My name is Shawntay, I am 17 years old and I live in Scottsville,Kentucky. I'm a senior and I'm home schooled for now. I did attend ACSHS until my 10th grade and then I went homeschooled.
I am engaged at the moment to the love of my life David. We are to get married "May 13th 2006". I like to have fun and hang with my friends. I like going to football games " Go Patriots!" I love makeup and the colors pink and aqua. I have a pet cat named "Pokie" that I love very much. I love music..who doesn't? I love to go places and see things that I havent before. I usually give pretty good advice to all of my friends who have hard questions to ask me. So ask away! Ask me anything you want it doesn't matter what is about. I will answer you question the best that I can and give you an answer shortly after you post. So go ahead and challenge me to answer your questions. I'm waiting.......................................... :*:Shawntay:*:
E-mail: xxx_strawberry_short_cake_xxx@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Scottsville,Kentucky
Occupation: Student
Age: 17
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Yahoo: xxx_strawberry_short_cake_xxx
Member Since: October 11, 2005
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Last Update: October 18, 2005
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Ok, I love this girl.
Anyways, I love her so much and well she used to like me as more than a friend, but something happened to me and well we got into fights and stuff. So now she dosen't like me. She knows I like her.. but she just dosen't understand how much.. almost every night i cry myself to sleep over her.. she has a boyfriend or i would be telling this to her. Anyways i found out tonight she has been avoiding me and when i talk to her online that she has been ignoreing me making me think she is away. And it made me think, I may love her so much.. and since she dosen't like me any more maybe she dosen't want to be my friend anymore.. i don't know what to do. She has changed my life in so many ways, saved my life even. *sigh* i just don't know what to do any more. And i'm afraid of what will happen if she wants to part ways and never talk again, because honestly i'd probably kill myself. She just dosen't understand how much she means to me. If you could please just give me some advice on what to do here i would be very greatful.
F.Y.I We live 40 min. away from eachother, we have met once before but only for about 30 secconds, i went and seen her in a play for her Theatre club at school and she had to go change into her normal clothes and then leave. I'd do anything for her.. please help (link)
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If I where you I would forget about her " I know its hard to do" Been there done that. Sounds like she doesnt like you or want to talk to you at all. So I wouldn't waste my time on a person like that when you could do much better then her. Plzzz don't kill your self because she isnt worth that it only make things badder in this situation. You have only met her once. How long did yall go out? It will take a while or a long time to get over her but just get her out of your mind do something keep your mind occupied and not think about her its hard to do i know but i believe that you can. You will meet someone one day more better then she is and you will be happy with her. So just dont mess with her... If you want you can leave me an inbox if you have anymore questions.
Hoped I helped a lil
:*:Shawntay:*:
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we're goin to the movies on friday and i wanna get close to my gf. any tips? i'm gonna kisser too. (link)
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*Hold hands.*
*Put your arm around her.*
* Tell her how pretty she looks and stuff.*
Hoped I helped a lil....
:*:Shawntay:*:
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i know this is asked a LOT but..
i like this guy. by these few things, does he like me do you think?
-he whispers "(my name) is such a slut!" so i can hear it then im like yur cool nd he smiles
-he was lying down nd i layed on him nd he was like just talking to me nd smelling my hair nd putting his finger near my face..lol it was cute thou
-he wanted to c if i could bite him so hes like walking his hands down my face nd feeling my lips
-he was on the computer nd my other friend was on a computer rite next to him, i was in the middle reading both ;). well he IMs "(my name) is a whore" nd stuff like like nd im laughing or wutever
-he was playing football with everyone nd he goes "come on (my name) tackle me!" (so i did hahaha, i was the only one that could, was he being easy on me..?)
-i sat next to him on the couch nd he goes "eww i dont want to sit next to (my name)" nd i just ignore it while he puts a pillow between us. then he goes "im just kidding u kno that right?"
-my friend who he was IMing next to me, she said "i think he likes you!"
do u think..?
ps-ill rate 5's for EVERYTHING thats not smart a**! cause this was long! (link)
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Yea I think he does because I had these two friends that did the same thing and to this day there still going out. So if I where you I would go for it gurl.
:*:Shawntay:*:
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Hey well there is this guy and Ive liked him for a while and today he says " I heard you like me is it true. " and so I said mabye.But then my friend said yes she does.But he wants to " hear it from me" I dont know hoe to tell him should I just say Yes i like you or what? And he keeps asking me so does that mean something.OO and he thinks 2 of my other friends are hot if that matters.But ever since he found this out he has been really sweet to me and saying how are you and if i look sad he asks if im ok.Does this mean anything? (link)
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Duh girl you got to tell him you like him because sounds like to me he digs you and thatsss goood! so tell him that you like him and you never know hemay just ask you out ;):)
:*:Shawntay:*:
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okay so i met this guy hes soooooo freaking nice to me, we talk all the time. and he told me he liked me and stuff but last thursday he hooked up with this BEAUTIFUL girl. and then on homecomign i hear he has a girlfriend and hes all over like every freaking girl.im the type who gets jealus real easy. but we made up or whatever and he came over again yesturday we didnt hook up like usual we just kissed. hes a senior and im a freshman. and i dont know why i belive him when he says he likes me. but hes soo nice. and he told my friends he liked me andd stuff but he is considered a man whore. people even tolld me its funny that i think he likes me, but i cannot help it. (link)
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I would believe your friends on this one if I where you because he does sound like a " Man Whore". Since you get jealious really easy not to sound harsh or anything but I dont think you 2 would last if you did hook up with him because he probally would be flirting with all the other gurls and stuff like he did when he had a girlfriend. The nice guys are tricky believe me I know. One minute they say there into you then if a really hot gurl walks by they ditch you and start talking to her. Gurl I think you can do better then that dont take his crap lol.
:*:Shawntay:*:
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well there is this guy and i kinda lead him on..but i did kinda like him at first but now i have a boyfriend and he told me he loved me and i really dont know what to doo...and i really hurt his feelings and i feel really bad...what should i do?? (link)
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Well how much do you like this other guy? If I was in your shoes and I done that I would think to my self of which one i like more and which one would treat me better. Since you have a boyfriend and he told you he loved you thats sweet and all but do you know if he really means it? He could be saying it because he doesnt want you to go out with that other guy. You and that guy she talk it out and see how much he likes you or if he likes you at all. Hope I gave you some useful advice...
:*:Shawntay:*:
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I have been going out with is cute guy 4 about 2 weeks. But when we were friendz I liked him better than now. He is so serious now. He never talks to me, calls me, & sometimes ignores me! It makes me feel ugly! :( I am getting very mad at him. I don't know why he is like this. I mean I want the old guy that I used to know that would cut up and laugh and everything! Not a guy who completely ignores me!! Please Help! (PLEASE No smarts!) 13/F (link)
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You should at least try to talk to him about it. But to me not to sound harsh or anything but it sounds like he doesnt care or want to be around you and really doesnt want to go out with you but doesnt want to tell you that because he doesnt want to hurt your feelings or your friendship. So just ask him if he likes going out with you or does he perfer to be friends. If so take it from there and see where things go.
:*:shawntay:*:
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i got dared to tounge some1 and i did it soo now that i did im feelin like i should take it up a noch but i dont think he does what do i do? (link)
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First yall need to talk to each other and see what he is feeling and what you are feeling for each other. If he isnt ready then take things slow until he is ready. It's just like us girls not be ready. He will tell you when he is ready.
:*:Shawntay:*:
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This guy and I were going out and he gave me 3 chances but I messed up and now he left me with no sympathy! If I try and talk with him about it, he doesn't listen. How do I get over him? (link)
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I have been there done that its hard to get over someone that you really like. Try talking to like different guys and see if they make you feel the same way he did or different in a " Good Way" Thats what I did and I found the love of my life and I for got about the other dude.. So Good Luck.....
:*:Shawntay:*:
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Okay so theres this new guy to our school and hes a Junior and Im a sophmore and hes the classic bad boy he's been in trouble with the law, hes not a virgin (i am)he parties ALL the time. But hes really sweet and i truly try and stop myself from getting wrapped up in him bc to him im probably just another "girl" well whenever i get online hes the first screen name i look for and in the hallways i always look for him. But hes a major flirt and i know you guys are gonna tell me to just forget about him and i know IM TRYING. =/ basically, what im trying to say is should i even give him a chance to see me for who i really am or just give up while my hearts all mine? Like and sometimes i think hes too bad for me. He asked me this weekend to go with him to street racing with him and he doesnt have his license or permit it got taken away and i made up an excuse. Should i hang out with him? (link)
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No he sounds like he is just bad news waiting to happen...
:*:Shawntay:*:
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My girl and I just broke up. She wants to call me everyonce in a while to check how Im doing. I would be crushed If I found out she was with someone else. Should I keep talking to her in hopes that she might come back to me? Would it show that I am trying to make things better? (link)
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Yes you should keep calling her since she calls you. It seems like she still cares alot about you because if she didnt care about you then she wouldnt call you. For your last question the answer is yes and you have make her see that you are trying to make things better between both of you. Hope I gave you some good advice...
:*:Shawntay:*:
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There's always articles in magazines saying how you can REALLY get the guys to like you.
Smile, be nice, be funny, yada yada yada.
But, in your opinon how do you REALLY get guys to like you?
I mean different magazines say different things so, what do you think? (link)
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First of all dont do what any magazine says to do about that. Be your self if a guy doesnt like you how you are then screw him because you can do alot better. Your personaility is what really makes guys like you anyways. Dont worry about how to get guys to like you. Your love will come along one day when you least aspect it so just be your self and be calm. Guys like you for you. If they dont like the way you look or how you act then there not really a man there immature. A man will like you for you and doesnt care what you look like or anything like that. I hope I helped you out girl..
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