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ok well a new school year is starting on monday and i really want to get the boys attention this year soon would be good!! like i want a b.f but not now.!! Soo what can i do to get their attention in a good way and get them to like fall for me..!!!!! plz help..!! (link)
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If you want to get a guys attention in a GOOD way, dress fashionably and have good hygiene. Guys like to see a girl putting effort into her looks, and not being trashy. Talk to guys. Make friends with them, hang out, friendships could blossom into relationships, but if they don't at least you have a great new friend. Just act yourself and don't change your looks or lie to get a guy to like you. (Ex: If he likes football and you hate it, but you wear jerseys and act like you love it) Most importantly, don't be desperate, guys can sense this & don't be a hoochie.
Best of luck!!!
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Right, I'm 14 and I've never snogged anyone. It might not sound that bad but most people about two years younger than me have snogged someone, and it's beginning to become a real problem.
I'm scared of getting into relationships with people because they'll have had experience and I worry that it will be awkward and they'll think I'm a bad kisser.
I don't like playing truth or dare and always try to get out of it because I might be dared to snog someone, or asked how far I've got. Most of my friends have gone further than snogging, and I'd feel really embarrassed if I had to admit the most I've ever done is kiss someone.
Is there anyway I can get over this and stop being so worried? And do you have any tips on snogging and how do it?
Sorry I said snog and snogging so much, I hate those words, but I wanted people to know what I meant, and not just think I meant a peck on the lips or something.
Thanks in advance, xxx (link)
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I wouldn't worry too much about it. I'm a few years older than you and let me let you in on a little secret..I haven't done ANYTHING with a boy. Most I've done is a hug! When my friends talk about it, and yes they've done some stuff, they are perfectly cool with it. They said it's not big deal and we move on. Trust me, if these friends of yours are going to make fun of you just because you never made out..They aren't your friends. A friend wouldn't put another friend down due to something so silly.
Your time will come, just like I know mine will. I just tell myself it's cool because I'm probably one of the very few my age that is so..untouched.
And remember when you do get into your relationship, everyone is new at something in the begining. He may even think it's cute ;]
Just remember only kiss someone you want to, don't give in to someone who is pressuring you to do something you feel uncomfortable in.
I hope this makes you feel a bit better.
Best of luck
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okay so i love attention. so is it weird that i want to be a slut? i mean, ive done kind of sluttish things before but not to get the reputation of being one but i want to? is that normal or totally strange? and if not then what can i do to get it? (15/f btw.) (link)
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I don't think it's the best thing for you to try getting attention by being "slutty-ish".
If you are doing this to get attention from boys, then rid the idea from your mind. Guys like girls who are themselves and definatly not a slut. Yes, there are some guys that like this type of girl, but they aren't worth your time and they most likely won't care much about you other than being that type of girl.
Now..If that is completly different than what your thinking then try this; Join a drama group at school or take up some other kind of performing art. You will be controling your love for attention in a positive way.
I hope everything works out for you! =]
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Ok heres the thing I am almost eighteen and Im so shy that I can hardly or never have been able to talk to a guy without hittin a beamer basically. This is due to embarrassment for them incase anyone sees them talkin to a girl that looks like me.
To describe me I have a button nose, I am big boned my hair never stays straight long and I hate myself infact the only thing I like about myself is my eyes but guys dont fall for eyes do they?
I know this will prob sound sad to most but I need tips any tips you can give on how to be a little less shy and insecure.
Thanks for any help you can give.
soz its long.
lxx (link)
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I was/am the exact way. But I am slowly getting over it and I am pretty confident with myself so far.
First you need to have some faith in yourself. You have to believe you can overcome this before you try to do it.
I'm sure you are really attractive, but you can't see it, so that's where your problem is. Try new styles for hair, clothes, and even make up to bring out those eyes of yours. Magazines like Seventeen, Teen Vogue, ect; have really cool styles and outfits put together that you can try out. When you are happy about your looks, your condidence will shine.
Now, are you interested in anything particular? Horseback riding, dancing, martial arts, drama, writing? There are so, so, so many activities out there and there's bound to be something that you're interested in. You will meet someone there that is interested in the activity you like and you will hit it off. Trust me on this. I just joined a new horseback riding stable after quitting two years ago and I've met some great people already. I'm having fun while leaving my shyness behind!
Just relax, take it on step at a time, and stay true to your heart.
Good luck!
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Okay, so like I'm 13/f and my name is JJ There is this boy at school who I think likes me, Like he smiles when I smile at him(not in a polite way) and when we joke around(Oh, whoever is wearing Blue is gay or whoever is sitting is gay or who ever is working is gay you get the point) he never says stuff about me only everybody else.( yes I know this is mean but I still do it I can be a BIG bratt or should I say asshole at times I know I shouldn't be cussing)but when we are mean to lesser people well you know less popular people, he teams up on my side. and he looks please when I laugh at or with him(if it is funny) and when I bring up my ex(the last one until I'm 16, maybe) he looks jealous, he remebers stuff about me I even forget about, and we laugh about it or talk and stuff and he sticks up for me all the time do you think he likes me? And yes I know I shouldn't get emotionaly involved with him so please don't give me that line of crap I've heard it WAY to many times before (link)
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He seems like hes teasing you on purpose. And that he likes to joke around with you could mean hes happy with you and likes to be around you. Just ask him and see how it goes. If hes too immature to answer you in a proper way then find someone else. ( when i say this i mean if hes like umm NO HAHAHAHA)
good luck, X0 EM
Pss. I hope you dont actualy MAKE FUN of gay people. Cuz I got friends who are boys that are gay and their funny and nice to me. :]
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Hi, I'm 15/m. There's this girl that I like a lot, but she says shes bisexual, but leans more towards girls. We're really good friends, and we like a lot of the same stuff. I've tried asking her out before but she said no because she wants to be truthful to herself and not hurt any guys, but that we could still be friends. The bad thing is that I'm afraid to be her friend, because I'll always want more. Every time I look at her and think about her I want to be able to hold her... kiss her... be there for her as a boyfriend but I know I can't because... she's more lesbian than straight. She seems to really like me a lot and we seem to flirt a lot but I don't know. I still want to be with her though... She's like the sunshine in my rainstorm, and at school, she's the only person I'm looking forward to seeing. So, the question is, I really want to be with her, but I'm afraid to be her friend. What should I do? (link)
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Tell her how you feel about her. Like you told us in your question. If she feels this way about you, she will agree and go out with you. If she doesnt feel this way however, dont keep pushing it and keep asking her because it will only get her annoyed and it would ruin a great friendship. Just say, Oh ok thats cool then. Thanks anyways. " And your done. Remember if it was ment to be it would be and there are always other fish in the sea.
Good Luck :]]
X0 EM
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i am 16 and my boyfriend has been talking about getting married he said he was going to ask me to marry him soon...how do you guys feel about teenage marriage? and why do you feel this way? i need ohter teens advice! thanks xox (link)
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Teenage marriage is pretty cool with having your husband and its all so cute a little family of your own. But what most teens dont no is that there are many risks to getting married at a young age in this generation. You will have school work to do and have to do regular chores around the house and having a husband is too much to handle. Are you moving in your own apratment? This could be harder, making you having to get a job to support yourself AND going to school. You have to worry about stress. Will things get done on time in your schoolwork? Will you have the time to study for big exams and balance it off by having a husband? Will you pass to your next grades? Will you be able to afford to go to college and support a family of your own in the future? If you said no (or even if you didnt) think it over. You are still a kid and you should enjoy just being a kid. Dont let grown up stuff get in the way of your childhood. That can all come later. And if you guys are as close as you say then he'll still be around and you can get married later. Just enjoy being a kid. Remember you can only be a kid once. Once you leave to adulthood you cant go back. Think it over.
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My boyfriend is going to another country to be with his family. We've been together for just 4 months and i don't know if our relationship's worth keeping or not.
Please help me!
P.S.
I'm fifteen years old, by the way. (link)
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Oh my that must be really hard on you. What I suggest you doing is to keep in contact alot. Does he have IM MSN Yahoo or email? If so talk to him on that and be sure to write him and talk to him on the phone when possible. Distant relationships can be hard on both people. Try your best to make it work and if you know you can keep the relationship going then you CAN. But if it gets too hard and pressuring then be sure to still be friends. Because you never know. Sometimes miracles do happen in these situations.
Hope everything works out well
X0 EM
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