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MI go to Texas like, every summer. And two years ago my older cousin met a boy (let's call him ****). He hung out with us, and I didn't think much about him. This year they became A LOT closer. They love each other. And now that I think about it, **** is really hot and funny and nice. I LIKE him. And my cousin has him, what do I do?? (link)
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whatever you do DO NOT STEAL HIM FROM YOUR COUSIN that will create enemies. just keep a close friendship with **** and ya gotta remember, you LIKE him and **** and ur cousin LOVE eachother- hope this helped *ara*
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Alright, this might take a minute, I have this really good friend Jake. He tells me he's "in love with me", and is planning on asking me out this friday. We have went out once before for a short time, and broke up because I had alot going on and didnt really want to deal with a boyfriend. He got really upset and hurt himself. He knows that I'm not so sure if i want to go out with him or not, but still, his hopes are high. I do like him sometimes, but it's weird and when i'm in certain moods i just dont like him like that at all.
Then, I really really like this other friend (Nick) of mine. He is alot older than me, and at our age difference right now nothing would happen. But I still do like him and he's one of my good friends. I have no idea if he likes me like that, but sometimes he does give me weird signals.
Anyway, I am not sure if I want to go out with Jake or not. I am in a few classes where there is Nick and Jake and (they are friends, but nobody knows I like Nick except my best friend.) I know that it would be weird, Nick wouldnt say anything but I know he would be kind of disappointed in me. Either way, if i say yes or no, i know that I am going to be unhappy with my answer. if i say yes i'll wish i said no and if i say no i'll wish i said yes. I don't really know what Im getting at, but this is my problem and i need to know soon.
Thanks for the help. (link)
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lay out the pros and cons for saying yes or no. age does not matter right now. i know hearts get broken and i would turn jake down but softly. go for nick and see how things go. hope this kinda helped *ara*
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ok well see the thing is i dont have a boyfriend and all of my friends do and all of my guy friends have girlfriends so i feel so extremely left out its like this ok so they have their couples nights and everything so they go out to the movies or hang out at someones house and everything and they always neglect to invite me because yeah im the only person that is single. what should i do? (link)
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you should talk to them and say that just because i dont have a boyfriend doesnt mean that we cant hang out and its true. hope that helped
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I'm 13/f in the 8th grade
There's this guy at my school, he's smart, funny, good looking, and mature. His friend told my friend that he liked me and I'm pretty sure he does since he treats me special and flirts with me a lot. Now I'm not really sure if I want to go out with him (I like guys with a more goth character), or I should just wait until highschool since maybe we're going to different ones. Well I believe he wont ask me out because he thinks I like this other kid (who I dont like anymore). What should I do? (link)
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you shouldnt go out with that guy that likes if you dont feel the same way bout him. if you can wait till highschool thats great.
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OK.. kind of a complicated situation.. I am currently dating this great guy.. hes 16.. and we just got through a temp. break up.. well.. today.. i found out my ex just moved back to his dads from tennesse.. he was the guy i lost my virginity to..hes now 18.. im 14.. i know im young.. but i love them both.. and i know they both like me.. the 16 year old is in love with me.. i found out the 18 year old was back today when i saw him walking.. i met up with him.. and gave him a hug and a kiss on the cheek.. well.. we ended up in a french kiss.. i told him me n my boyfriend were broken up..
i dont feel bad about the kiss.. it was great.. but i feel bad that i lied to the guy i kissed..
i have to choose between these two guys.. who do u think i should choose? (link)
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wow this is a tough one....if i were you..i would have to choose the sixteen yrold guy b/c you need to see how it goes and you need to give it a chance. i know the kiss must have been great but lay off that guy for a while if ya can and go with the flow. if ya cant ignore that eighteen yrold guy then i guess hes the one. i hope this helped
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ok, on dec 22 this guy whom i liked gave me a ring. after skool that day, we started going out. we go places after skool and talk on the phone all the time and we're going to the mall tomorrow (tuesday)...but i still feel kinda distant from him...like on the phone there's long silences.how can i make it so that i don't feel like that without telling him i feel like that?*kinda confuszing but plz help!* (link)
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your right.. this is confusing lol what i would do is to either try tellin him how you feel or just kind of invite him to bring up the subject of the conversation. i normall y ask him what he thinks about so n so, or ask him questions, or play games. see if that works
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well i need advice on where to have my new years party. i dont want to have it at my house becuase my parents would never let me and my firend wont have it at her house and we are trying to beat this other party that people are going to so i need advice and help on where we should have it at. i will rate for effort, (link)
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what i did when i had that problem is that i found a place that had rooms you could rent for a day and just party all you want so thats something you could look for.
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im 14 going on 15/f. ive never had a b/f but ive had this one crush for 2 yrs. now! Were good friends now and lately all of my friends have had b/f. i kinda feel left out, but being single is fun 2! i kno this sounds wrong...to me it does 2, but lately all ive wanted 2 do is grab my crush and just kiss him! i think i have a problem...what should i do! please help!~ (link)
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i know that no one likes to come out to their crush about how they feel but it might help. if you and this guy are close friends he will understand and be able to handle and respect your feelings. just a warning(if you tell him how you feel) if he doesnt feel the same you might get hurt. just because you friends had or have boyfriends, doesnt mean you should. you are ready when you are ready. but answer this. do you really like him for who he is? or you just wanna make out with him and fool around?
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