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how can i tell if my boyfriend of 1 month (sat.) is going to break up with me. my friend is saying im over reacting. cause he doesnt always text people back. but lke all this 3 day weekend i barely talked to him. he either didnt text me back. or he didnt text me first. and im so scared hes going to break up with me.so i say im not going to text him or anything so he wont be annoyed but then it kills me. cause i want to talk to him so bad. and i get all these jealous urges. and im really working on them. so someone please tell me what are some signs he is going to breakup with me. am i thinking too much? or what? please! and thankyou!! (link)
he might just need some space ... no guys like any clingy girls, i don't know if you're being clingy but with every guy it's a different definition.
don't worry too much until stronger signs occur that you can't miss.


Well i've liked this guy forever, And I am pretty sure he liked me too. We always flirted like non stop. But now summer is coming and I can tell we are trying to keep in contact with eachother (it's hard considering he doesn't have a phone) Anyway We talked online EVERYDAY Since schools let out. Then one night, I imed him and I was like "Omg joshh!" And he was like "yo" And then I was like "Omg, I just watched the scariest movie and I'm home alone and freaking out" And he was like "cool" And i was like "not really" And then he just signed off. It was so odd, he's never like that and he always says bye to me and i figured he would be there for me or something. So I just thought to myself, 'okay I don't know what i did for him to act like that so when he is ready to talk I will let him I/M me next time' Well, We haven't talked in 8 days because he Hasn't imed me. Honestly, he used to always i/m me until that ONE NIGHT I IMED HIM! What the heck did i do? And what the heck do i do?! help! Thanks so much (link)
I agree with the other answer, something is probably going on in his life. My boyfriend of three months broke up with me because of family problems he didn't even tell me about until later, so guys don't usually explain what's wrong. They tend to throw things off without really meaning to, it's kind of what they feel they need to do. So yeah, when he's online just be like, Hey, long time no talk. and act casual. I don't suggest bringing up the topic of him not talking to you for a while until a little later into the conversation. hope I helped!


well see ive been with my boyfriend 4 almost 8 months. I love him 2 death. I hope he loves me i mean he tells me he does but i dont like him goin to the mall or anywhere without me. im afraid that he might find someone else.
idk im jealous i guess. will someone please help/
WHAT DO I DO??? (link)
I was just like you. You're totally insecure but don't go overboard or let him see it. If he found another girl he likes, he'd let you go, but if he really means 'I love you', then believe him. Not ALL guys are bad guys.


im 21,but when comes to talking to boys im always blur.how can i attarct their attention?what kind of topics i can talk to them?
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Be sexy. Heh.


if I TAKE MY TIME WITH MY EX DO U THINK WE COULD GET BACK TOEGHTHER? (link)
Why did yuo break up in the first place?


I just started talking to this guy. I thought he was going to be ok to hang out with, but he knows I have a BF, and the other day he started to kiss me. It kinda my fault in a way though, he was crying so I hugged him and kissed his forehead. Then he stoped crying and started to kiss me. I dont know how to make him leave me alone, and im afraid he will bother me at school.
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Well, you DO have a boyfriend, but you should tell him to quit it...or, dump one of them. Which do you like more, personality, attitude?


I'm like a hugeeee tomboy. Like I wear long shorts and football jerseys. Im 14 and going into highschool, never had a boyfriend. Will i ever get a boyfriend. I mean, i dont wear makeup, and im big bulky and muscular. I want a bf, but i think maybe they are intimidated by me. Changing the way i am is NOT an option, i like who i am. PLEASE HELP. (link)
Hell no! Dont you DARE change yourself. You'll find someone for yourself, who likes u the way u are! DONT worry! And guys think it's cool ( i think ) when girls like the same things as they do.


I like this guy who likes my friend... but she doesn't like him. What can I do to make him think of me that way?? =/ I'll rate high for quick effective answers, I'm hanging out with him and a few others tonight!!!! ThankSSSS! (link)
Laugh, and act cute. :)


What's the best way to tell a girl how you feel about her? School's over so I can't tell her there. I could get her screen name from one of her friends and tell her over IM but I'm not sure if that's a good idea. Please help. I'm 14 and a guy. (link)
Well, you can write a note to her. :) That's always touching. Or ask her friends, and stuff...send her somethign. Girls LOVE that!


How exactly do you hook up? And what is it? (link)
Hooking up is either hanging with a cute guy/girl, or hooking up with your friends. Like if your friend says, "So, a few friends and I are hooking up after school today. Wanna come?" It means hang out.


Okay, so, there's this great guy...really smart, really honest...You know how it goes. I met him at school because we're both in the school musical. When I first met him, I had a long-distance relationship with another guy that wasn't going too well. Well, this new guy and I started talking on the phone A LOT and said we liked each other and all that. So I broke it off with the long-distance boy because I didn't want to cheat on him. Well, now I GUESS this new guy and I are dating, but lately, the phone conversations have been getting a lot shorter and a lot less...intimate I guess? We just haven't been as flirtatious over the phone. And I don't know what to do...I'm kind of stuck. I mean, he said he wanted to wait and make it special when he actually asks me out, but lately he's been seeming not so interested.......Just not as flirtatious and stuff. Can someone tell me what to do to find out what's going on? Thanks. Sorry if this is too long. (link)
Hey don't worry! Same thing with me and my boyfriend. I've been saying that a lot - but it's still good. _I_ asked someone for advice about it, but visit user doobie52, I think.


i went out with my boyfriend for 9 months, and he was my 'first person', but things happend and we broke up :( . This was about 3.5 months ago, and he has a new girlfriend now. So i dicided to move on to and now i have this guy who i like and he likes me a lot too. But i have a problem because every time i'm with him i think about my ex! i can't do it :( ... it hurts inside to think of being with any1 else. THe problem is, my ex boyfriend doesnt want to talk to me, but somtimes i know that he misses me to, but doesnt want to be with me again. What do i do? I'm so lost :( please help, ill rate. (link)
Obviously, you're not ready for this.
But same thing happened to me. My ex hates me, for some reason. He was a sweet guy and I wish we were friends. But we stopped liking each other al thought he's cute. It's what you and your ex and current BF and his current GF to figure out. Get together and figure something out, so you two can at least be friends...don't make the same mistake I made by totally letting go of a great (pathetic now!) guy!


Sometimes my bf and i fight a lot and it makes me ssoooooo angry. how can i prevent that from happening? what IS happening?/ (link)
Well, sometimes relationships do have their tough times. But it depends, what do you fight about? You can't prevent it, because it's a relationship stage. But try not to make it like this,
Your bf: "So, what about this tux for the dance?" And you really disagree with it, just do it smoothly. Don't let him take it the wrong way.




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