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okay im a really pretty girl and some guys like me but the ones i want i cant get the attention i want from them can anyone help me w. this?

Flirt a lot with them, that gets guys attention.

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one more thing..

so just kiss him in the middle of the dance floor with everyone watching? i mean i dont mind but i think its a little too much for his first kiss (hes never been kissed before) what do you think? or should i do something like kiss him on the cheek on the dance floor? thanks

oooh it's his first kiss.. hmmm... you could always go outside (like i said before) and then you could prolly still hear the music and you could start dancing out there.. and do it out there. haha that would be great... but if you dont mind doing it in the middle of the dance floor then thats good too!

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my crush kknows i like him.hes my best guy friend,( we are inseperable) sweet,gentle,would never hurt anyone.im pretty sure he doesnt like me, but he wants a friends with benefits thing it seems.if we have a FWB it would only be like kissing and cuddling..nothing too sexual.
well, it was raining out and we were holding hands, dancing to this spanish music. (you see, we left a party and you could still hear the music from where we were) and it was perfect. we even looked each other in the eye for a few moments, and it was that awkward kind of moment where if i leaned in for a kiss it could have been perfect.
my question : tonight is homecoming. any ideas on what i can do to kiss him tonight? ideas on how to get the two of us outside alone perhaps? any advice thanks!

Well if there is a slow song playing tonight, get him to dance with you. And then look right into his eyes and go for it. lol he'll prolly feel the same way. As for going outside? Tell him that the music is too loud and you want to go outside and talk. GOod luck!!

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ok... I Have A Boyfriend And Hes The Oppisite Color Of Me But I Dont Care About That!...But Everyone Says That I Should Date My Own Color...And I Think He Likes Another Girl..But HE SAYS HE DONT...Everyone Is Tellin Me That They Were Together At The Festival this Year But i Ingoure Them But What Do i Do Belive Him or Them??...

If you really like the guy then believe him maybe your friends dont like him so theyre making up excuses.

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Girls: Do you think it would be cute for a guy to ask before kissing a girl? Would you find that cute or weird?

awww i would definitely find that cute! he is considering your feelings, and making sure it's okay with you=)i would think it's cute!!

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14/f
Is this just life?
Like almost all my friends has a boyfriend and i have not even had a good relationship with a guy. i feel like im not too good enough for other people. Is there going to be someone there? Is there any way i could do to make someone like me? Please Help!!!

i don't think it's because you 'aren't good enough'. the right person is out there, just find someone that you like (make sure he's not taken) try to be friends with him, and casually start to flirt. he should get the idea.. but get his trust first so he's bound to like you more! good luck!

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can somebody please help me with ideas how to ask a girl out.

here are some ideas:

write her a note
IM her
Text her
here's a GOOD one! stand up on the cafeteria table during lunch and say "(her name), will you go out with me!?"


hope i helped!

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ok i ave afriend.. we have been friends for a long time.......and i am starting to like him more as afriend and i think he does to but i am not sure.......... wat should i do... im not going to ask him out

if i were you, i would have one of your friends go up to him and be like, "so... i saw you flirting with (your name here)... do you like her?" then you'll know if he does. tell your friend that if he says YES, then to have him ask you out and say u like him too. if he says NO, then just have her be like ooh...

good luck!

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What are some things to talk about with friends and stuff. I always have trouble starting conversation over AIM, and I really need help. Thanks

here are a few:

friends
GOSSIP
clothes
school
sports
movies
future
goals
homework
animals? lol
something random LIKE a turkie? haha
makeup
hair
upcoming events
boys, boys, boys, boys, BOYS!

hope i helped!

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ok so there is this guy that i REALLY like..and i talk to him online a lot and tells me im really pretty and stuff..and i think he's really hott but i dont know what to say back to him? because instead of telling me im hott he says that im pretty and beautiful and stuff which i really like because its not insensitive like saying im hott is..so whats a sweet way to tell him he's "hott" or fine or whatever??

when he says 'you're pretty' say 'thanks, you're not so bad yourself' or 'you're really good looking to' tell him you think it's sweet of him say something like 'aww thats so sweet!' good luck!

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for shaving below whats a good suggestion of shaving cream to avoid burns and red bumps?

i use skintimate and it works really well. i also use venus razors. and you should always shave in the way the hair is growing. NOT the opposite. good luck!

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ok there is this guy that i really like and i kno he likes me too but he is kinda mad at me right now....that or he hates me...and i dont know why....i would do anytng for this guy and i think he knows it ! but i dont know why he is mad so i dont know what to do....please help...what should i do whjen the guy i love is mad at me and i donrtknow why?

Okay, first make sure he's serious and not joking around, because guys can be like that sometimes. Second, tell him that you really want to know what you did. Don't tell him you're sorry for it until you KNOW what it is, because it might not even be worth apologizing for. If he won't tell you, tell him that you can't apologize until you know. If he STILL won't tell you, then tell him that you really like him, and you feel bad that he's mad at you. If you need help IM me: i X HEART X YO0U

Tasha

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Ok, i had a boyfriend and we were totally in love, but we barely saw eachother (once or twice a month) because we both went to different schools and were in all honors and ap classes (aka TONS of hw). In the end he ended up breaking up with me because "I love you, but i really cant b attached to someone right now." We still ended up being best friends, but about a week ago he told me that he had never told his mom about us breaking up, and i asked him y. He told me that it was because he still loved me (after 2 months), and that he could never take down the picture of us that i gave him for valentines. We're going to the same school next year, and he wants to get back together then....should i go for it because i love him...or just not put the used gum back in my mouth?

If you really love him, go for it. I see no reason why you shouldn't. It sounds like you guys would be a good couple.


Tasha

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So me & this guy were going out.. it had been going great and all but his ex girlfriends were real bitches!! but anyways.. so we ended up braking up because he got suspended and got grounded for the whole summer. He's usually aloud to go to his best friends house (dont ask me why) even if hes grounded but he couldnt even go there.. so we decided to brake up. but see the thing is that about a week into summer (we broke up about a week before school ended) he was able to go to his friends house again. and about three days after that he wasnt grounded anymore.. i saw him at the carnival all over his ex girlfriend (the bitchy one) but he calls me once and a while(we were friends before we went out) but it just seems like i was someone to try and get over his ex and not someone who he really cared about. is he a jerk.. or what?

I think you should talk to him, ask him if he really liked you, or was using you.



Tasha

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16/f
i am going to camp this week, and my ex boyfriend will be there.
we broke up in april and we haven't really talked since.
he came up to me at chruch once and apologized for what he did, but i don't think he really meant it because he still acts like a jerk towards me.
my question is, how can i have an awesome time at camp without thinking about my stupid ex?
thanks in advance

Well, meet some new people, do new things. I think the reason you are thinking about this is because you guys haven't really settled what happened in the past. Tell him you are totally over him, and you want space. Because then maybe you won't think about/see him. Just try to avoid him. Sorry if this advice sucked!


Tasha

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My boyfriend isn't very talkative. Even before we admitted to having feelings for eachother, I was always the one to pursue the conversation. We're going out tonight & I'm worried we'll totally run out of things to talk about. Can anyone help me out with some topics to bring up? By the way, we don't go to the same school. Thank you!

~Allie

That's how my ex was, here's some ideas:

If you saw a movie, talk about that.
Talk about how things are going at your school.
Talk about the people you know.
Sports
Your friends
Ask him about himself
Tell stories, jokes


Sorry that's not alot

Tasha

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You know how everyone will tell you " do it when the time is right " well how do you know when the time is right?

Well ask yourself four questions:
1. Do I REALLY want this?
2. Do I love this guy?
3. Does he love me?
4. Am I willing to take resposibility for the consequences?

If you say yes to every one, then you are probably ready.

Tasha

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Hey !! Im 15 and have had a crush on this one guy for over 4 years now (on and off) Ive had boyfriends during this time period but for some reason I keep going back to liking him. We've never been extremely close but we are friends. He's extremely cute, and has a good personality. We see each other out of school sometimes, but for some reason he will never talk to me online, wby is that? He was at my friends Swt 16 and we danced and I actually thought he'd ask me out but soon I found out he wouldn't date me because im quote "beautiful and too perfect" and he wouldnt want to just use me for sex because im more then that and im one of his friends. Im flattered but in the pit of my stomach I cant stop thinking about him, should I go on liking him or just move on and maybe one day he'll realize what he has lost? Please help me, thanks so much ! xO

I think maybe the reason he won't talk to you online is because he's talking to his other friends. I have a guy friend that does the EXACT same thing. I think that you should keep liking him, tell him exactly how you feel, and tell him that you're NOT perfect. Just let him know, and see how it turns out!

Tasha

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well see last year i had a HUGE crush on this guy and then i stopped liking him because i thought i could nva happen. Then at the end of the school year he started walked with me to my math class everyday and i started and still do talk to him online for hours and we talk about everything. then the other night he sleptover in my brothers room and right in front of my brother we were fliritng iwth each other unitl 3 in the morning then the next moring he tried to wake me up by thrwoing things at me and we chilled until his mom came to pick him up. but the problem is hes one of my brothers best firends..do you think he likes me? or that anything would happen between the two of becausehes my brothers friend?

If I were you, I would have one of your friends talk to him and be like.. "So.. I saw you flirting with (your name)... do you like her?" Then it wouldn't be too obvious. And because he's your brother's friend .. that shouldn't be a problem, you can't help that. I'm BEST friend's with a lot of my brother's friends. And it's not too bad. But from what I hear, it seems like he likes you!

Tasha

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This is the only way i can make this short .. me and my boyfriend have been dating for over 2 months now and our relationship was going well. Like not even a week ago i started to hang out with these guys that he doesn't like or trust .. i told him that i was hanging with them and he got really pissed and we started arguing. In our relationship i am completely honest with him because i don't want to hide something from him and have him find out later from someone else and him get madder than he would've if i had told him in the first place. Well i am starting to have these feelings for a guy i've been hanging out with and i told my boyfriend. He totally flipped out because now he thinks that i like this guy more than i like him - which is NOT true at all. I love my boyfriend with all my heart and i always will no matter what happens between us. I'm just wondering if i should tell my boyfriend that we need to take a break from our relationship so i can figure out if the feelings for the other guy are deep or if i should just forget about the other guy or what?! PLEASE HELP! =(

Okay, if you seriously LOVE your boyfriend, then I wouldn't leave him. But if you don't, and you just LIKE him alot, then I would figure out how much you like the other guy. Because you might lose your boyfriend altogether if you love him and then you take a break. But then again, you might really love the other guy. Try to figure it out BEFORE you make a major move on your part. If you need more advice IM me:i X HEART X YO0U

Tasha

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