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Q: First of all.. we are broken up now! But, when my boyfriend tried to kiss me, I pulled away. He tried so many times and i did the same thing. I really wanted to kiss him, but I guess I was too scared??? Why did I do this?? & What can I do about it??? Please help, I dont want this to happen again!!

Just pull his face and kiss him,
theres no right or wrong way
have fun !

Q: my bestfriend and i love eachother but we just wont date. we are really close. we kiss we hug we do everything. people think were dating but were not. is this bad? two bestfriends in love kissing as better than friends.

thats perfectly fine
its friends with benefits,
you guys just do it for fun :]

Q: basically my subject. what is most appealing in a girl to a guy? and why do guys like really slutty girls?

guys like slutty girls because they want to get some ass .
and guys like girls with a sense of humor, and a good personality :]

Q: 16/F.
I like this this one guy, but I'm not sure if he likes me.
He says things that could either mean he likes me or he's just saying them.
Like this one time on the computer we were talking about something, I forget what and he puts up an away message that said
"I give up brat who I love and adore and want to spend every waking moment with."
and then he's said he was going to his friends bonfire and he said "you can come with me. i'll pick you up" and i was like "i don't know" and he's like "well we can cuddle if you want, if you think you'll feel leftout and whatnot."
then a few days later I asked him what he was doing this weekend and he said "going to my friends bonfire and your coming because i'm picking you up"

So, bascially all I want to know is if this means he likes me and is trying to see if I like him or what.

I'd appreciate if you could help.
Thank you. =]

awh .
he probably likes you
hes being really sweet :]
give him a chance !

Q: tomorrow night is this carazzyyy dance. everyone goes crazy when they are there you are supposed to get way crazy and have the time of your life. i really like this one kid(joe) alot. this other kid(dan). well dan is going to the dance tm. he really wants to hook up with me but the only reason why i would is cause i like to hook up with people and i would just do it for fun. i have NO feelings for dan though and i really don't want joe to find out. should i hook up with him or with other guys? or not at all?

go for joe dude
if you like him,
he might like you too.
so go for it

Q: well, i completly blew all my chances with her

she was a friend, then a really close friend, then we were almost going out, now she's pissed at me. we both keep acting like dicks to eachother and it sucks. i havnt spoken to her all day and she is pissed, i wanna call her. and just talk on good terms with her...and i still of course wouldnt mind going out with her :-P but hehe idk about taht cause i can view this tension as, a strong building experiance, or how i think she sees it: as somthing she definitly wants to get the hell away from..

so i plan to call in 15min, what should i say.

pretend if you would, your this girl, who liked me at one point, but now your over me (i think) i still have feelings for you, and we're both angry at eachother, you more at me. can't we just end this stupidity and be on good terms again. bbbuuuutt! i wanted to go out with you the whole time :\

sry if its stupid

i think that you should just call her,
and try calmly talking to her.

you dont wanna sound desperate though.
try asking her whats wrong, and comferting her.

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Q: okay well my friend is having a party on saturday. it` going to be really big andd really fun. she invited guys and the one i like is invited too. what do you suggest i do to get his attention at the party. i mean like should i wear something reallyy hott, or should i hang out with a bunch of other guys? how do i make him noticee mee?

pleasee helppp

i would suggest that you don't hang out with other boys, because if he likes you, you'll make him jealous, which isin't good, because then he'll loose interest in you.

you should probably try talking to him, and starting a conversation, that always works :]

Q: 15/F
so theres this boy.. he doesnt go to my school, but he doesnt live that far away..
neither of us can drive and lately the older kid who we are both friends with has been away so we have no way of getting to eachother..
im afraid that if we wait to long, it could be really akward or we might not like eachother anymore once we finally chill.
what should i do??

awh that same thing happened to me too.
my boyfriend lived 20 minutes away, and we barely saw each other, well sometimes on weekends, which was rare.

i started to worry that hes flirting with other girls and stuff, and started loosing my trust since i didn't see him that much anymore.

the best thing to do, is to talk alot.. on the phone, online, text..etc.
then you'll know whats up.

& if he realllllly likes you.
he won't stop liking you.

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Q: if you have braces and kiss someone else with braces, is there a possibility you can get stuck together?

haha i asked my friends the same question.
and no they can't get stuck together,
they're not magnets ,
i have braces too and so did my boyfriend,
nothing bad happened.

Q: Ok! Soo... there's this guy that i like. he's 18, 19 in June. He's really hot. really nice. yet a big asshole sometimes. I like him a whole lot, but im trying to get over him. Im not quite sure how. He's always on my mind every minute of everyday. & even when i go out somewhere to forget him something reminds me of him. Im not sure what to do.
sincerely.
The Confused.

I know exacly how you feel.
Except that happened with my ex boyfriend.
We went out for 10 months, broke up, and it took me forever to get over him. I would cry every night, and every song i listen to, reminded me of him, and i would get sad. The best way to get over a boy you like/your ex boyfriend , is to start talking to other boys, and start conversations. Don't chase, replace !

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My name is Emily & I'm 16 years old.
You cam come to me with advice about anything, i have probably been through it all and experienced alot of stuff, & i'll try to get back to you as soon as i can !