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Q: Ok ive been single for 2 YEARS!! This is too long..especially being that these are supposed to be the best years of our lives. ive been living it up with my friends and thats great and everything; but its like something is missing. Im lonely and i think everyone knows loneliness isnt a great feeling. Nobody really like me..im like the girl with the nice personality, but not the looks...i have guys as friends, but thats about it. It seems like i wont have another bf until after high school. iS there anything i can do?? or do i have to just wait it out : /
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Wow! We could not have anymore in common. So I'll just give the advice i guess i would give to myself: If you havent found the right guy yet what if the point of having a bf? If you do like someone tho, and they dont like you back then there is rly nothing you can do. Just wait for the right guy to come along, and dont worry, he'll be here soon!
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Q: Okay here it goes, my boyfriend is really unexperienced, and really shy. I want to know if I should just go for it or wait untill he goes for it (it being the kiss) Or is it more of a "we both will know when its right" type of deal. I was the one to initiate most everyhting else such as holding hands and whatnot,...now what?
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I would say that you should just wait until you or he feels that it is the right time. Just let everything take it's own coarse and you'll know when it's right. Chances are when you know it's right...so will he. Just follow you instict.
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Q: okay well there is this guy that has liked me all year long and he tells me all the time that he always thinks about me and he dreams about me and it really didnt bug me because i just ignored him when he told me stuff like that. But then all of the sudden he put something in his xanga that scared me and has haunted me ever since. It said that he would take a bullet for me thats how bad he wants me. And i have been scared that he will do anything just to get me. I dont know if i should talk to the police or a counselor but if someone could please help. He stalks me all the time and he knows everything about me like where i live, what my mom's car looks like and the sticker on the back of the car. To me that is very scary. If someone could please help i am afraid for my life here... i feel like one day he will bring a gun to school and shoot me thats how bad he really wants me and if i say no to him then that makes him really mad. Please help ASAP! ITS URGENT!
thank you
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Wow! You should tell your a parent or adult you really trust. Talk to a guidance couselour at your school or something. You need to get help right away. That's a really hard thing to deal with, i feel terrible for you. What you really need tho is an adult!
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Q: Alright, so.. I'm torn between two people. I was asked to this dance, by a guy completely out of nowhere.. I mean, he was more of an older brother than anything.. I was hoping the guy I like would ask me, (( keep in mind I've liked him since sixth grade )). Anyway, so.. I'm not sure if should give up on my crush and try and like my friend.. or still hold onto my crush.. By the way, me and my crush are really good friends too.. have known eachother since kindergarden..
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If you dont like your friend as more than a friend then accept his invitation to the dance but tell him you want to go as "just friends." You can't make yourself love someone. If you find that you really think you like you friend though then go for it! If there is potential in your relationship with him than go ahead. If not just stick to being friends and hold onto your crush.
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Q: well here it goes. might be long.. well me and my boyfriend have been goin out for a year.. and i hve noticed now that i am losing alot of my friends over him :-/ bc it seems like he is all i ever have time for and the only person i am ever with. i miss all my friends alot and i dont kno what to do.. i love him alot and we hve been goin out alot.. but sometimes friends r more important but, i never get to spend any time with them... or as much as i would like.. seems like im not invited many places as i used to be and my friends jus dont hve much interest in me bc im jus the girl with a boyfriend thats no longer fun. i dont kno what to do bc i kno it would be hard to break it off.. but jus sometimes with him is jus not the best and it seems like everything i do makes him mad but i cant get mad at him. dont get me wrong we do hve some great times together but i think we might jus need to go our seperate ways but every other time i hve tried breakin up i ended up wantin him back soo bad! and i jus dont kno what to do.. please give me some help and maybe leave a sn so i can contact you
signed::
xox lover OR friends?
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Hi!! It looks like your in some serious trouble! Balancing friends and a boyfriend can be rly hard. Just try to spend some time with your friends and some time with your boyfriend...keep it evely balanced. If you find you and your boyfriend drifting apart more than maybe the best thing you can do is just break it off. You may feel like you want him back but if you rly feel that you strongly need to go your separate ways just explain to him that you need to take a little time being single. Do a lot of the girls around you have boyfriends?? Maybe that's why you have a hard time breaking up with him, because you want to have a boyfriend. But maybe that's not the case. If you really feel that you love him and he loves you maybe you should try to make it work. Talk to your boyfriend and tell him u think there should be more space between you but you still really love him and want to be with him. That way you get your friends and you boyfriend. Who knows maybe he'll feel the same way that you do.
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I'm here to answer any questions you need answered. So dont hesitate just ask me and I'll give my best advice!
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Gender: Female Member Since: April 25, 2005 Answers: 20 Last Update: January 5, 2006 Visitors: 2226
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