we kept getting closer(if your wondering i like him too) and closer...then on the way back to our bus/van type thing, he was walking behind me and put his arms around my neck like he wanted me to lead him or something and i really liked it, but then someone bumped into me and he moved and i think he was too embarrased to go back and put his arms around me..but i really really kinda like him and i want some advice too show him that i care for him and that i like him alot. i rate really really high!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Well when he puts his arms around you, lean into him a bit, an keep flirting.
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i met two girls and i like them both but....which.i sound shallow asking this but im confussed.there both pretty nice funny i cant choose.
somthing hapening tommorrow so can you say stuff soon
help
splitin2 (link)
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Well you could ask an see which one likes you, or find the one you like better.
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ok so me and my friend are goin on a double date with our boy friends and i am so scared becasue i want to make a movei but i am so scared like really scared i know im ready but im just really scared im scared that ill be really bad i need some tips on anything and everything there more then one thing that i need help with so just give me some advice thanxs ill rate fives if good advie (link)
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I think you should make the move, don't feel stupid. Because I am sure he wants it to happen to.
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There is a boy named Luis at my school who I recently went out with. We went out for two weeks, then he broke up with me and told one of my friends that he felt like it when she asked why he broke up with me. But he told my best friend-his sister-that he was afraid that since everyone was finding out I would get into a lot of trouble. I'm not supposed to date until I'm older(sucks don't it?). He's always more truthful with his sister because she'll make him tell the truth. she always knows when your telling the truth. the about a week ago he asked me to get an A for him on a fake computer test something like studyisand. I did and when the teacher found out we both got into trouble but me more because he just asked me. My mom thinks he's not right for me and that I shouldn't like him. but I do. and there's another boy that's in my class since (Luis is younger that me by a year) that I have a crush on. Logan is okay but he is...well...I cant really explain what I feel about him. He's gotten me into trouble to but only a little we had to miss lunch recess. That's it while Luis got me lunch detention and no recess for a week. I'm not sure about Logan because my other best friend likes him too. She doesn't know I like him. no one does other than you people who read this. I feel horible for falling for someone she's like since she moved here. What should I do? Which one Luis or Logan if either one of them?
please help me
Jen (link)
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Well I think you should date who you like better and that person will exccept it in time
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Ok so here's the deal....I went out with this guy Teddy and he is 19 i am 17... I went out with him for like a week....but we argued all the time and stuff and it was not working but i stuck through it because he really liked me....In the mean time my Ex boyfriend Rey wanted to get back with me and he is the love of my life so offcourse I took him back and broke up with Teddy.....Well Teddy won't leave me alone now he calls me all the time CRYING AND CRYING AND CRYING!!!!!It is driving me crazy he is writing me emails makin me feel like shit...and the point is i cant get him off my ass and he is now telling me he is going to kill himself and saying all this stuff.....what should i do and what should i tell him?? i just want him to leave us alone...i care about him but this shit is getting annoying already but i dont want him to do anything stup0id to him self either he already cut himself
Omg i need so much HELP PLEASE PLEASE ADVICE I WILL LEAVE FEED BANK AND GOOD RATINGS FOR GOOD ADVICE PLEASE HELP ME THANX
Anabel (link)
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What you should do is tell him how you feel an tell his parents or someone that might be able to help him.
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How can you tell when a younger guy you work with likes you? Just some signs you think are really obvious that he would like me, would be helpful thanks. (link)
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-Catch him staring at you
-Play flirting
-Always hanging around you
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My boyfriend and I are getting releeee close and like I wanna kiss him. But like, were never really alone, were always with friends. But I don't wanna plan it out, but like how do I just move in to kiss him and make it romantic. It'll be my first but it won't be his, so I'm nervous. Help!!!
Lovies x3 -Jamie (link)
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Well when it's quite, just be like wanna go for a walk. An just talk, an maybe sit somewhere then just go in close look into his eyes and just kiss him.
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im a girl freshman and i like this junior. he doesnt know i like him but his friends do. im embarrased to tell him i have a crush so how can i tell him without embarrasment and how do i tell if he feels the same? (link)
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You could always write him a letter, an try hanging out with him. See if he flirts, or keep looking out to see if you catch his eye often.
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14/m
ok last month after a 4 month relationship i accused my gf of cheating ... idk sum random girl popped up on aim and told me this and i was the dumbass who believed her. n e ways we kinda stopped talking for a while and i really want her back, i've liked her sooo long i cant even imagine NOT liking her, shes the only gf i've had and im the only bf she's had. and i really want her trust back.
and i dont want the "just start randomly talking to her" thing i want honest answers that require thought, also i would prefer girls answer this question (link)
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You should invite her over, sit down. Ask her yourself what happen. An tell her that your sorry for accusing her for something that you weren't 100% sure of. Get the whole story, an just tell her that you want her trust back and want to be with her and make sure you support things an her, with comments
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well heres the deal i like this dude (im 14/f) hes 15 i think idk... we flirt and he seems to like me but its not moving fast enough... what are some ways like subtle things i could say to get him to think that i like him ? i want it to be very clear... but not desperate
i just broke up with my bf of 10 months not too long ago if thats any assistance (link)
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You could just tell him that you like him, or ask him if he likes you?
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im so confused.. a while ago i found out the guy i liked, liked my best friend. now i dont like him as much but i still do a little bit. but now im confused because i dont no if he still likes her but he is always hanging around me and talking to me and today when i was working in school he came up and just started showing me what he was working on.. do you think he likes me now? and if he does what should i do? (link)
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He might, an if you like him. Just flirt around.
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whats a good idea on how to loose wieght?
i have no access to the gym and i dont want to go run outside. Is there anyway of looing wieght insdie myt house?
PLEASE AND THANKS!!! (link)
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Do yoga, it's fun. Gains muscle, loses weight, gains balance.
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i have been with my boyfriend for 8 months. everyone has always hated my bf. because he is black. i have dealed wit it. but saturday i went wit my cousin to see my bf (just like everyweekend) and he brought his best friend with him. i got attracted to him. my bf noticed it to but i always denny it. anyways me and him kept talkin and on the way home he started talkin about my currennt bf and how i should leave him and all this stuff. i listened to it but couldnt leave my bf i have a lot of feelings for him. he is my first boyfriend who i have loved so much and he was my first kiss, first make out, first everythin in a realtionship. idk if i should leave him or not. i will admit he has raised his voice at me but apologized. my cousins friend likes me a lot he always tells me he loves me and puts a whole bunch of comments on my myspace about how cares about me. (my bf doesnt noe about any of them. he thinks my cousins best friend is my cousin.) lost and confused can someone give me some advice. (link)
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Well ask yourself, what makes the other guy so special to leave someone that you have shared so much with, an love?
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I'm 16/female and the guy im talking about is 16. He has always been there for me and i think that i love him. I've known him since grade 8 and now we are in grade 11. He has a girlfriend that he tells me he's going to dump. Every time i see this guy he is with a different girl. He knows every girl and every girl i talk to likes him. But, i don't think that he likes them in that way. But then he tells me he likes me and that he always has. He tells me that he can't resist the urge to make out with me. meanwhile he has a girlfriend. So, what should i do about this guy that i love because there are so many other girls in his life. Even if we start dating he will still be all over his other friends that are girls. I'm desperate, i love him and he doesn't know, and i cant tell him either. Please help i need to know if this guy is playing me and these other girls or are his feeling are real for me. (link)
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Well maybe he does "like" you, or just has to have a "girl". Maybe he has a fear of being alone. Just be careful because if he is always with another girl, you might watch to watch he doesn't get with you an then just up and leaves you.
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i like this man but i can't tell if he likes me back help!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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You could straight out ask him, or flirt with him. See if he flirts back and shows intrest!
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i just started going out with a kid form elementery school (now where 8th grade) but i haven't like really talked to him since 6th grade, my friend hucked us up. the only tyme we see each other is on the way home(we go to different school) from the bus stop.Anyways i'm kinda shy what should i do? what should we talk about? i want him to love beindg around me? ~Please Help!!!!!!~ (link)
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Well get his number, call each other. Make arrangements to hang out. An just talk about life, or just do something that intrests the both of you.
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Ok, theres this boy I know, and have known for like, ever, and he has started picking on me here latley. My Grandma says he likes me, but I dont think so. He is cute and all, but I dont if I like him. I think of him more as a friend also, so, why do you think he is acting that way, and what do I say? I kinda like him, I just have a hard time thinking of him as a BOYFRIEND and not a FRIEND. Please help me out! (link)
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Well way been when when some little boy pushed you over in the sandbox it meant he liked you. An your grandmother may be right he might have a slight crush on him. Trying picking on him back a little enough to ya know see how he likes an an almost like flirting a little. Then maybe you end up likeing him a little more than a friend.
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okay here it goes.. when i was 11, i meet this boy... lets call him bob, and he was sorta a jackass to me, so then we went on for about 5 years not talking to eachother. but we did see each other around the town, we didnt even say hi to eachother, so then i move from the town i was living in with my dad, and attend another skool, on my second day of my new skool i see him again, and then me and him started talking and i figured out that he really changed in those 5 years,but i found out he has a girlfrand, so i flirt with him and write him letters explaining how much i like him, then i invited him over to my house, and he makes out with me, and he cheated on his gf twice be4 breaking up with her.. he exclaimes hes sorry for how hes treated me and that he fell in love with me.. so 5 months later hwere dating and he asks to marry me... my problem is i love him but i dont kno if im ready for the commitment yet.. (link)
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Tell him that, tell him that you love him. But your not sure that you want to make that much of a commitment. But don't tell him it's out of the question. Just say not right now, an explain yourself a little.
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