ask HawttxParadise



read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators



My names Reyna.I live in a small town.I'm very outgoing,creative,crazy and honest.I enjoy things like drawing,making clothes,reading,and watching horror movies because the own my soul.I am not perfect but i try to do as much as i can to help out one day i plan on being a physiologist.My plan is to help people so try me.
:)
Member Since: September 23, 2005
Answers: 70
Last Update: August 22, 2008
Visitors: 5526

Main Categories:
Love Life
General Sex Questions
Work/School Relationships
View All

i am SO confused rite now.
so this kid told my frend he likes me, and he flirts w/ me a lot. but then his cousin met me & hes askin me out now. i really do not know what to do. HELP! (link)
This is a hard one...
see id go with the one you have stronger feelings towards ,one might me spiteful towards you and who ever you choose but do whats best for you not anyone else.


Ok me and this girl are really good friends and one day she cheated on him with me but we decided it was a mistake cause she had a boyfriend and i didnt want to push it. so we remained really good friends then she tells me she broke up with her boyfriends this is weeks later by the way and i dont know if i should try and be more than friends again? (link)
No i wouldn't do because chances are that she is very confused and doesn't know what she wants and i think you deserve someone who probably wont put you threw emotional hell


This one is for girls. Do girls like guys that are cute or hot. Not both, one or the other. (link)
cuties are usally better because hot guys are a sometimes jerks.


I really do love my boyfriend. But, I have a feeling he doesnt love mee.. and it makes me so upset. I really dont know what to do. This guy is like the love of my life. (link)
Yeah showing love in life is really hard so the best thing you could do is ask. if things come out negative he aint worth your time. Yes i do know how hard it is to move on.

hope i helped


Upon reading so many other questions and having some of my own I decided to ask the guys out there specifically, (ladies you may answer as well) whether or not you can love more than one person at once. I guess you can substitute like for love as well but I am interested to see what you guys have to say about this. Obviously you can be interested in more than one person, but can you really have equal feelings for two people at the same time? So basically for you guys out there who have girlfriends and ladies who have boyfriends as well, can you love that person and still have equally strong feelings for another person who is not your current partner or is it merely a random attraction? What do you all have to say about this I am curious to find out. :) Cheers! (link)
yes you can have equal love for someone. its more usaual that you have stronger feelings for one person thats why your with them. To me random attraction rarely happens.

hope i helped


okay well my friend went out with this guy and she treated him really bad, she played games with him and didnt really act like she liked him and they finally broke up cus he couldnt trust her cus she was always lieing to him && flirting wiht other guys and a few..weeks--maybe?--he started talking to me and we started liking eachtother and after a few weeks of talking and getting to know eachtoehr a little better, he ask me out and i said no cus i think my friend still likes you, but i talked to her and she said it wouldd be okay, so he asked me out again and i said yes this time and she was okay with it until after a few weeks,about 2 or 3 maybe, after i had started to really like him. she started getting mad at me and spreading rumors about me and everytime she saw him she would try to be all over him adn kiss him and all that and he'd be like get off of me i have a gf, and she would be like who cares about her? and she talked really bad abotu me behind my back but then around me shed be like ohh i love you! like she wanted to figth me at one point and then she took my best friend from me...and she doesnt like me anymore but she'll be all nice to me when she needs a ride somewhere or something ... so what should i do? i mean i want us to be friends but i dont want her to go on talkign about me behind my back. and dont say to break up with him cus we've been going out for a while now and i love him a whole lot. so please tell me what i can do to get her to stop spreading rumors about me and about him to break us up! (link)
your first mistake was dating him.
best friends say it is alright go ahead but inside they really feel hurt.i kno you love this dude. i kno you want to be friends with her but it doesn't always work like that. you are going to have to pull the plug on your friendship because as long as you and this guy are dating she will always be jealous. if you and your guy love each other that much you shouldn't care wat she spreads ignor it.

hope i helped good luk.


I feel bad for duming her. I dumped her because i felt bad about dating her because my parents did not want me to.If i date her again i will feel bad for disobeying my parents. what can i do?
And if there is no hope for me what do people do to make themselves happier? (link)
think about what makes you happy. a night out with your friends anything.
good luk


well their this kid that i been dateing for like a year and cheated on me like 4 time i dont no if i wamms be with him or not but their this really nice kid that likes me and i dont no i need help (link)
hes cheating dump him and quick you deserve better


Can a passionate love-hate relationship work out? (link)
i really belive that it is personalaties that attract. Or the love for one anther. So not always do opposites atract but it sometimes does work that way.

hope i helped


ok there is this guy zach(13/m) in seventh grade and im in eighth (13/f) and we hug like a hundred times a day and wait for each other when we have class together and i want to ask him out but his older brother(14/m) likes me and i cant stand him he never shuts up! i dont know what zach will think of me asking him out when i know his bro likes me what do i do? (link)
you should not ask him out till his bro don't like you no more.






it will be worth the wait trust me


theres this really cool guy i like ALOT who goes to my church and is in 9th grade. (im in 8th)well im preddy shure he likes me cause hes always looking at me when im like rite in front of him or all the way across the room, he always flirts with me, and he smiles at me alot. (and yes im shure hes looking at me cause i did my test where u look to the side and see if they look over there too...) so i thought he might ask me out preddy soon and everything. the big problum? he sits next to my brother in band and they are really good friends. i liked him before my brother evan knew him. my brothers kindof protective of me and doesnt realise that him(the guy i like) and i are only a year younger cause we go to different schools and my brother is 16 and sees him(the guy i like) as 16 also but the guy i like is someone who might not want to choose a girl over his friend... i dont know can someone help me find some ways that could help my 'situation'? thanx i rate high (link)
you should really talk about this with your bro see how he feels about this.
good luk hope i helped


I love my boyfriend so much but he is always grounded And the only time I get to see him is at school and we live in the same naiborhood too. so its so gay He gets grounded for stupid resoms to (because his step dad is a dick) We the thing is, i want to break up with him because I never get to see him we dont have any classes together or anything. but the problem is I dont know how and I would like to be friends with him after words. how can I break up with him and stay friends
14 female (link)
tell him this is not working out i don't spend enough time with you i just want to be friends.


alright heres a boy question. theres this boy and all the girls like him because hes mysterious and a football player and ect...well he and i were "having fun getting to know eachother" and i found out that this girl i know likes him and he pretty much likes her too. but when i found this out he hasnt said anything to me at all like we really havent talked. i dont know howt ot tlak to him online or at school...should i continue getting to know him or just drop it? (link)
luk you should get to no him maybe you will feel better about how things are going.


OK, so I've started "seeing" this guy that I ADORE and this weekend he was away. Anyway i went out with friends to this bar everyone goes to, and this drunk guy basically grabbed me and starts making out with me! I told him no, but he wouldnt listen, and i kinda reciprocated for a few seconds before realising it was a mistake.

I feel really guilty, and its poss he could find out as its a bar where lots of people know each other.

I dont wanna tell him what happened, what should i do? thanks (link)
even tho you don't want to tell him he rather hear it from you than from someone else. tell wat happend i am sure he will be on your side


Yesterday one of the guys that lives in my appartment complex knocked on my door and asked me out. I told him that I had plans and he didn't look too happy.

First of all, I've always been told to never date a guy that lives in the same building as you because if it didnt work out it would be very awkward. Also, he's about 15 years older than me and I don't find him very attractive, he's bald with glasses and is really nerdy.

I've also heard from other people in the building that he can be a real jerk. One of my friends asked him once if the mail came and he told him to fuck off.

I've always been nice to him because I wanted everyone in the building to like me.
But now I don't know how to act.
I have no interest in him AT ALL.
The worst part is he lives only 3 appartments down the hallway from me, so we will always be running into each other.
What should I do? (link)
you should tell him that you are not intrested. if you don't you will end going out with a nasty understand. do you really want to waste your time.
pluse he is toooooooooo old for you that is gross.
hope i helped


okay theres this guy and my friend has known him for a while well one weeekend i went out with him and my friend that he was supposed to hook up with but it didnt work out so we started talking and the later on he told me he had feelings for me and i told him the same and we have cute lil names for each other and he tells my friend to tell me that he misses me and stuff well he went to some party the other night and the next day i talked to him and asked him about it and he said he didnt go with a date or anything like that and he was trying to prove to me that he did nothing well today some girl he met told me they did stuff and he did stuff with other girls so idk what to do were not together so should i care or let it go please help!!

f/16

Thanks! (link)
you need to tell him something girl dont let him off the hook just like that. he played you. you need to tell him something.embarass him he did it to you. let have it.



hope it works for the best for you.


ok i'm 14..turning 15. Im a freshman. homecoming is next next friday and i dont have a date. i dont understand why a guy wont ask me. i am NOT ugly. i am actually really pretty. i used to model. i am NOT mean. i am a really nice person. i like this guy but i dont get why he wont ask me. any ideas? i dont think he likes anybody else. should i just ask him? is that weird? i really dont want to do that cause i think is akward. (link)
no you should totally ask him or would you rather be dateless go for it girl.


two girls like me and i dont want to hurt either one and (they are both hot other dudes) I like them both how do i decide (link)
pick the one you like the most either way someone is going to get hurt. so who ever you pick is your choice.


good luck


ok if a gurl sleeps w/ a guy who shes not goin out w/ and has cheated on her boyfriends a few times just like goin up the shirt or making out would u call her a whore (link)
no but i would call her a cheater.


Im 13, and theres this boy who ive liked from the first day of school, and on the second day, he just randomly walked up to me and started walking next to me and talking to me. He is kind of my friend now but he still doesn that sometimes...do you think these are signs that he likes me? (link)
definitly ask him out if he says yes u no he likes you. yes he certainly is sending messages he likes you.
hope i helped




read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker