ok there is this guy zach(13/m) in seventh grade and im in eighth (13/f) and we hug like a hundred times a day and wait for each other when we have class together and i want to ask him out but his older brother(14/m) likes me and i cant stand him he never shuts up! i dont know what zach will think of me asking him out when i know his bro likes me what do i do?
devilspawn_666 answered Friday October 7 2005, 8:49 pm: I know you probably won't like this answer, but this is the way to go if you want to avoid all the drama. Right now, since you're only in junior high, I think you should take a step back and not have anything more than a friendship with the kid whose brother likes you. It's not really right to come between brothers like that... because it's going to tear them apart even if they weren't very close to begin with. [ devilspawn_666's advice column | Ask devilspawn_666 A Question ]
simeon answered Friday October 7 2005, 8:32 pm: ok hha you have a shit problem but im russian and of course all russians know how to resolve all problems
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umm ok so look dont ask him out yet you have to do more than hug him and bs first not as a FULL DATE but like go hang out wiht him like movies and get lunch together and start to get to know each other then eventually do some cute girl stuff after he gets used to hanging out with you
you start using that cute girl stuff like blushing around him and like acting really, like you need to get the POINT Across but dont just say i like you, OR what i dont have the balls to do is i have been trying to ask this girl out by doing something like this
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i was wondering if this ...friday (or any other day) you could MAybe we could go and see a movie then we can go eat some ice cream togther, dont worry about the brother cause umm well your a girl and sometimes girls pretend to ask stupid to get out of their shit so be like well HOW WAS I SUPPOSED TO KNOW THAT HE LIKED ME its really that simple so just make sure he gets the point and dong be shy, cause thats why the girl that i like wont like me and guys want to be like close to girls when they go out with them [ simeon's advice column | Ask simeon A Question ]
crewsl answered Friday October 7 2005, 8:16 pm: i think you should ask zack out and if he asks you y u didn't ask his bro tell him u don't like his bro like you like him. [ crewsl's advice column | Ask crewsl A Question ]
DouGhGiirL answered Friday October 7 2005, 8:10 pm: He wont think anything of you. Well he will think something of you and its that your nice. I know it seems wierd and all but little brothers or little sisters and older sisters/brothers always compete. The 13 year old will think he is better then his brother and rub it in his brothers face that he's got a nice girl. I suggest you ask this guy out and tell his brother that you are sorry that you are just closer to the younger 1 and you feel more comfortable around him.
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