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Q: I met a guy on an online dating site. After just a couple of days he told me he wanted to meet me. The kicker was that he said he didn't have a car, and that I would have to drive up to see him. Remember, I've never met him, and really don't know that much about him except what he wrote about himself. At first I said yes that I would drive up after work on Saturday, but then my gut feeling and intuition were telling me not to do it. So I emailed him and cancelled the date and told him I wasnt comfortable with the arrangement, and that I would prefer he come up to see me. He wrote back and told me that the reason he didnt have a car was that he was taking public transit to save money, and that he wouldnt have a car until May. Then he said he asked to meet me too soon, and would still like to meet me. My gut feeling is telling me that this guy is a little desperate, and I want to back out of the whole thing.
I don't want to hurt his feelings. What would be a nice way to end things with him, and do you think he'll get angry? I told him at first that I wouldnt mind still sending him some getting to know you emails, but I don't even want to do that anymore. I'm thinking realistically, how is this potential relationship going to work? The guy doesnt even live in the same town as me and deosnt have a car.
Would I be a super bitch if I told him I didn't think this would be a good idea?
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You did the right thing by following you gut.
If you are not comfortable with him; Tell him just that. Just be honest, being honest will not make you any less of a good person. =D
Hope I helped.
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Q: Well I used to be friends with this girl named Kristina and I told her I liked my best friend Zach and then the next day she was all over hi and I was like what the heck !? and they were getting ready to make their realationship public and I i.med him last night and said so are you going out with the slut yet ? He said I should shut up about the people he likes and I said why you dont even understand and he kept yelling at me so then I told him why because I loved him and I started crying and everything and I seen him today and he was all over her and it made me sick because even after our talk he still was over her so I dont know what to do I cant really talk to him anymore it feels werid. & I promised myself I would fall for him and thats exactly what I did I dont know what to do. & today he is just acting like nothing is wrong and thats not the case I am very hurt I cried myself to sleep and I feel like shit I dont know what to do with out him as a friend and after last night I cant even look at him the same and I have a class with him next period. I need help, please.
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this isnt what you're going to want to hear; but its what youre gonna hafta do.
get over him. take a day or two to just be miserable. drown your sorrows in ice cream and old romantic movies. cry as much as you want eat any of your comfort foods. take your hatred out on a pillow by punching all your anger into it scream in to it. just do what ever you have to. and when your done wash your face, get on some cute clothes then walk out the door to your new start. just put your eye on a new cutie that wont make you ever feel the same way Zach did. you didnt deserve it. you were just another victim of an evil teenage slut bag. just remember this quote:
"No guy is worth your tears. But the one that is wont make you cry"
I hope you feel better soon. x3
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Q: Ok i know it sounds totally weird because im so young (15 very soon) but my boyfriend wants to propose to me for my bday. Hes 17 and i know wont be able to get married for ages and so does he. I think hes still going to propose though. What should I do? We've been going out for 10 months. thanks xx
(Im female by the way...)
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You may not like this answer but I would say no.
In the few years you have to wait to get married something may happen between you to? Just saying you "engaged" doesn't mean your gonna stay together forever. Love doesn't always last.
Just wait a few years, then if your still in love say yes then =)
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Q: So there is this guy and I flirt with him alot. He's so nice and stuff and I like him. Like I like him like him.. not whole lot but some. So, he always flirts back and I love it because I am a HUGE flirt. I love to flirt. It helps me get through my day. Well, this guy always has a girl freind and all these people are like, "omg, he so likes you". Well, even if he doesn't w/e but, what if he asks me out? I don't want a boyfreind right now, I just want to flirt... it's much more fun. So, what if he does, what should I say to him? I want to say no, but I don't want to turn him off or have him think I don't like him. I JUST WANT TO FLIRT! -- so please help! Thanks!
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OMGSH;
Hah I have the exact same problem right now; I deff. relate.
Okay well, in case he does asks you out, just tell him you don't want a boyfriend right now.
Us girls love to flirt just to see if we can get some one then we don't actually LIKE them.
Since he already has a girlfriend I wouldn't worry to much about this. Just keep the flirting down a little bit if your to worried about it. ♥ hope I helped!
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Q: ok im really shy around my boyfriends, and i dont know why..but im sick of it.its like i wont do anything not even be close to him. i'll be like on the other side of the room and if i do get close to him i get real nervous and crap...does anyone know how could become un shy around him and not be as nervous? thanks!
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I used to be the same exact way. Then I realized if I really like him and he really likes me I should be comfortable to be with him. I took slow steps to be around him more. First I talked to him in person simply about what we did in class that day. Then I began walking with him in the hallways. After a few more days I sat at lunch with him. Just take a deep breath and stay calm. Just remember: Boyfriends are great, just be confident.
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Q: hey, i really need help finding a gift for my bf. we've been going out for 3 months, and this is my first real relationship so ive never done this before. i know from his friend that hes getting me glass ornaments that he made, but i have no idea if hes getting me anything else or not. got any suggestions? thanks so much, i rate
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I'm getting my boyfriend a stocking full of holiday hershey's kisses, one giant hersheys kiss, and a teddy bear that says " Our first Christmas"
maybe that`ll help you with some ideas =]
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Q: Okay, i like this guy and ive liked him ever since i met him. well, i liked him last year and he found out. He was all like i like you as a friend. Okay, well i like him still and hes in the grade above me and like were friends and stuff. I kind of have a deadline before the school play ends (jan. 22) to get him to like me, how do i make him like me more than "just a friend"?
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Hey Hun =]
one word: FLIRT.
Trust me, it works everytime. You just gotta know how to work it. Talk to him, alot. Smile and giggle when your with him. Say hey in a cute voice in the hall. Hang with him outside of school. Touch his arm or play with your hair while talking to him. Tell him little jokes, talk about stuff your both interested in, and pass him little cute notes in class. Walk with him in the hall.
Theres alot of stuff you can do. Just stay confident, and if he's still pushing away; he's not worth all that trouble. Forget him and get a guy 10 times better then him =]
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Q: Heyy!,
Is it wrong for an 13 year old and an 11 year old to go out?..I really need someones opinion!!!
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If you truly like him, it really shouldn't matter :]
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Q: OKay I just got my first kiss on the lips! Should I kiss him back everyday? I mean I love him, but is it right since its only our 1st?
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Congratulations =]
First off: A kiss is special, if it's overdone it may lose its uniquness and it may no longer feel special when he kisses you.
If you kiss him every time you see him, he may think its required and he may stop doing it out of love and start doing it cause he thinks he has to.
So a kiss on the cheeck is good if you're just saying good bye after hanging out at his house or just hanging out with a group of people. A hug is also very good for a casual hangout goodbye. Save a one of those special kisses for a more romantic date to keep them worth the wait :)
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Q: hiii.
kay well. Im 14 and im a girl. Boys are so inmature now a days. All the guys I go out with are not good boyfriends. All they say to me is " your hot" And I really want a really long good relationship. I know thats not really possible at my age but i see it all the time. I want a guy who loves me for me and does all those cute little sweet things. Ive had a couple in the past like that but they turned out to be ass holes.
Why cant I find that type of guy?
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I have this problem too. Guys just aren't looking for what we are just yet. They probably haven't even hit puberty. ;-). hah.
Anyways; You're just going to have to wait. I know it may suck but it's the only the you can do until Mr. Perfect comes around. Plus your 14, HAVE FUN. Take this time to become really close with your best friends and just have fun. You never know, Mr. Perfect could be right around the corner :)
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Q: This girl that's my friend Jenna* and this guy that is my friend Greg* used to date. It was a nasty breakup. Well I stayed frieds with both of them. Well now me and Greg are really close. Like we hug at church and stuff but we are NOT dating. Now she thinks we have something going on. And she called me and said I saw his # in your cell phone and then I saw ya'll hugging...what is going on? I don't know what to do. I want to keep both of my friends please help!
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Tell her the truth. If she doesn't believe it, it won't be your fault. She has a right to think what she wants. If you guys are just friends then you have nothing to worry about. Tell her your her good friend and you wouldn't do that to her. She could just be feeling insecure. :)
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Q: ok me and my boyfriend have been goin out for four weeks and we havent kissed yet. i really want to kiss him but it will be his first kiss and i dont know how to do it. i want it to be special. we really only see each other at skool so wuts a good way to do this at skool so neither one of us is put in an akward situation?
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First off : If you plan the kiss, It may not be as special.
Here's some tips though:
Try meeting outside of school. Maybe a picnic, a trip to the movies, or simply a walk to the park. These are suttle but perfect spots to set the mood.
Then ..
Start talking about something meaninful. And slowly lower the volume of your voice and move closer to him. Maybe try putting you hands on his cheeks or try holding his hands. And just lean in for the kiss. If he acts a little shy, or pulls away don't worry. He must be nervous. Simply laugh it off and wait for a time when you are both ready.
:) I hope it works.
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Hey Guys// I'm Kymmie. I'm here to help ; got a problem ? Feel free to ask.
basic // 4 1 1
name: kymberlie.
age: `oldd enough
live: south
statz`: still single &`& still glamorous
i`m a pretty crazyy chick. i love to laugh loudly dance crazyy and just have the time of your life. i`m a pretty nice person. yes i`m a cheerleader. no i`m not a stuck up preppy wanna be. i also play volleyball. i love hollister &`& abercrombie i lovee livin in the south. especially those country boys. :o). i love country music or baiscly anything i can dance to. i`m myself and nothing else. if you don`t like me, too bad, i don`t live to please you. i`m very outgoing and i`m always doing something to make others laugh. :) i`m not into labels. i love my best friends ; idk what i`dd do without them. Casey Marie Ohara is my freakin best friend in the world. i`ll dance in the rain with you. i love the mall and everything about it. i`m not into those popular wanna bees.i love love love to take pictures. hah i take pictures of absolutley everything. ripped jeans equal total and complete happiness.
Like I Said // I'm here to help.
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Gender: Female Member Since: November 20, 2005 Answers: 38 Last Update: February 24, 2006 Visitors: 3591
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