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Hi. My name is Corbie. I'm 15 and a sophomore. Don't let the age fool you though. I do have a good bit of wisdom with certain things in life. You can ask me any questions about whatever you need, no matter how rediculous. I am a very understanding person. I will be honest; sometimes I don't know what to say but I can still be helpful. I love my boyfriend Monty. We will have been dating for 9 months on his birthday; February 2. I also lovelovelove MUSIC, poetry, rainbows, penguins, pandas, koalas, puffins, clounds, rain, spring, and daisies. I'm not a big person on politics; I don't really discuss them. I would like to go to school for Elementary teaching and Ministry with kids. I love kids. I am a full time worker with the children program at my church. Other than that I am a simple person. I will try and help you out as best I can.

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Okay so this is going to be kinda long, just letting you know, so if you don't have any time, don't read this.

Alright so my friend Taylor was 'talking' to this Alec kid, Alec is a Sophomore, and Taylor and I are freshmen but we all went to the same gradeschool. Well I remember getting mad at her for something, so I told Alec he was cute haha, and we started 'talking'. We were talking for about two weeks, he would text me in the mornings sometimes and say cute things, and if he didn't do that then he would right after school was over until one of us fell asleep.

Well a lot of people found out and he got annoyed but he didn't really care. But he stopped liking me because he thought I liked someone else, but I'm pretty sure its because some girl(Erin) told him shit about me. Erin and I got into a fight kinda, but were really close now. (This is all in Novemeber by the way)

Well after that.. Alec and I would talk just as friends usually, but he will tell me I'm pretty everytime we talk usually. Then I got a boyfriend because I was tired of waiting for him, that lasted about three weeks, and I still liked Alec so I dumped George, but thats not the whole reason why.

Then Alec and I were kinda talking again, I told him I still liked him but he told earlier he had liked Anna so I knew he didn't like me but he said your the hottest freshmen I know and I would hook up with you any day but your a good friend, and I was like but you would only be using me.. and he said No I don't use people, so I just went along with it because I knew it wouldn't happen.

Well later that week I asked if he was serious about hooking up and he said that he didn't know, so I was just like whatever, but I saw him that week at Wendy's. He was with a lot of his friends and they all came outside and were waving and shouting my name and then they get into their car, and pull along side my mom's and roll down all the windows, honk, then start shouting and waving.. and then my mom started waving, and Alec was texting me and saying how much he loves my mom? and I was just like okay drunk ass.. because they were all drunk/buzzed haha.

Well then Taylor told me she liked Alec again and I decided I should be a good friend and help her, so I pretended I didn't like him, and help her.. and this kid, Jimmy, that is Alec's friend likes me, and so I thought I might go for him..

So I hung out with Jimmy two weeks ago and I was talking to Alec after and I told him I was bored and he said aren't you with jimmy? and I said no I was earlier why? and he told me that someone told him and he didn't believe it and I asked why and he got all mad at me for it and started giving me attitude, and we haven't really talked that much since.

But on Thursday I texted him and we were getting along, and I asked if he was going to this game Friday and he said no I don't want to waste my money because they will lose.. So I'm at the game, and then all the sudden he walks in and I was with Erin.. and she said that he told her he would say hi.. so she said something to him and he's like I didn't see you.. but that is his lame ass excuse for everything because he told me that once when I was like a row behind him at Church and I know he saw me haha.

But I was talking to him Friday night and he was sticking up for me about something, but when he would text me, he wouldn't text Erin back, and when he would text Erin, he wouldn't text me back. Later on he told Erin that his grandma was in the hospital and stuff.. so I know he's been really busy with that and baseball..

I texted him earlier today but he never answered, and I wasn't going to text him until he texts me.. But I don't really know.. What would you do if you were me? Do you think I have a chance? Do you think he still likes me?

PS.. If you need more details I will be more then happy to tell you because I shortened this mass and didn't put in anything.

Okay hun, listen. This guy is a waste of time. I havn't had that exact problem but I have had a guy who was just as rediculous. It seems so hard to let them go but it's the best for you. Stay friends. Don't txt him. If he wants to talk to you he will. Still hang out with him at like school or wherever. Friends are essential but in dating terms forget it. He is just playing with your mind and pulling your strings. He likes girls attention. I used to be that way with guys and it's not right. Give up lol.

Good Luck
KerbeeLee

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There's this guy who comes to my house everyday. Not for me, he hangs out with my big brother from time to time.
Anyways, he has never spoken to me until I got a message from him on my myspace page. It says, "Hey princess. my name is so and so (not mentionin' his name) I'm this and that (describing himself) I would like to get to know you or call you sometime."
I wrote back sayin, "boi, you see me everyday".
Not sure if that was smoothe, but he seems like a sweet person.
He does give me long stairs or whatever. I would date him but he smokes and drink and stuff like that, which i can't stand.
Do you think that he even likes me? And/Or Should I try talking to him?

Okay what I think you should do is talk to him. But that's not all. If you don't like the things he does tell him. Talk to him for a while first and let him know how you feel but don't rush. Tell him you like him but there are complications. If he asks then tell him your not comfortable with a guy who smokes and drinks; it's just not something you like. If he doesn't think that is fair and respect you for it then he isn't worth your time. A relationship without respect is not a relationship at all.

Good Luck with your "boi" lol
ILY-KerbeeLee

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ok i have 2 questions here please answer if you have a answer for either one ok so the first question is how do you get a tomboy to like you i really like her and i dont know if she likes me for more than a friend so i would like to know how to get a tomboy to like you and the second question is are there diffrent kinds of tomboys if there are please tell me thanks

Well I was a tomboy once when I was in elementary school. It was still a part of me when I was in middle school but a little less. 8th grade year I changed now I'm more of a punk/emo type girl. Even though I was there I don't think I could tell you how to get a tomboy to like you. Girls are the same but she might be into more outdoors, boy type activities than girls. Try doing some things with her that you both like. Considering she is a tomboy she has to have some of the same qualities as you.

Yes, there are different types. You can have one who just likes guys clothes cause they make her feel more comfortable about their body. It's a way to let them get used to it. You can have one who likes just guy sports, activities, etc. Or one that is all around dressed like, acting like(humor and health care), and doing things like a guy. Put it this way. I don't want to freak you out but if she is the last one then she is either just into guy things or gay. Talk to her about it. Get to know her MORE.

Corbie

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well my boyfriend and i r really close and just recently started dating even tho we have liked each other for a while. before we were best friends and still r and share everything with each other. andyway so i am probably moving this summer and its really hard for the both of us and he doesnt want me to move at all. he hates the idea. im 14 and hes 15 almost 16. the thing is we arent sure if we should have a long distance relationship. honestly i dont think either of us want to but we both dont want to leave each other either. it is extremely difficult for him to except this because we both care for each other so much and love each other like best friends. we are best friends. so my ? is iwant to hear what pple think about long distance relationships and if they work out well or not. i would only be able to visit like twice a yr too. i dont think its going to work tho but the thought of leaving him and losing him breaks myheart. the thing is i wouldnt be able to see him in person and hug him and hold hands and kiss him and stuff. we go to different schools and already hate having to go weekend to weekend cause i just switched schools a couple months ago and we used to have classes together and see each other everyday. thank you so much and i really appreciate it :]

Okay, I can see why you are so upset about this. It is a hard decision and you probably don't really want to think about it. Serious relationships are hard to deal with and they can be very difficult. I'm in a serious relationship now too; 8 months today actually. If I was in your situation I would just tell him that I find it difficult to continue what we have but that I would never forget it or lose it in my heart. You should tell him the same thing. Tell him you both have the chance to start fresh with a new beginning and you never know, this could be a great thing for you two. I get told this all the time and I do believe it; you shouldn't be held down by one guy all through school. You need to experience different one's and know what is out there. Find out your style and types; see what else you could have. I love my bf too with all my heart and I wouldn't want to let go of him but sometimes I think that there are other guys there who are interested in me and giving them a chance wouldn't be so bad. You can find out what your exact taste is and what you REALLY like. Mix up the flavors and find your specialty.

ILY
Corbie ^_^

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a sign of him started popin up everywhere you know the comercial for the hercualies hooks things and the kid in the comercail looks just like him that was what started that day and then later that day i was playing this computer game called school tycoon its where you build and run your own school and then there is little students walkin around and you can click on them and see there stats and one students name was Dustin F(im not saying his last name cause i dont know if your alowed to) DUSTIN F AAAAAAAAHHHHHHH oh and me and my dad went to the golf coarse yesterday and one of the golf pros had what looked like fake blonde hair (dusitn dyes his hair) and his name was dustins last name it was freaky what do you think i should do i see this creep everywhere i go and i dont think i like him anymore what should i do

That was your problem. You THINK you don't like him anymore. You have to KNOW. You have to quit playing these games with your mind. Obviously you still think about him. There are those last few feelings you have left to give up. Just work with it. It should soon come out of your system once you REALLY know he is out and it's over.


Good Luck
Corbie♀

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Right, so the other week i was out with some friends and they introduced me to some guys.
Then, i started hanging round with two of them guys (C and J) who both have gfs.
I took a liking to J and today we were talking for a little bit but we were with other people so we werent alone.
Weve been speaking on msn and myspace quite abit.
And i really like him. But, he has a gf who he's madly in love with.
And i dont WANT to like him, i just do.. And i dont want to tell him i do because it'll be really awkward seeing as we havent known each that long.
I know if i get closer to him then i'll like him even more. But, i want to get closer to him, if that makes sense.

I just really dont know what to do.
Do i just leave it and see where it goes?

Okay. First I want you to know that I have been in this position before. It was actually with my first love. I was single and he had a girlfriend; lets just use her first initial, B. She was a senior and he was a junior; I was little freshman, you do the math and see who will probably get him. They were pretty happy and always together and he seemed so happy. I liked him a lot but I didn't want to get inbetween them. It would have been selfish. So let me tell you this. Don't ruin anything. You seem like you can handle it. Leave it be and see where everything goes. You might actually get a chance, you never know. Don't think of your needs but others first. He might be happy where he is. Maybe he will realize he likes you and wants to give it a shot so just see where things go. It will take patience but I think you can do it =].

Good Luck, Corbie♪

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14/f

At the moment my love life is really confusing me.

At the beginning of this month, me and my then-boyfriend of 3 and a half months, G, split up. I had just had enough of the relationship, and I know it sounds bad, but I'd just got bored of it to be honest. Ever since then he's been telling friends (we have the same friend group) how in love with me he is, and saying that he's falling more and more in love with me all the time. When we were dating we acted more like friends than lovers.

A while ago my best friend D was dating this guy - R. I'd always liked R a little bit, but when they split up (about a month before me and G split up), R told some people he liked me, which made me like him more. Towards the end of my relationship with G, me and R were flirting quite a lot. When me and G split up, R told me he liked me, but we both agreed we couldn't do anything about it, seeing as I'd just split up with G, and R's my best friend's ex.

Somehow, everyone found out, and now G and R pretty much hate each other.

At a recent party, me and R ended up making out and spending the night together, but somehow it didn't feel right. At this same party, one of my friends F (who is always messing people around when it comes to relationships) made a move on G, and rumours about the two of them started going round. It really upset me, and at that point, I knew I couldn't deny that I still have feelings for G.

Recently, R has told people he's in love with me, and he's been saying really intense things to me, I've tried telling him I don't want to be in a relationship, but he doesn't seem to understand.

G has also said that he's still in love with me, and I know nothing's going on between him and F, although she's told me she likes him.

Recently, me and G have been getting on better, and my feelings for him are getting stronger again. But he has said on his myspace and livejournal that he loves me and will never be with me again, so he's going to try and move on and get on with his life. And if he wants to move on and get on with his life, I don't want to get in the way of it by telling him I still have feelings for him. Although one of our friends told me he doesn't want to get over me, but he thinks he has to.

So at the moment, I'm talking to both R and G, and I'm worried that I'm starting to mess them about. I don't want to give them hope, and I don't know which of them I'd rather be with, or if I even want to be in a relationship at all. I think I need some time on my own, but I really miss G, and I do like R, the problem is; they're both obviously a lot more serious about me than I am about them. I'm starting to feel like I'm leading them on =/

I also have a friend, C, who asked me out recently (I said no) and told one of my friends he's in love with me, so I don't want to hurt him by suddenly being in a relationship.

I just want to know what you think and what you think I should do?

Thanks, xxx

Okay well to me it seems as if you DO need a break. You should tell them both you arn't for a relationship right now and you need time to think of what you really want; freedom for a while or love again. It also seems that you have stronger feelings for G. The way you talk about him and still having feelings for him. You even get upset when another friend makes a move on him. I think if you decide to get with anyone you know who it is.

Good Luck,
Corbie-Leigh♀

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I started talking to this boy on AIM one day(about 2 years ago). he is a year older then me (im 13). he had a girlfriend when we started talking but i think i got in the way and they eventually broke up. he lived in a different state then me, but he is my best friend. I love him. I really do. Sometimes you love a person for their looks or how they kiss you. but ive never met him, so i know its honest to god love.a few months ago we stopped talking for about a month in a half, and now we are back to the way it was before. we call each other like 3 times a day and stuff. but over christmas and winter break (now) we have barely said a word to each other. he has no more texts this month and he wont really answer my calls. but everytime he does answer them he tells me he is with a friend or he is busy or something. This boy is really my life, i would call him every mornning be4 we went to school and when i got home from school. and we would be on the phone for hours. we even had phone sex. But now that he wont talk to me, i dont know what to do. my days are going by slow. And i miss him.About a month ago he told me he didnt know why we stopped talking, and that he would never want that to happen again. so why is he being such a jerk now and leaving me hanging alll the time? I cry over him almost everyday =[

THanks! Please help

Honestly what I think is happening is he is ready for a real relationship again. He isn't looking for an over the internet and phone relationship. He is just trying to make reality. He might already have a girlfriend and just doesn't know how to tell you because he doesn't want to hurt your feelings; or he doesn't know how you will react. I'd say give it up. I know you love him and it seems like he is your world but over the internet realtions just arn't how life work. Try to find someone within seeing distance. See how things work out. What you should do is if after half a year if you still can't stop thinking about him write us back.

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i broke up with my bf cuz he was cheating. i really want him in my life and to be friends but i know i will regret breaking up with him. he keeps telling me that he loves me and everything but then his actions say differently. he took me off his myspace, before we broke up. what the hell. then he set his profile on private. i basically just need to get over it...what helps mend the broken heart, im a really happy person usually, but i have a problem drinking so i want to find other ways to deal with this. please help

My best advice on this is that you probably wont fully get over it. That is only one suggestion. That is USUALLY only right when they are your first true love; and you have to know that they are. He treats you wrong and you shouldn't deal with it. You need a much better guy in your life. I advise you get a lot of friends to incourage you the positive way instead of the negative. I will put it this way: Drinking is fatal. Even if he did you wrong you have friends and family that do you right. Don't go off drinking just because of a guy when you could find someone who treats you so much better and you have others who still do care about you very much.

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