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Heyeveryone, i really need some help!! ok, well, i did something stupid about a month ago..i talked to some guy online and gave him my picture..and i have a boyfriend that i really love. I guess why i talked to that guy was because he asked me about my boyfriend. And my boyfriend is moving to oregon and so i kinda opened up and talked to that guy about my b/f. now, my b/f found that convo and was really scared about our relationship. He said he trusted me 100% but now, he says only like 50%. Im so0o upset i've told him i'll never do that again..but he dont believe me..he's in oregon and we are doing long dist. How can i make him trust me more?! I really love him with all my heart and I want to make it work out. Any advice on my situation?! PLEASE HELP!!! ~manda~ (link)
Trust is lvoe, love is trust, If he doesn't trust you, he doesn't love you, blah blah blah. Time will fix it, or you could move to oregon


My boyfriend and I have been off and on for the whole summer. We don't get to see eachother as much as we'd like to but I'm worried he's cheating. He always tells me he loves me, I can trust him and he isn't like that anymore. He used to be a 'player' and cheat on his ex girlfriends. He told me he changed and it's different now with me. Can I trust someone like that? Is it true... once a cheater, always a cheater? (link)
Higher a Private eye to spy on him and follow him everywhere. It's the only way.

Oh, except for thought!


ok so last year i went out with this kid Ben right but he cheated on me now hes having a baby with the girl he cheated on me with. He called me about a month ago and told me he missed me and i told him my feelings i still had for him so i've been talking to him ever since and i kissed him a couple of times. and i dont know what to do cuz hes still with the pregnant girl and i know i shouldent even be talking to him but i need an outsider opinion.
P.S i ve also been seeing this other guy whose 22 im 16 (link)
You are mad at him for cheating on you, but you are cheating on him with a guy 6 years older. Completly understandable. Why shouldn't you be talking to him? You talk to strangers... why not him!? Just don't get pregnant.


I really like my best friends bf. they just started dating today.. but i have liked him all summer. i hang out with his sisters all the time, so im ALWAYS with him. we have dated in the past too. Do i tell my best friend i like him? Do I tell him I like him? or do i just wait and see how things go between them and just keep my feelings to myself?

Please Help!! (link)
Just wait. they'll break up, you'll snatch him up, and your best friend will brutally attack you. OR things could all work out and you can wait until you find someone else... or she find someone else.


I'm 13 years old and female, and almost everybody in my grade has had a boyfriend / girlfriend or at least someone who likes them. Not me! I'm going into 8th grade, I have freckles and pale skin and I'm a redhead. I have friends, but boys like to tease me or they avoid me. help?

< I r a t e > (link)
Every boy you've ever met doesn't like you? I must admit, were that true, it would be one bad record. I doubt it's true. Somebody probably likes you, but they aren't telling you. People put too much stock in having a girlfriend/boyfriend. It's an extra, not a requirment for life.


me and my boyfriend have been together fro a while now. we had our first fight the other day... i was so mad at him and didn't want to talk to him, but he kept trying to talk 2 me trying to make things better again. well i was extremely mad at him, but all i wanted wat him to hold me and not let me go. anyways is there something wrong with me... i mean because i was so mad at him but didn't want to be away from him. is that odd? thanks in advance (link)
Anger is a tricky business. Luckily, it usually doesn't stick around to long. You were probably already getting over it by the time you wanted to be with him again. Don't let it bug you, you'll recover.


my ex want to go back out with me and i think i want to go back out with him to but i think all he cares about is looks and i gained 5 pounds over the summer because of a foot ingery and i dont look so great what should i do also i am 13 and female




qtpie101 (link)
Well if you only think he cares about looks.... maybe he does only care about looks. 5 pounds wouldn't bother any normal person... it shouldn't push him away. Watch him so you know if he's more concerned about looks...




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