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hey, do you guys believe once a cheater always a cheater? also not just cheating on someone in general, if they cheated on you in a relationship that they had with you in the past. (link)
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Generally once the door to cheating is open, the cheater feels more lax to do so in another relationship. Just try it at your own risk I guess.
Hope it works out!
---Brandon---
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I, 16/m, should probably tell you now I'm gay or you lose the entire premise of this. okay, so It was New Year's Eve and I called one of my friends (we'll call him Jake for further analysis.) Jake, 14/m, and we started talking. Jake's an eighth grader and I'm a high school sophmore. So I told him that I liked him on New Year's, thinking that he didnt like me back. Well, he did. So we dated for the next week and then I answered the phone and he told me, "your not gonna like this," and I mean, I got pretty scared. Well, then he said, "I gotta go, I'll ttyl," and then right before he hung up, he goes, "I'm straight."
So Im thinking okay, I need to talk to him and see if our friendship is still okay. So I call him back a day later and I told him I'd like to talk about it, and he says, "I dont have any thing else to say." and I got pissed and hung up.
Plus Jake's older brother is a Senior at my school and really popular in the theater dept. like I hope to be. So I got really scared that his brother might find out and just told a few of my friends.
Well, literally, two months passed without me seeing him, and then I went to my schools spring musical and he was there I talked to him during intermission and he still said he didnt know his sexuality. I told him that I thought I deserved an explanation. He said I did, but someone interupted us, and I never got one.
Right as we were going back to our seats I told him that I was over him and that I wanted him out of my life.
I cried through the entire second act, as I was driven home, as I went to sleep, and two days later.
I dont know what to do. I don't want to love him, and he doesnt deserve it, but I do. Please help me. What should I do?
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This way it's first on my column, please read if you are answering the other question.
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ok well im 14/f. and i have had a huge crush on my best friend for a while now. but he told me he didnt like me when he found out i liked him. it was really depressing and all but then i got over him and started liking him again. he never found out that i started liking him again. he still thinks im over him. but last wednessday i found out why he didnt like me. its because he was "confused" about his orientation. but he said he is not anymore and that he is strait. he also told me he loves me. he always tells me he loves me but the way he said it was different. he said "did i ever tell you i love you? alot. i mean really alot." it was the nicest thing ever and well im not sure if he likes me. because before it seemed like he did but it turned out he only wanted to be friends. he led me on in a way but its not his fault. now that he is strait i think he could like me. and he doesnt know i like him though. i want to kiss him so badly but i think that would be a bit sudden. should i tell him how i feel? or should i just go for it? oh and by the way my friend also likes him. and he knows it. i appreciate the help.
Jennifer&hearts
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okay, well love is a bit sudden at 14. Plus he probably still doesnt know his sexuality, he may not. And if your friend likes him it complicates things.
i THINK YOU SHOULD JUST TRY TO STAY FRIENDS.
I hope i helped.
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Do fat people get boyfriends//girlfriends?
Cause the basic trend is dieting your butt off and you rarely see 'fatties' getting bf//gfs.
I'm pretty fat will i get a bf? I mean I hve faith I'll get married and stuff but will i get a bf who will appreciate me? (link)
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, someone out there will truly believe your beautiful, regardless of how you think you look, or what you weigh, just be confident in yourself, and never give up looking for Mr. right.
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i like this gilr that i liked 4 a long time i told her i love d her once but she had a boy frind im 13 and i dont know wut i shoud do now shes singel and i want to ask her out but i mite thank if i do and she ses no i thank she will not even want to be friends no more (link)
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I think u freaked her out. at 13 most people dont respond to I Love You unless ur dating them, so probably not a good idea.
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i like this girl im my class but we are friends and i dont want to ask her out incase it puts her off what should i do? (link)
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Girls respond to flirting, but only if the guy makes the first move. It's crucial that you make the first move. If you're nervous about asking her out, then invite her to the movies with a group of your friends and hers. Never limit the group to only your friends or it makes you look bad.
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i met this guy about 6 months ago.
i told myself that i would not fall for him but a little over two months ago we had sex. He took my virginity and i ended up falling in love with him. i told him how i feel and he was fine with it i told him i was sorry and he said don't be. Well two weeks ago we got into this argument and he told me to get over him and to stop talking to him.
i am miserable, depressed and i feel like i have no reason to smile or be happy anymore. Ive lost alot of respect for myself. none of my friends understand me or they say they don't but when i ask them what should do they say talk to him. yes maybe i do need to talk and tell him how i feel right now but he will not listen to me.
i miss this guy.
ive cried myself to sleep the last three nights.
please give me advice as to what will make me feel better.
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Clearly you actually have legitamate feelings toward him, but as much as you want, which if you truly can't sleep, you must, then you have to let him go. Since you gave your virginity to him you will always have a sort of connection to him, and what he said may have been in the heat of the argument, but you need to move on.
If he eventually does want you back, then that decision is up to you, but until he makes that move, just try to distance yourself a bit. Date someone, just keep a lookout for him.
You never know, he may just need a little time and space.
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15/f (16 soon)
Info: There's this guy, his name is Jeff and he is the same age as me. We met once during the summer through a mutual friend. This friend happens to be my best friend and at the time she "liked" him. I just came along so she wouldn't be alone because we live two hours away from him (she's known him for years but moved). Ever since then, me and Jeff have been talking over MSN. My friend moved on and she said it was okay if I liked him.
My friend finally told him I like him and that I'm going to move on if he doesn't make more of an attempt to hang out with me (at least meet half way). I thought he knew but he knows my friend and I did have a big of a fight over him in the past so he tries to stay out of it.
Question: He's always there when I want to talk but he said "I like helping people feel better and I let her talk to me." Does this imply he's just doing it to be nice? Or does he actually like me? He's calling in sick at work and begging his dad to let him see me THIS WEEKEND. Was that just the reality check he needed?
Sorry that was so long! Help is greatly appreciated! =) (link)
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I think that he does like you. Most guys sare under the impression that girls don't like them until they're told that they do. If your friend told him then he knows you're intrested and he's just biding his time. Worry less and try to spend time with him.
If you do seem him this weekend, flirt a little, but leave the main decision up to him. If he steps up, great. If he backs down then you get your chance to move on.
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