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ok me and my boyfriend have been having a bad month - he tried to break up with me the other day but knew i was sad and ended up not .. he told me he loved me still and was being an idiot and crap like that .. but it stil doesnt seem like he still likes me.. i dont wanna bother him but i want to know the truth! sry its long!

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Im attracted to mr. clean i always have been. and im only 13 idk, theres somthing about a nice, bald shinny head that turns me on. what should i do?

wow.. that's different.

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me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months.... and we met at church camp where i asked jesus into my heart for the first time.. and that totally changed my life.. but then when we got home all reality came back.. i had used to be really bad.. such as have sex and drink... and well now i stopped all that and my boyfriend is really religious... and he found out about all that and he told me that when you ask jesus into your heart the first time all your sins from that past are forgiven... and he told me he loves me for who i am now and my past doesnt matter to him.... but now.... we were like in my pool and he get touchy feely.. and im not like that anymore.. we still didnt do anything or anthing. .but it scares me cuz i think that he might try to do something i dont want to.... and also... people sign his buddy profile guest boook telling him lies about me haveing sex with a 21 year old and stuff like that... and he still worries.. and ill tel lhim they arnt true.. but it still bothers him.. i dont know what to do... and my parents are leaving for a week and ofcourse me n him are ganna hang out... i just dont wanna do anything that we will regret... and i dont know how to tell him that without embarrasing him.... please help me!!!!!

confront him and say i know i have done stupid things in the past but i have changed, im not into those things anymore, like sex, i want to wait.and tell him that he should believe what you say and not the rumors.. that will make him believe you & trust you & it will tell him that he & you wont be doing anything that you will regret when you parents are away, good luck and tell me how everything goes..

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Me: I really wonder why guys have been hittin on me lately lol
Him: u realli wanna know that
Him: cuz i'll tell u
Me: ok lol
Him: cuz
Him: ur
Him: HOTT!!!!
Him: duh
Me: aww lol
Me: why cant guys go for my personality? its alright if they wanna go for my looks but then they could playas
Him: I'd go for both
Me: lol

Is he flirtin or just talkin? There's more convos where he says sweet things like that but I just chose this one.

yup.. i'd def. say he is flirting.. he may like another girl.. but most guys do.. tell me how everything goes..

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I am 13 and Bi should i tell my parents??? cause i don't want them to hate me so i need to know

wait a few years to see if you feel the same

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ok im 16 and i was best friends with this girl and it always seemed like she liked every guy i liked.. i really liked this kid and of course she liked him too and he liked me but he didnt think i liked him so he asked her out instead.. she started to ignore all her friends for him and now she has no one but him practically... they have been dating for almost 8 months and he isnt "allowed" to hang out with any other girls because she will get mad but lately he has been hanging out with me again behind her back and he says he likes me and he always talks about "us" (me and him) and when he breaks up with his girlfriend how he wants to be with me.. i like him but i dont know what i should do because i think that it looks really bad on my part... if he breaks up with her should i go out with him or no? whoever he picks- me or her someone will get hurt in the end.. so i just dont know what to do.. please help sorry its so long and confusing

I would probably tell her what is goin on if he is doin that behind her back chances are, he would do it to you too. tell her that she deserves better and should break up with him .. i know she will probably think you are goin to go out with him .. but make your point clear that you arent and he will suffer because neither of you will like him, he shouldnt do that to his girlfriend .. specially with her best friend..
hope i helped.. tell me how it goes..

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ok theres this guy hes reallly sweet and just everything any gurl could want hes fukin hott t0o!! lol...well we kno eachother in person but live kinda far away so dont c eachotha alot...we keep in contact by fone and mostly AOL!!...he used to be in love with me and i kinda blew him off....i took the time to get to kno him and relized hes a gr8 guy!! and now i REALLLLY like him...i told him and he says he likes me alot too but the long distance kills it!! but we flirt ALOT on the internet..well lately...hes been ignorin me and he NEVER IMs me anymore...he used ot IM me and talk to me ALL the time...now he NEVER does..i hav to IM him and we hav a gr8 convo...but like rite now hes on and i told my self not to IM him bc i ALWAYS do...and hes been on for like an hour and still hasnt IMed me...it really hurts my feelings...HELLPP...=\ wat shuld i do..

i would IM and see whats been goin on between you too.. and also he may have gotten a girlfriend that he doesnt want you to know about.. find out! good luck

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ok theres this boy i datedd 2 yers ago for 8 months nad recently we started talking agian and i just moved to las vegas and he lives in georgia and we recently got in a fight and i heard rumors that hes telling everyone that the reason hes pissed at me is because i said i wouldnt sleep with him but i neve said that adn the person that told me doenst lie what do i do or think

id say this long distance thing isnt workin too well.. just forget about.. dont worry about and make some new friends in L.V. dont let him get to you.. he is being a guy, an ass

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okey the boy that i like is soo shy..he is one of the shyest boys that you ever would meet but like only when it comes to girlfriends and doing stuff other than that he is like outgoing and my best frend..he knows i like him and he sed he dno wat hed do if i kised him because he doesnt make the first move..i have thought it over allot and he sed he wudnt pull away so tomorrow morning when he comes to wake me up while were laying in my bed i am going to say "heyy can i show you something" hell sey ya and im going to kiss him not an all out hook up but i am going to kiss him a little bit..and then see wat happens..were best frneds and we flirt all the time we always act like we like eachothr but we are both shy..its just like i cant wait any longer and i am going to make the first move..do you think that its a good idea? what else could i do?

KISS HIM!! :-*

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Kevin1986 here again. I've been hearing a lot about guys only look at looks and everything like that. Lemme set the record straight here. If a girl is hott,she's a lot more likely to get asked out,true enough. But very few guys will tolerate a hot bitch. We're much more likely to go for the average looking girl with a great personality. I get pissed when we're made to look the bad guy and not every guy is as shallow as you describe. And besides,who are you more likely to ask out,Brad Pitt or the nice fat guy down the street? Stop being so hypocritical.

that is a good way of lookin at it!

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It's Kevin1986 here with a problem and a couple of questions. I'm friends with two guys,let's say D and J. J used to go out with a girl that I'm very close with,but not dating,although I'd like to. He's pretty obessive,talking about her all the time. Anyway,D used to like her too and they almost went out,but they had a falling out. About a year ago,a new guy,M,goes out with her. I don't care about M and neither do they. J and D want me to tell M that the girl he's going out with is a headtrip because their relationships with her didn't work. I say,it's his bed and it's job to determine whether his girl is crazy or not. I say D and J want me out of the way so they can get her,because I know she'd hate me forever if I tried to break up her relationship. Since I care about her,I want her to be happy even if it's not with me. Your thoughts on this issue? P.S I never really considered telling M this,but I want your opinions on what the real story is.

i think D & J stright up jealous.. its obv. to see. yea i think you should let M figure it out himself and if J and D really want M to know that then maybe they should get some balls & do it themselves hope i helped..

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Alright heres the situation.. I have this friend, his name is Chris. Anyways, we are like best friends, i guess you could say. We talk alot hang out pretty often. He has a girl friend and i am single. Do you think he likes me if he does the following.. always smiles when he looks at me, always ask who i like, is really nice to me, and hugs me all the time.. i am really confused i dont know if he likes me or is it just a friend thing? Thanks in advance!! -xXoBrianna

I would say he does like you and is flirting with you. he may be sick of his current girlfriend but at the same time doesnt want to dump her for you if he isnt sure you like that way or enough.. hope i helped..

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me and my boyfriend have been going on out for 9 months now, and we recently broke it off for about 2 weeks and i had the time of my life..but we got back together because i know i love him and dont want to be without him..but the fun i was having was gone..now hes been gone for 2 weeks and once again ive been back to having tons of fun..idk what does this mean? what should i do..

um that pretty much means you miss the single life! break out of this prison you call a relationship experience life girl! make sure he knows you love him but for right now you dont want to have any serious relationships!

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i have fallen in love with my best guy friend, and i told him that i love him he said that he loves me back, but says that i just cant be. we hug, kiss and are all over eachother, but we're not dating, and everytime i bring it up to him he just says " it just cant be right now". i feel hurt but yet i cant stop thinking of him. what should i do? am i obsessed? ( i am 13/female )

no you are not obsessed.. ask him whats goin on and why he wants to be all over you but just be your friend.. is he using you to do stuff? find out! and if he doesnt wanna go out with you.. move on .find another guy that you can be all over and be goin out with him!

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is it weird that i don't like anyone? i mean all my friends obsess over who they like, but i seriously can't think of anyone that i like. and im 14!

no that definitely not weird.. i promise.. it just means you have either gotten over all the boys in your grade and you have either become their best friend, hate them, or just are not interested in a relationship with them.. hope i helped..

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On Friday I was with this boy it was our first time hanging out we've been friends for almost a year. We made out and stuff and he went up my shirt. He kept asking to finger me and I said no and then he would ask again and again. I dunno I think this is a little werid don't you? We're not going out like bf and gf but I can see us doing that. I really do like him but should I let him?? and please don't tell me o0o wait until ur comforable bc I don't want him doing it then never talking to me again. sry if this is long

yea.. i think you should wait until you are comfortable with him.. i think it would have been a TINY bit weird if he did finger you since it was your first time together.. i would maybe wait till you are going out.. hope i helped..

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Is 8 months a long time to go out with someone when your 14?

yes it's a long time but thats good!! keep it goin and dont forget to tell him how much you like him!! - im 13 and i have been goin out with my boyfriend for 2 years! and i couldnt love him more!

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ok heres how it is i like this guy a whole bunch and we hung out and all the begining of this summer ..well i went on vacation the past 3 weeks and came back and school had started for them .. this other girl i know really likes him too but him and her have never met so i dont really have to worry about her, but on the other hand this girl that lookwise is about the same as me has started to like him and is tryin to get him .. well i dont go to school with him but she does and i really thought he liked me but then all of a sudden we just basicly stopped talkin.. i dont know wat happened.. anyways my question is do u think there is a chance he likes me or do u think the other girl basicly already has him since she spends all this time at school with him now? please help me

there is a 50/50 chance he likes you and he likes her.. but if you like him a ton and you know you want him more than that girl(you should!) then try to get him back.. call him, IM him and just basically say that..ya know "i dnt know whats happened but i really like you and i know we dont go to the same school but.." stuff like that! kk hope i helped

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hey

ok, well this guy and i r good friends we talk like for 3 hours every day. well i dont know if i should say he is my boyfriend because he never asked me out but he calls "boo-boo"(i dont why) and babygirl and all ways says i love so he acts like hes my boyfriend but i dont know if he is or not. plz tel me what you think thnx alot

~*~Emily~*~

I wouldnt say that you are officially going out since no one has asked eachother out yet but i would say you are "with" him which means you aren't dating but you "almost" are.. so no one girl can touch him and no boy and touch you! get it! =) hope i helped!

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do u guyz think u have 2 be a certain age 2 be in love?? im 12 but i do think i have been in love.. i bet most ppl will say it wasnt.. i wasnt even dating tha guy but i totally felt like it was love......and like i sed i loved him and stuff.. and i meant it. he sed it back 2... but he thinks hes to young 2 be in love... i juzt dont think u have 2 be a certain age 2 be in love. like if hes all u think about, all u dream about and all u talk about. is that love? or is that juzt like?

x3 CuRiOuS BeBe x3

i dont think age matters.. i just think you have to be mature. i am 13 and i have been dating the same boy for two years .. he is all i think about and even when he argue a lil .. i cant stay mad at him .. when im with him i get butterflies that dont go away for hours after. i think im in love.

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