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Hi my name is Ashlee I'm 13 I have blonde curly hair, blue eyes, and I'm 4'11. My nicknames are smash and shorty. I like to sing, and chat online, hang out, shop, and talk on the pfone. My favorite season is winter. And I someday want to be a journalist or singer.
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i am a guy and i am in middle school and there is this girl that is like my best or 2nd best girl friend lets call her hilary. so hilary asked me out and i said yes then about a week later she dumps me. then a few days later she asks me out again and i say yes cuz i still liked her. then 3 days later she breaks up with me again. and then about 3 weeks later hilary asks me out agian and i said yes then she dumps me five days later and i have a feeling that she is gunna ask me out again wut should i do if she does?
If she does, say no. Either she can't make up her mind or she is playing with your head. So SAY NO!
love always,
Down2marz
i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and i love him so much but just recently, i have been getting close with my sisters boyfriends couin, who is 23 years old and i am 17. we ended up getting closer and closer over the past few weeks and talked every day on the phone and he came over to see me everyday and hang out. then, 2 nights ago, we ended up having sex and we stayed up talking for hours and he told me how he liked me and i told him about how i felt the same way. he knows about my boyfriend and he respects the fact that i have a boyfriend but i don't know what to do because last night he came over to hang out with my sisters boyfriend and he didnt talk to me once. usually he wont talk to me in front of them that much because they would suspect something if we did. but, even when my sisters boyfriend was in the bathroom and what not, he still didn't talk to me. i don't know what to think. what are your thoughts on all this? should i tell him i really care about him? this is the first time ive cared for someone like this besides my boyfriend in a while. but, theres something about this boy. please tell me your thoughts.
You have to tell your boyfriend everything. It will be hard but in a good relationship you have to tell the truth. Even if it involves him braking up with you. He has every right to know. Twll him what you feel and what you did.
love always,
Down2marz
how can i make sure that my girlfriend that lives 300 miles awya will never wanna leave me?
You can never make sure about that. I had a boyfriend that lived moved to Misouri and I live in Illinois. We eventually broke up but we remained good friends. The best you can do is keep in touch and make sure she knows how you feel.
love always,
Down2marz
i've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months. he comes over almost every day, considering he lives in the neighborhood next to me. every time he comes over, he thinks we always have to do stuff sexually. and the last time i saw him, i asked him if everything has to be about sex and he said yes. should i dump him, talk to him, not see him as much? help! thank u! i rate high =)
DUMP HIM girl. You deserve WAY better than that. If he really loved you he would think of you as more than a sex machine. Love is NOT about sex. Love is about caring for eachother. He is taking advantage of you. I say dump him for sure. You are not his slave.
Love always,
Down2marz
me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month now, But we've dated before for three months, then we broke up. but now we're back together. anyways now he acts different, before he would always be holding my hands or holding me arount the waist,but now he wont even touch me. I've confronted him about it, but he hasnt changed.what do i do? do i confront him again? Please help!! thanx!
Well maybe you arn't acting the same either. How aout you make amove? While your walking, grab his hand or hug him. Another reason could be that there MAY be another girl. But that isn't very likely. Maybe he is going through some school or family problems. Ask him what's going on in his life and try to help him through it.
love always,
Down2marz
I have a pretty big emergancy...
My boyfriend gave me a hicky like 30 minutes ago and I was wondering if theres ANYWAY to help speed the process of it disapearing?
please help if my parents see this then i'll get killed!
OK, well, first, try putting on some rash cream or lotion. Then liquid covor up, and then powder cover up. Try to ware a hoodie or a turtleneck. If your parents ask you about it, tell them calmly it's a rash and start itching it.
love always,
D0wn2marz
Ok i am DAting this guy and i am like the kind of girl who likes to take things slow and build up are relationship first and on or third date hoe is already wanting to kiss me i dont want to hurt his feelings but i do want him do be my boyfriend _HELP_
Well, first of all, if you don't want him to kiss you, tell himstrait out, but say it nicely. Say somthing like "I don't think I'm ready." And if you guys aren't even actually boyfriend and girlfriend, AND you don't want him to. If he still kisses you after that, remind him one more time. After that, if he does it again, he's not worth it. If a guy doesn't listen to you, hes DEFINATELY not worth it. A girl deserves better than that.
Love always,
Down2marz
I like this guy, hes my friend, and I wanna know if he likes me back. I wanna kind of ask him out, but not REALLY ask him out.. Like i wanna give him hints and see if maybe he will ask me out or something. I'm afraid that if he finds out I like him or if I ask him out and he rejects me, then things will be akward between us and our friendship will be different. And I couldn't stand it if I wasn't able to talk to him afterwards. So how do I ask him out.. or give him hints.. in a VERY subtle way, so that if he doesn't like me, it will seem like I never liked him in the first place?
Well, I say that you wait a while. Become better friends with him. But a REALLY good way to give a guy little hints is to first ask him if he'd like to hang out with you sometime. When you become better friends, then just kinda flirt a little. It works trust me.
Love always,
Down2marz