So this kid found out that i thought he was hot about a few months back. we never really talked in person but he asked me to hangout, but we never really did and stopped talking within like 2 weeks. (and he had a new girlfriend like the next day). Now, for about a little over a month, hes been talking to me again. and like aims me ALL the time and still wants to hangout and shit. i see him in school and smile and say hey whats up and stuff, but we dont really have time for conversations.
At first i thought he only wanted to like hookup, and i told him i was cool by that, but just tell me what he really wanted so i dont start liking him and get hurt. but it turned out he wants to date me.
However, he still trys to talk to sooo many other girls. so i dont know if hes only talking to me to get some because he cant find it anywhere else, even though he's trying so hard to talk to all these other girls?
im sooo confused. he seems really nice. i asked him why he wanted to date me if we could just hookup instead, and he said because "we have alot in common, get along great, and because hes really attracted to me". he said he "wants to do right by me" haha what does that mean?!
i have no clue how to take this, like, why is he still trying to talk to so many other girls then?
then i thought he might just be using me, because he thinks like im in the "in-crowd" and he has like no friends, soo i have no idea. what do you guys think? should we end up hanging out? or no? thanks!
Umm. Well you wouldn't really know if he's using you or not until you give him and chance and find out, but if he does then he's just a jerk and needs to get BEAT UP! Haha
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I'm a 16 year-old girl and my 15 year old (first) boyfriend says that I should change myself COMPLETELY just for him. And when I asked him why he's still with me and why he doesn't go to someone else he says it's because of all the sexual things he wants to do with me. I'm like..wtf..You don't respect me. You want me to change for YOUR sick pleasures...Well, I'm not going to change. It upsets me...because everything I seem to do, he's not happy with. The way I dress, act...He LOVES the way I look. And that's about it.
I'm on the verge of breaking up with him. We've been together for a month and 2 weeks. Do you think I should give him another chance?
No I don't think you should give him a chance either because he wats to change you to something you're not! If he doesn't like you for who you are then he doesn't deserve you at all. So tell him to hit the road. :-D
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15/f
I have fallen extremely hard for this guy. And my friend did too. I now realize it isn't going to work out between him and me, and he really isn't that great of a person anyway. The problem is, I just can't seem to get over him. I still think about him non-stop, and I always end up feeling miserable because I know I can't have him. I really just want this to end. So how do I get over him?
Also, I'd really like to find someone new, but I don't even know when to begin even more. Can I have some ideas on how to do that? And something other than join a club please, because I plan on doing that already.
The only thing that I can think of is that you would hate to see him th your friend or with someone else because you probably THINK that you like him a lot. You can only figure out a way to stop thinking bout him because no one can really do it for you. So don't try to find another boy just to get your mind off of the other boy because he's only going to be a replacement. Hope whatever I said made sense and help
-Courtney
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I was really into this guy, Michael. He invited me to hang out and hook up, but I thought it'd just be making out. He got forceful and mean and really pressured me into giving him head. I tried to kiss him but he just rejected me and kept telling me to give him head. Well, I did. I'm so ashamed that I acted so easy. The whole time he held my head hard and wouldn't let me breath until he was finished.
I feel so ashamed and embarrassed because I really like him. And now I don't know what to do, what if this gets around school?
Well what the person below or above me said is one way to take it and I have another way to handle things. Just try to write things down or talk to a close friend about it so you won't keep it bottled inside of you. Ok, what you should do about him is to just stop even seeing him. I know you're ashamed of it but it's already done and over and charging him isn't going to take back the fact that it happened, it also isn't going to stop him from doing that to other females. So just try to look on the bright side :-D
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This is absoutly killing me, and I'm sorry If It's too long but I'd appreciate lots of responses beacuse all of my friends think different and I just dont know. Here it goes-
I'm a freshman (girl) , he's a junior. At the begining of this school year one of his friends (junior, girl) came up to me and told me how hott he thinks I am. No big deal, I laughed it off. Then one day he IMed me (beacuse he wanted to tell me not to go out with one of his friends who liked me) but thats beside the point. Ever since then he's IMed me ALMOST everyday and texts me a couple times a week. We dont asociate too much in school beacuse we barely see each other but sometimes he'll wait outside my classroom and I'll skip class and I'll walk through the halls with him for a bit. (He makes fun of me if I dont, and says I'm too scared to skip class). He drinks, and smokes pot occasionaly (I dont, not even drink I'm not like that) But some of my friends do and It's no big deal. He makes fun of me (in a cute way) beacuse I'm not as "badass" as him. We flirt a LOT btw. So a couple weeks ago he asked me who I liked and I told him I didnt like anyone, and he said if I told him who I liked he'd tell me the two girls he has crushed on. So I figured okay, I'll just tell him. I was bascily like welll I kinda have a thing for you, (and this other kid but that doesntmatter ) And he was just like oh, and he told me he had a crush on this senior girl (gorgeous btw) and someone else but he couldnt tell me. So maybe that girl was me? I dont know. I tried to get it out of him forever. We've been talking since the begining of the year and he always makes little comments like, "I'm glad you appreicate our friendship" Or , " Haha , whatever you loveeee me" . But he told me he liked another girl? So maybe he doesnt like me. Maybe he thinks I'm an immature freshman. I'm not cocky not at all but.. I can usually get who I want. I dont know how to tell if he likes me. What do you think?
Really sorry about the length of this, haha.
xoxo
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-Haha well youu go girl! :)
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Hello Everyone,
I'm going to get straight to the point. I met this guy, Luke. He is 15 and he my kind of guy. Well about two weeks ago, we started dating. You know we hung out, late at night outside,Kissed under the stars and everything I loved this guy so much. I couldn't believe I was actually dating this guy, he was so perfect, I always looked at it as "oh, I'm to ugly to get him" kind-of thing. but I was wrong, but not for long, Two days later he broke me heart in two. He told me that I was young (13) and its hard for him to say "i love you" to someone and really mean it, so he broke up with me. We still talk sometimes on the phone and he sometimes calls me just to make sure I'm ok. He tells me I can tell him anything and everything, but I think to myself "why would I want too? you broke my heart" but anyways.. just today we hung out it was me and my best friend and of course him, he had liked my best friend in the past they were flirting sometimes but he still payed attention to me too. but, I cant get over this dude. And the thing is we only dated for four days. He says he will always have feelings for me and stuff and I'm sure I will too.
so? what do I do now? do I need to tell him how I feel? do I need to just let him go? be friends?
I have no idea. =[
please help me.
thanks much love.
Summer.=]
Heyy Summer I do think you should tell him how you feel. Because if you neverdo you would never know what would have happened if you did. So be sure to tell him and ask him if he's ever gotten his heart broken, usually when it's hard for a boy to tell someone that they love them it's mostly because they've gotten their hearts broken or they're scared of commitment. So just sit him down and talk to him one-on-one. You'll be surprised with the results. Hope everything works out. Be sure to tell me about it girl, =) bye
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im a girl in high school
so theres this boy who i have a major crush on. hes a grade above me and the only class i have with him is gym (which is embarising becasue im so not a gym person)...i've texted him a few times but its always initially me texting him and he's always the one who says he has to go...so i feel like im bothering him...he doensn't have a sn so i can't talk to him that way...any ideas/suggestions? thanks!
Yes I have a couple of ideas. I know exactly what you're talking about and if he didn't like you i'm sure he would say so. If he didn't then he must likes SOMETHING about you. So try and joke around saying litte things like "my friend said we make a cute couple" or something like that and I GUARANTEE it'll break the ice. Also try to find out his interests. You never know, ya'll could have lots in common.
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