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Hi I am a Caucasion Female 29 years old, I have 4 kids ages 7-6-5-and 19 months.

I am very well active online so if you need me look me up and if not email me and I will get back with you.
E-mail: cauz4chaos3_12@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: DC, but live in Maryland
Occupation: House-Wife and Mother of 4
Age: 29
AIM: BOOGIEWOOGIEMONK
Yahoo: GoodGurlGoneBad312
Member Since: October 14, 2004
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I have a boyfriend, whom I have been dating for two years and 2 months. I started college this year. The college is just a couple of hours away from home. We seen each other two days before I left for college, but have only talked four times since then. I have tried to get together with him on weekends that I'm home, especially this past weekend because it was homecoming weekend and also his birthday was this past Monday. He doesn't seem interested in talking with me. I haven't received one letter or phone call from him since we have been down there, yet all the other girls in the dorm that have a boyfriend have either gotten a million letters from their significant other or got a phone call from him, or both. That would be my roommate. I don't know if I should ditch him or give him a little more time because he may be too caught up in school work. I'm too afraid to talk to him about it because I'm afraid of how he might react. Can anyone help me and guide me in the direction I need to go? (link)
Is there a possibility that there is another girl and he doesn't know how to tell you?

If so then don't be pressed and make him call you because girl there are plenty of fish in the sea and you are beautiful at least in the heart from what you think and say on here. (I don't know what you look like but everyone is beautiful in there own way) Good luck in school don't let this mess with college alot of people don't get to go so enjoy this opportunity.


i have this friend and he keeps telling me he likes me. He said he was in love with me and that he loved my body. He is really nice. People are always calling him gay and mean things. He keeps asking me out almost everyday. It is getting annoying. I keep telling him no. I try to say like i not being mean. (I'll sorta laugh like it is a joke.) I dont want to hurt his feelings. Today he asked me out. He said, "If you go out with me I'll give you a cell phone! It's prepaid and eveything!" I hate to keep telling him no, that i dont want to go out with him. How can I tell him I only like him as a friend and nothing more without hurting his feelings? I dont want thing to be too weird between us. (link)
It sounds like he is desperat be careful he is on the lines of a stalker. I would advise you to tell him "NICELY" to leave you alone. And watch out. If you have a male friend then tell him you need some sort of body guard to get him to stay away from you with out hurting him.


I'm 16. I'm having a problem. My current boyfriend Scott is wonderful. He's a good friend of mine and we recently started going out. This monday will be two weeks. Anyways, I'm having problems getting over my ex. (We'll call him ****** okay? I don't want to give his name.)So me and ****** have been friends for a while too. We went out for a while but then we broke up and decided to be friends. The other day he decided to tell me that the only reason he initiated the break-up was because he's afraid that he'll break my heart or hurt me. He could never hurt me in the ways that he thinks he can. But we won't get into that. And he doesn't know I'm not exactly over him. I've told him how I felt during the relationship but I never told him that I still feel that way.
Should I tell him?
What should I do about Scott? (I really don't want to hurt him)
And what am I going to do if Scott and I break up?
-Sam (link)
Girl you are in a serious situation, but when you get my age 29 you will see that it isn't that bad, boys come and go out of your life, only the good ones stick around.
Tell Scott that you don't want to get too serious that you just got out of a serious relationship and tell ******* that you don't want to get back with him either and that is because you think tht he lets his rep rule his life and if you take him back that you are going to hear that all the time. There might be another girl in his life and I don't want you to get hurt. I have 3 girls and I know how I am going to be going through this in a few years, and I am not ready but boys if they know that they can hurt you they will. And when they are bored that is when they will call you. Follow your heart and take some of my advice. Your pal Dymond


ok well yesterday me and my boyfriend broke up..he told me and my best friend that it was cause when we were on the phone that all I said was oh and thats cool and he didn't think I cared when he said stuff so I wasn't that upset about it..but then at school today everyone was like awww I feel so bad and I'm like I'm not that upset and there like wow how could he like her and I'm like what and no1 got a chance to tell me what that meant until my other friend was like I heard what happened and I was like yeah..and shes like do you know the reason and I was like yeah and shes like and your not upset and I was like no not really and shes like do you know this reason and was like he likes this girl (-shes such a slut and he has broken up with me before for her-) but thats not what he told me..and he also told my other friend that he thought I liked this one kid named Jordan but I dont we're in 7th and hes in 6th and hes just a friend..I can understand why he would say that though because my best friend likes him so we're always hanging with him..and so like I really wanna go back out with him..I like him soo much! and like health at school he was like staring at me the whole time and then in tech ed I was hanging out with my best friend and some other people like 2 boys and just my best friend..and he looked like so miserable..and like kept looking over at me..so I dunno if he still likes me or not and I'm gonna talk to him online tonight and I was wondering if hearing that story if you think he still likes me and what I should say to him and if I should ask him back out or just talk to him adn if just talk what should I say! sorry its so long..whoever reads this I'll rate you high! (link)
Hey sweetie, I am married with 4 kids and I just wanted to let you know that I am going through some problems with my hubby too. But as for you just deal with it like a young woman and don't let him know that you are upset by it, I believe in karma and it will come back on him. Find a new man and he will notice what he has lost. Take it from someone who has had plenty of relationships and have been through alot of stuff almost anything you think of. I have been raped, hit, abused, verbally assaulted, cheated on, messed with a married man and didnt know it, slept with a man that was living with another woman that was pregnant by him and we slept in their bed. I have been through alot and I am here for you to talk to and I will help you out as much as possible. Your loving friend Dymond




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