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Q: Ok well i like this kid a year older than me A LOT the problem is he has a gf well one weekend he begged me to come over but i couldnt now he wants me over this weekend well I know his gf and im not a slut so the best choice is to stay home right ?

well not really. because you dont know if he wants to fuck, or just chill. cause its not the weekend yet. if you go and he just wants to fuck then tell him no. and if he keeps trying. leave.
thats what i would do.

Q: Ok i like my bestfriend -joe- and we do everything together! i know he likes me and i dont know how to tell him i like him back!

ask him who he likes.
when he names the people....
usually the other person [him] would ask you who you like.
then name the people u like including him.
:)
hope it kinda helps.

Q: My guy friend and I have been friends since frosh year. We talk a lot on AIM and in person.
Recently, we've been chatting more and sometimes I get vibes that maybe he likes me more than a close friend.
Our first home football game was a few weeks ago and I got him to come to it cause another friend of ours was moving that weekend to Maryland. He came after his play practice and we hung out after the halftime show(yeah marching band!).We walked towards our homes together. Across the street from his house, we chatted for a few and then hugged. I think he might have kissed me on my forehead. When I hugged him, everything felt right in the world. Then I told him I'd wait for him to cross(cause its a main road and it was 10 at night). He said "So you'd know if I die, right?" and I said "Yeah, but I don't want you to die cause I love you." He smiled and crossed then we met up on AIM when we got home.
On days that I have my private flute lesson, sometimes I see him and he comes over and sits by me. We usually chat about random things.
We usually say hey to each other in school. Online lately we have been chatting a little bit more on the sexual side. We had a conversation about balls. He says he trusts me a lot and that I'm his close friend(he doesnt believe in best friends). We have pretty much the same personality and music tastes.
The other day, we walked to the music wing together(I have band the same period he has choir). We were chatting and we were both late by 2 minutes to class.
Usually he doesn't say anything to me when he can't chat, but now all of a sudden he says "can't talk now, going to eat dinner/do a project. sorry!"
He's also started holding the door for me and making me smile more.

any ideas. Sorry this is so long.

he likes you.
i think that anyways.
:]
he sounds sweet.
go for it.

Q: i don't really know what i'm asking specifically..i just need general advice. i just started dating my current boyfriend. it's been a little over two weeks. i'm just wondering..for all of you with boyfriends..how long did you wait before you kissed him and how long have you been together so far..and for those who don't..how long did you wait before you kissed your last boyfriend..and how long were you together? i just don't know how long i want to wait. don't tell me to wait until i'm ready or want to..because i am going to do that. its just my ex left me with some trust issues..though i do trust my boyfriend..and i don't want a redo of my last relationship..which was way too physical. so your input will just help me a ton.

thank you so much.

ive been dating my boyfriend for about a lil over 2 weeks now. and we kissed on the first night. :)

Q: okay so basicaly i have the worst time ever talking to guys. just get all nervous haha. and well i suck at flirting. and there is this guy that i really really like and he is always like stairing at me. but he doesnt seem to really notice im there.. and i was just wondering what the hell i should do to get this guys attention..? :) any help/ advice you can give is greatly appreciatied.

hmmm.....dont get nervous. just talk to him as if he were ur best friend. one of the girls. ya know...except be flirtatious because i dont think youd flirt with your bff....ha. idk. maybe you would. ha. jk

Q: On november 1st I got a boyfriend, and even though we have only been dating a little while I love him and know he is the one for me! Well here is the other part of the story.
Before me and my boyfriend started dating I had this thing going on with my ex boyfriend. Then my exboyfriend said alot of mean stuff to me. Like im a slut and i cant get any guys and all that stuff. Then when I got my boyfriend (that i am with now) my ex boyfriend apologized. My exboyfriend is in my gym class and everyone says that he keeps looking at me. He even poked my tummy! what is up with that? I mean he insulted me (but he apologized) what is he thinking? THe bad part is I kinda like knowing he is looking at me and stuff...
Whats going on?

I rate well

he still likes u.
even though you have a bf.
you prolly still like him.
how long ago did you and your ex brake up?
if it wasnt that long then u prolly still like him.

Q: There is this guy I like and i dont know if he likes me. he says he likes talking to me most in school but yet since people are making fun of our friendship he dont want to talk to me in person. I really like him and I dont want to lose him. What do I do??

ok.
in my opinion...
fuck those people making fun of you.
just ignore it.
dont let it get to you.
why exactly are they making fun of you?
theyre stupid.
keep talking to him.
if he doesnt wanna talk to you because people are making fun of you too.
then hes not your true friend.

Q: there is this boy that i have liked for ever and he always tells me how he likes me too, as a friend. well he is preppy and im preppy but turning skater and im scared he wont notice me at all if i change. what should i do because i really want him and his attention?

ok wait...
how are you gonna be preppy to being a skater??
your gonna get alot of shit for that.
sorry to say that....but you r.

does he know that you like him?
tell him.
hang out with him more.
thats what i do when guys dont like me like that.
i just hang more and they start to like me more.

try it.

sorry if the first parts bitchy.

Q: Do you think its wrong to be bisexual?

no i know gay friends. and lesbians. and bi's. its perfectly fine.

Q: what is a way that you could be understanding if your boyfriend makes out with another girl while your going out. like how can you be a pacifist..saying like "well i trust him and i know he still loves me" or something idk (thats why im asking)

thanks

brake up.
he cheated on u.
and its wrong.
so it doesnt matter how much u like him or not.
if he does it once hes prolly gonna do it again.

Q: WHat if the whole skool find out that your pregnant. But you didn't want errybody to know. You told the one person you thought you could trust, and they told. What do I do? Should I deney it or should I say something to that person I told?

say something to the person you told.
everyones eventually gonna find out.
if your embarressed then deny it.
but if you just dont care anymore...
dont deny it.
but then think...if u do deny it and everyone finds out that u are then they might get mad that you lied to them.

Q: can anyone help me think of some love songs that are about knowing someone for a long time& then falling in love with them? I'm trying but I keep running a blank! thanks in advance! :D

search for:
gwen stefani- the real thing.
i think this song goes mostly with bf and gf's.
i love that song. these are the lyrics...
but make sure u listen to it too..its on her new cd.

The Real Thing. by:Gwen Stefani.

I've seen your face a thousand times
Have all your stories memorized
I've kissed your lips a million ways
But I still love to have you around

I've held you too many times to count
I think I know you inside out
And we're together most days
But I still love to have you around

You're the one I want and it's not just phase
You're the one I trust, our love is the real thing

Don't go away
My love (my love)
I want you to stay
In my life
Don't go away
My lover (my love)
I'm happiest when we spend time

You're a salty water ocean wave
You knock me down, you kiss my face
I know the storms will always come
But I still love to have you around

Heaven knows what will come next
So emotional, you're so complex
A rollercoaster built to crash
But I still love to have you around

You're the one I want and it's not just phase
You're the one I trust, our love is the real thing
Don't go away
My love (my love)
I want you to stay
In my life
Don't go away
My lover (my love)
I'm happiest when we spend time (it's only you and I)

It's you there when I close my eyes
And you in the morning
I never thought you'd still be mine
Or I'd really need to have you around

Don't go away
My love (my love)
I want you to stay
In my life
Don't go away
My lover (my love)
I need you, you're my love supply

Don't go away
My love (you're my love supply)
I want you to stay
In my life (every day, every night)
Don't go away
My love (you're my love supply)
I need you, you're my love supply

Q: what if your boyfriend does not know your kissing his best friend and me and his friend act wierd around him

me and my friends would call that a slut.
sweetie. you dont kiss your boyfriends best friend!! how old are you? if your in middle school then things are gonna get around and you and your boyfriend are gonna be over soon. middle schoolers are immature, i know i was when i was in 8th grade. if your in high school, wtf are u doing?! things are gonna get around EVEN faster. everyone knows everyone. i suggest you stop.
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additional info.
well ive barely found out that its a small world and everyone knows everyone. so if u kiss and tell and dont say u wont cuz u'll slip to at least one person and everyone tells everyone EVERYTHING. trust me.

Q: When you are makeing out with a guy or kissing him where should you out your hands. Or guys where do you prefer for girls to put there hands?
(I'm a girl)

im a girl too.
u can put your hands on they're face.
or on they're neck.
me personaly put my arms around his neck.

Q: well on monday this guy told my friend that he liked me. i really really like him to. my face lights up and it just makes my day when he calls. sometimes i wait up all night for him to call, but when he does its totally worth it. anyways, tuesday after school i was talking to my friend paul. I told him that I like ryan. Its kind of a secret, but I think ryan already knows. So on the phone yesterday ryan really wanted to know what the secret was. I said to guess. He guessed that i liked him. Well that is the secret, but I was really stupid and said that it wasn't the secret. I really want to tell him because then mabye he will ask me out. I dont know if I should thought because it might make things akward. Do you think it will? should I tell him?

Just tell him.
you'll regret it if you don't.
trust me.
you will.
ive gone through that.
if u like him....tell him.
if he likes you and u dont tell him he'll probably move on.
tell him now sweetie.

Q: if the guy you like messes with ur head and likes beating you at stuff what exactly does that mean? is that considered flirting or not?

beating you??
like hitting u??
ditch that dumbass now sweetie.
thats not cool.
never let a man touch u like that.

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