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My name is Natalie and I am 15 years old.
My passion is to help those around me with any problem they are facing in their lives at the moment. I do not judge no matter what, I would hate to be judge myself, and I am no hypocrite.
Do not think of me as an angel, or a perfectionist, because I am far from it.
I'm just a normal school girl that wants to help those around her.
If you like my advice, and want to ask me more personal questions,
send me an e-mail on here, or my personal e-mail.
I would love to help.
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Natalie--
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okay, so im 15 female, and im hispanic.
so this is whats going on, im talking to this boy, hes superrrrrr sexy! ahah and hes mexican and black. (i know that doesnt sound like a sexy mix, but omgggg, this boy is gorgeous ;] lol) and the problem here is that my parents dont like me dating black guys, and no there not racist, they jus think its wrong for me to be with a black guy. which i think is dumb... but anyways, im just thinking like if me and him do end up as something serious, and start going out, how would i tell my parents? cause i would like for them to know about him.. and i wouldnt be able to keep it from them cause i have older bros and cousins that will tell and then eventually they will find out! advice? thanks (link)
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Hello.
Keeping him from your parents, if something became serious would be bad. What I would suggest doing, is to wait, and see if this 'relationship in progress' goes anywere...
If it looks like it's going to start up soon enough, have a 'sit down' with your parents and talk it out. Explain to them that you really have feelings for this boy, and if they love you they'll respct that. If, they are still uncertain, maybe have them meet with this boy before things get to serious and then they can see that maybe 'black boys' aren't as nad as they thought..
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For the past 4-5 years of my life, I have been struggling with the realization that I am most likely a lesbian, and at the very least bisexual. I don't consider myself homophobic in the least, but admitting to myself that getting married to a nice boy won't make me happy has been difficult.
I have had a limited number of same-sex encounters with other girls, but nothing too serious. I am now in college, and ready to face my future bravely and with certainty.
I am not sure how to explain this to my close friends. I feel uncomfortable. I'm not sure how to begin living out this "new chapter" in my life. Any advice? (link)
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Hello.
First off, Before telling anybody of this decision, you have to make YOURSELF beleive it. No one will beleive or you be able to help you if YOU YOURSELF don't beleive. Until you are 100% sure that you are in fact lesbian, no one can help you. So start with that.
once you are sure.
talk to me.
ill help you with the next step.
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15/f
Hi, me and my boyfriend 16/m have been together for 11 months (a year in 2 weeks). But now I dont know if I can even make it to a year. When we first got together everything was great, but I guess that's how it is in most cases. He started to change a little over summer break. Now, it's even worse. I just feel like he lusts me now, and I really don't like it. I told him that I'm not into anything sexual until I'm married (or at lest old enough to know what I'm doing), but he just doesn't seem to get that. He always talks about other girls, he says it's just to make me jealous, I told him that doesn't work on me anymore. He rarely calls me unless I beg him to. He always busy, it seems like he loves his computer more than me. I mean, how can I lose to an inanimate object!? I always seem to do everything I can think of to make him happy, but he just doesn't get it. I guess I've changed too. I used to never cry, he used to make me really happy, and now it seems like everytime I talk to him via. phone, I ALWAYS cry. I've gotten more... naive, confused, and I just feel like I lost all respect for myself. I feel if I just get away from him and focus on myself I can regain my self respect. Now, the thing is, I don't know how to break it to him lol. Now, that I typed this out I see how bad it really was. Could anyone give me some advice?
Much Appreciated~ (link)
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Hello.
I can't really tell you how to break up with your boyfriend, because i'm not as knowledgable about the subject (i.e your boyfriend) you should tell him what you told me. How you feel like your being ignored and such. Tell him you don't want to hurt him but you need to get your self confidence back. I'm sure he'll understand
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13/F
Okay, here is the thing. I have liked this boy for a while now and he likes me too. I am 13, he is 14, we like eachother, it should be simple right? Well it isn't. He says he likes me, but that he doesn't want a girlfriend. But see, even though he says that, he still acts like my boyfriend. We hang out a ton, we talk all the time, he can get a little protective and sometimes a little jelous when it comes to other boys, and yet he insists that he just does not want a girlfriend. It isn't like he is playing me because I am really the only girl he ever talks to/ hangs out with, besides he is TOTALLY not like that. So what the heck? I mean it really pisses me off because if he doesn't want to be my boyfriend, he should quit acting like one! And I do NOT do the whole Friends with Benefiets deal, that is just not me, and I don't want to do that but I REALLY like him, and I just want things to work, but I can't change how he feels, right?
So what do I do? Should I wait around and hope he changes his mind? I mean there are tons of other boys that would appreciate me but I'm just not interested and I just cant see it... Besides, this boy actually does like me and what if I chuck him and I end up regretting it... Help please! (link)
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Hello.
It seems like this boy is into you and you are quite into him. He could be just hanging around to see if he's into you enough actually consider you as his girlfriend. You should try talking to him because then at least he will know how you feel and that's a start. Comminucation is always very good so the other pupil can know how you feel so he's not always questioning.
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15/f/uk
So there's this guy I like, let's call him S. He's 16, almost 17, not that that's important, just thought i'd add it in.
I mostly know him through school trips we've both been on. The first was a year ago, and although we didn't talk much then, he still seemed to be fond of me, always saying hi to me, trying to start conversations and asking me to come hang out with him and his friends.
Then he always say hi and hugs me if he sees me out.
Then the most recent school trip, which I only got back from a couple days ago, was when I started to fall for him. Although he is a flirt with everyone, he was always teasing me, comforting me if I was a bit down, putting his arm around me, walking beside me, trying items of his clothing on me, putting accessories on me in shops, taking pics of me, standing beside me in pictures.
We ended up flirting a lot, sharing food, sitting with each other, constantly making eye contact and smiling at each other when no one was watching. It was like we had some kind of connection, when other people were talking we would make eye contact with each other and smile (or nto smile sometimes), as if we were sharing some kind of private joke.
After a while, my friends sensed that there was something going on between us, and left us on our own. S had obviously wanted them to, because when they said they wanted to leave he said. "Okay, you go. Me and M will stay here." and then he asked me to come sit next to him. So we sat and it wasn't uncormfortable at all. He kept looking at me in a kind of intrigued way, like he couldn't quite work me out. I made a comment about him, and then, he suddenly seemed to get a little more serious, like he cared what I thought about him, and asked if he really appeared that way, then tried to explain why. But he started to kind of get confused with it, it was really cute. Then he studied me for longer and we made eye contact, and he started saying what he thought about me, which was along the lines of, I act innocent but I'm mysterious and he can tell just by looking into my eyes that there's something more to me, that he thinks I'm a bit of a bad girl, but I'm hard to work out. I never gave him a straight answer to that, just kind of smirked or smiled and made eye contact and then would change the subject, which I hope keeps the mystery. Then he bought me a drink (:
When we were with everyone again he mostly talked to me and joked about, and once when talking about something he loved and found we had in common, said, "Ohmygod, I think I'm in love!". I know he wasn't being serious, but there must be something to it.
However, after that, he didn't really speak to me on the flight home, apart from saying hi every now and then, though sometimes I'd catch him watching me. Oh, also he asked for my number and gave me his.
He hasn't contacted me since the trip, except for saying "snap." next to one of my facebook updates.
What should I do? I really want to get to know him more and get him to like me more, but I don't know how. I have his facebook and number, but I don't ever really see him. Any ideas?
Also I should add that he is generally quite a flirty guy. It's just that to me, he seemed genuinely interested.
Thanks, x
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Hello.
Sounds like S is interested in getting to know you, but doesn't want to seem to eager. Give him some time to come to you. it is possible that he is into you but doens't know if he's ready for a relationship just yet. He could be shy around diffrent type of people, and this is why, back from your trip,he is acting diffrent around certain people. Try going up to him and start making conversations. He could be waiting for you to make the first move to prove if your brave enough to be by his side.
It could talk longer than you may want but if you keep your head up straight and show your not just waiting after him, I'm certain things are going to turn out for the best.
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k theres this guy lets call him eric, and were like bff's but 2 days ago he said he loved me more than a friend &&i reacted badly and told me ididnt see him that way && a day later he started dating anotehr chick and tells her he loves her but never tells me he loves her is it just me or dusnt this make sense ?? is he just somneone to avoid b/c he tells people he loves them regardless or is he doing it to get over me? idk. help.plz! x0x (link)
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Hello.
I would have to say this "eric" fellow isn't really sure of his feelings right now. His head isn't on straight since you told him you did not feel the same way. I would tell you not to avoid him because that will make him feel inscure and unsafe. Eric could still love you even though he is dating some other girl. For one it could be the old jealousy act. What i would consider doing is telling him how you feel and how you are really confused of what's going on right now. He could also not be telling you because he could be thinking you don't want anything to do with him. Tell him how this is bothering you and talk it out. Talking is very important. So start with that. And then see whats going on .
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Ok im an 18 year old male. I recently met this 22 year old girl, she is turning 23 in like july or something. Im pretty sure she is into me. My question is, is she too old for me to date? (link)
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Hello.
I would like you to remember a very important peice of advice. AGE IS JUST A NUMBER. As long as your comfortable with this woman you have met, and she is comfortable with you, then age shouldn't be a probleme here. As long as the feelings you have for each other are real, that's what you should be focusing on. Because that's the most important thing in this relationship. The key is to maintain the love you too have for each other.
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