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Hey i'm Maddie and i'm 16 and i have a 10 month old daughter Shiloh Taylor who is my world :) I might seem young but I have gained alot of knowledge throughout my years and I love to help so ask away!

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I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.

I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?

Sorry if this is too long!

You should definatly at least confront him about it and say you know about the page and you dissaprove of it and you don't want him sharing everything about your relationship on facebook to everyone! Than maybe you guys can talk about it and he will delete it or something? Tell him you want to be more open and you don't want any secrets between you because all ita doing is hurting your relationship. I hope I helped! tell me if you need anything else!

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okay so i am a female and 15 years old.i have a boyfriend for about 2 weeks, my boyfriend is 17. we have been hanging out for a month now and i know it may be soon to be talking about his problems with depression and what not. but, i just wish i knew how to help. i went through depression and a eating disorder. but i try to help but i dont know what to say. i just wish any words that would come out of my mouth could cure him. but of course things dont work like that. i am now starting to do some research on depression. i dont want him to feel depressed. i know how it feels. you feel usleless, unloved, you sometimes hate your self. you are very hard on yourself and you feel helpless and hopeless. please some one help me. i want to be able to comfort him a little..

from my experiences with depression i can say that you shouldn't try too hard and talk about it too much because it'll just bug him. yeah, sometimes it helps to talk about things, but other times it just gets plain annoying and you don't wanna talk about it anymore. so try comforting him by letting him know your thinking about him and hang out with him and make him laugh and things like that :) if you see him zoning off with a sad look on his face than you can ask him whats on his mind, but dont pressure him. i hope i helped and i hope he starts to feel better! :)
-maddie

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hello!

well i just entered high school and i have this guy who is beside me on my locker and he also sits beside me in my homeroom so anyways so i was wondering if he likes becase last week he said we should stand close so it look like we are going out and called me sexy plus he stands really close to me and stares at me for long periods of time but now he facebook picture says i love emily (not me) and i know that he is singel soo does he like me???

well, he sure is flirting with you!
guys tend to flirt with alot of different girls at a time, especially immature high school boys, so its hard to tell if they really LIKE you or not.
he definatly has a thing for you since youve caught him staring at you and he called you sexy and the other things.
i would wait and see how it plays out.
it sort of seems like he's a player, since his picture said 'i love emily' on it, meaning he likes to flirt with alot of other girls, not just you.
if he starts to be more inclusive on you though, than i'd go for it!
hope i helped!
-genevieve :)

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My bf n i have been together 8 months n im pregnant he doesnt know yet n i dont know how to tell him no one knows but me n my friend... i had a prego test done at planned parenthood... but i had implanon ..a form of birth control my bf n i still used condoms 98% of the time but a few times they ripped n a couple times none was used... hes a good guy but im worried itll change us i know i cant keep it for several reasons...my heart is extremely weak just had surgery... my future his futrure our families n we dont each other well enuf to raise a baby itd break us apart etc.. but im also worried hell think im lyin or that hell wanna keep it possibly, he knows how much i hate girls than lie bout it but our friends gf has been lyin bout bein prego so im wooried hell think i am ...would i be better off havin an abortion n not tellin him or wat im worriedL

i would NOT just not ever tell him and get an abortion behind his back and never let him know. if i were you i would talk to him seriously and just be really calm about it, i mean i know its obviously not a calm thing but try not to make it a big deal and tell him you must have slipped up and that you get tested and that you are in fact pregnant and you are not sure what to do and you want his input and than yall can decide on options from there.
im hope everything goes well, i wish you the best of luck!
-maddie :)

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My Bf cheated on me when I was 7 months pregnant. He actually slept with the giel who later claimed she was pregnant from him. He later on told after I had our baby at 7 months pregnant. Now i don't know what to do. I want to wrk things out and put this behind me but I can't. We have two kids toghther and we've been with each other for 3yrs. Its so hard to let go of him when we have kids together.I really feel confused and hurt. I don't know if he'll do it again. i want to leave but I"m stuck....

i think the only real thing you can do is to follow your heart. i know it sounds cheesy and all but i can't think of anything else to do. i mean does he feel like 'the one'? if i were you i'd dump him in a second, but i'm not so idk. he did something really hurtful and i think you should really let him know that. i'm really sorry for all of your missfortune, and i wish you all the best.
-maddie :)

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heyy! ok so i was wondering what is the sexiest thing a girl could tell her guy she is wearing? like lingerie, a thong, a bra, nightgown, etc. just want to kno what guys think is extremely hot and sexy ;] thanx

something sexy a guy likes a girl to wear is a skin tight wet white tanktop, and nothing else. lol hope i helped! they really just like like really tight stuff.

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16/f...my boyfriend's 15/m (almost 16 though) i'm kinda awkward around my bf. i mean i REALLY like him, and he REALLY likes me. but he's my first and i'm not HIS first..
so i dunno what to do around him and i'm afraid i'll do something stupid and make a fool of myself. i'm afraid he won't like me anymore. like, when we were about to kiss, i freaked out, and we just pop kissed instead. he knows he's my first boyfriend and he's taking things slowly. but i dont want them to be TOO slow. i'm not usually like this around my friends. i'm just really scared that he's staring at my imperfections or something or that he thinks badly of me. and when we're going to kiss next time...but for REAL, i don't know whats going to happen...ahhh..
any experienced people...lol what do i do?

okay, i no it seems like it's impossible, but you really need to just RELAX. just act like you normally act, if he didn't like you yall wouldn't be going out. he ISN'T looking at all of your little imperfections, he's probably to focused on his. if you would stop thinking about all of the things your doing wrong you would probably see his flaws to. since he no's that he is your first boyfriend, he probably isn't suprised that your nervous. you just need to stop analyzing yourself and just go with the flow, act like your true self. i hope i helped and good luck!

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