Hello everyone!
So I have always given advice to my friends and to anyone else who needs it. I realized that I do a pretty good job at giving advice to people. I have been through a lot of different things in my life (like most people) so I have learned a lot from my experiences. I give advice to people by being a middle person. If you have a question about a realtionship, I try to take a midde approach and I do not take sides (which I think is the best kind). I would love to help you with any questions you may have and if I don't know the answer or what advice to tell you, I will let you know. Don't be afraid to ask, I am here to help! :) :)
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Location: Orlando, Florida
Age: 21
Member Since: November 2, 2007
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ok, i have a bf. but he dont talk at all to me. we have lots of things in common, but when i flirt with him, he dont flirt back. than another guy comes along... we were just friends until i started flirting with him instead of my bf. then i guess he fell in love with me, but he has a gf. he said that if i didnt have a bf, then he would have asked me out. i love him more than my pitty bf!! he is like my superman... what the heck should i do here? i feel as if i am on a verry small island... should i break up with my bf and ask if my superman would go out with me instead of his current gf, or do i just sit on this island and wait and never be rescued from this love curse? !!S.O.S!! (link)
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You need to decide if you want to be with your boyfriend or not. If you want to be with the other man, your "superman" then you need to break up with your current boyfriend. It is not fair to him if you are flirting with another guy when you are with him. If you do decide to break up with your boyfriend and be with your "superman" then you need to make sure that he is no longer with his girlfriend. If you are calling your current b/f "pitty" then it sounds like you shouldn't be with him anymore. That is not fair to him. Whatever you do, do not cheat on your b/f and do not be the "other women" with your "superman". I hope I have been able to give you some guidence. Good luck! :)
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I just recently told my guy friend (who is now my boyfriend) that I have feelings for him. So, we decided to be together and there's a huge problem.
This all happened at worse time. He joined the Marines and will be leaving shortly after Thanksgiving. So everything happened pretty darn late. The thing is that I'm not sure if I want to be a military girlfriend or wife. I'm great at doing long distance, but I'm not sure if I'll be great at this. We are both 17 and I just feel so young for this. But I admit my feelings are very strong for him.
I would never convince someone not to follow their dreams, so that's way out. I guess what I'm asking is what to expect when your boyfriend is gone for so long?
Any advice or stories would help. (link)
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Long distance relationships are hard. I believe that they work but there is a lot of commitment that is involved. My friend is "dating" a marine and it is hard being in a relationship with someone that is in the military (especially if you do not live where he will be stationed). It will be hard, but if your love is strong enough then you both will be able to get through it. When it comes to the marines you will be fighting for his attention with the military. In other words, when someone joins the marines, it is like they are marrying the marines. The marines tell them when and where to go and what to do when they get there. Sometimes he will have to do something and may not be able to call you to let you know. I know with my friend she is having a hard time with her "boyfriend" being in the marines. Her mind starts to play tricks on her because she does not hear from him in days or sometimes a week. I also had a friend that is married to a man in the military and pretty much she just tried to stay busy (so she did not think of him) and tried to talk to him every chance she got. If your love is ment to be, then you guys will be together, whether it be now or after the marines. I wish you luck. I hope I have help. :)
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me and my Bf has like 4 years thogether ,From the first time I did sex I really didn't like it at all but I just did it because off him
But now is extra boring and I really never want to do it ,...he asked me what was going on and I couldn't answer him
It's not that I don't love him anymore ,but I don't want to have sex
I even sometimes cry because I don't want to do it and if I do it and did want to ,...I ussualy cry afterwards in the bathroom
Is this normal ?
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First off (as the person before said) you should never be pressured into sex. Sex may not be boring for you, you may have a little libido and that is why you do not find yourself wanting to have sex. It also may be that you are just not comfortable doing it with the person you are having that relationship with. Sometimes people that are not comfortable with sex at all have had a tramatizing experience sexual with someone. I am not saying that these are your problems, I am just listing different reasons why some people do not want to have sex. I definetly think that if you are crying because you do not want to have sex or even after you have sex; then you must stop until you understand why you have those feelings. I hope I have helped. Good luck! :)
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so theres this guy that i like, but he has a girlfriend. well, we talk everynight and he tells me how he wants me and how he doesn't like the other girl. well , we have talked a lot about doing stuff with each other. so i just wanted to get an honest opinion on what people feel about this .. and he says he would date me if he wasn't taken so what are some ways i can step up my game a little ?? thankss. (link)
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First things first, if you are going to do something with this guy then he needs to break up with his girlfriend. If he does not like the other girl then why is he still with her? You do not want to be the "other girl". If the guy really wants to be with you then he would have broken up with his girlfriend. Do not step up your game until he is single.
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so this is going to be my first question. but none of my friends seem to be trustworthy to me right now so i can't ask them, i've been pretty paranoid lately. so here it goes, o by the way i am 13 and am female:
I had an AMAZING boyfriend, who asked me to be his girlfriend on the day before the last day of school, over AIM but it was still sweet. we texted, and talked on the phone ALL SUMMER. and i grew to well, love him. and so now this year we never talked, we were to shy. and so he talked to my bff alot more. he started to like my bff. which i didn't know about, and my bff started to like him. so they were pretty much cheating on me behind my back. and so i broke up with him, needless to say. and then my friend decided she didn't like him anymore either. and so here comes the part that gives me butterflies. my bff's ex apparently liked me. for about the 2 weeeks before i broke up with my ex. and he didn't want to tell anyone because he is really good friends with my ex. and see i REALLY REALLY like my ex still, but my current boyfriend (the one who liked me while i was taken) is SUCH a sweetie, and talks to me LOTS more. ok so i'm not sure WHAT to do. because my ex always flirts with me, and my current is sooo sweet, but kinda a dork, and not by stereotype, he just is. so...what should i do?
-at the top at the love triangle (link)
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I think that you need to decided which guy you are going to be with. It is not fair to your current boyfriend if you are going to be flirting with your ex. When it comes to relationships, you've got to follow your heart and do what is best for you. If your boyfriend now is such a sweetheart and treats you right, then why leave him? You should choose someone that is going to treat you the way you should be treated. I hope this helps. It is always hard when it comes to the heart....
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