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ask me anything about dance, school, myspace, friends, relation ships, anything. instant message me, email me, add me on myspace. im always here to help. my best answers are about love life towards friends and family and relations ships. and ever better answers towards dance or muscle pains. need help on make-up ask clouded-bluee. on my favorite columnists shes one of my best friends. and other then her as my best friend i have ashley cassidy jason erin and taylor. they helped me through everything of teenage years and still got six years of them helping me through it.
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i like this really cute guy. i talk to him but i want him to like me more. does anyone know any tricks on how to get the guy you like? ty 13/f
1.) give him clues
2.) dont start the conversation first
(let him walk up to you and say hey)
3.) BE YOUR SELF
13/f
OK, my boyfriend and i have been going out for 3 months. Well, a lot of girls in my school like hiim. They always talk to him and flirt with him, and he flirts and talks back. I have asked him many times to stop and he claims hes just talking. But all my friends keep telling me that he always does this. Plus, he told me he thinks other girls are hot. Should I end our relationship? I am getting really mad at him about this and need help!
hmm. maybe you should ask him do you like me or like the girls you think are hot. of course hell probably answer he likes you because your his girlfriend. but im also 13 almost 14 in febuary. i have to tell ya girls our ago need to calm down about relation ships. you are never going to be inlove at this age and if anyone thinks they are GOD BLESS THEM. because you know if anyone our ago brakes up they will end up liking each other again. take it from a 13 year old who knows i went out with one kid about 15 times.
maybe you two need a brke and see what happens
1.) does he flirt more with them
2.) does he look sad
3.) doe he look rather happy
4.) is trying to talk to you saying WHY
5.) is he paying a little more attention towards you ( could be a sign he actually cared for you)
ok so i reallyy reallyy like my brothers bestfriend. im 13 and hes 15 but the thing is hes against dating sisters. i reallyy like him and hes wickkedd hott. i dont know what he thinks about me but like he always talks to me and we even have our own little jokes. i dont know what to do! i reallllyyyyy like him HELPP!
to tell you the truth i had the same problem hes probably being nice and you have your own jokes because hes your brothers friends.
i have been with my boyfriend for almost a year but im starting to have major feelings for an ex boyfriend. i know its very bad of me but my boyfriend now just isnt making me happy anymore and i dont know what to do. my boyfriend lies to me about everything so im to the point i dont know whats real and whats a lie. hes lied about smoking (twice), going to a party, going to school, and to as stupid as how much he spends on something. i just dont understand. he tells me hell change but hes said that since day one and it continues. also on two occasions he didnt go to school once i found an earring and the other time i found an ankle bracelet. i asked whose it was and he told me he didnt know. i told him i thought he was cheating on me and he got all mad and said he wasnt. im just not happy anymore. i love him to death though. but my ex boyfriend and me have been talking the past 3 days and im not sure whats gonna happen but hes making me so happy. ive been smiling nonstop and hes making me feel whole i talked to him yesterday from 1:30 pm all the way til 5 am nonstop. on the internet and phone. i just dont know what to do. i dont want to hurt my boyfriend but in the same sense im not happy. but i dont wanna rush it with my ex boyfriend either. please help me
awe. you said your not happy. if your not happy and he lies to you. he aint worth it. im not trying to say brake up with him but from what your telling me if seems you care more about the ex-byofriend and it also seems you know the right thing to do if probably talk to the ex-boyfriend about if he likes you too. i will help you through this all. talk to your boyfriend now more and say hey you been lieing to me im pretty sure your cheating on me and i aint happy.
chrissy =]
How do you tell your 8th grade crush you like them and your in the 6th grade.does age matter.what do i do?help.
awe. ge doesnt matter unless of course hes like a senior. but hhis 8th grade. im a 8th grader i no how boys my age are so. just ask me any qouestion when you need. help.
just tell him you like him
but dont have your friends do it for you
it doesnt turn out to well
he might like you
you never know
just tell him you like him
he might like you told him on your own and he might like you after that
my boyfriend and i had a fight last night- i was mad at him and this morning i got a text asking: is this it? is this over? wat should i say? i dunno if he wants to im so confuzed plz help!
if hes asking you hes probably scard its over. if you want it to be over then follow your heart and tell him its over. but dont let a silly fight get in between a relation ship with your boyfriend or your friend.
you will end up fighting with your boyfriends and when you get married even worse fighting. sure you might get in a fight but if you really dont know what to do maybe that isnt what you should do. especially it might be a silly fight to dump someone over.
Ok so this is really a question but also advice.
So there’s this boy in my Church group and I think he likes me but I’m not sure.
This one time (the first time I laid eyes on him) he kept smiling at me. And even when he knew I was looking he was still smiling for a few moments and I did too. But then looked away. Then later he asked if he could trade spots with the guy next to me so he could “talk to the other guy next to him” the guy said no though. But anyway, today I came in and I all the seats were rounded in a circle and so I walked in and there was a seat right infrount of me. It looked like all the other seats were taken. And it was right by him. I don’t know if he was saving a seat for me because his stuff was there and he moved them when he saw me come in. But I’m not sure. So then I sat down. And he actually started talking to me. and he asked me "Is that liipgloss?" he was mentining my keychain that had lipgloss on it. and I answered "Maaaabey" beacuse I thought yes sounded to cheesy and no sounded well rude and whatever. he smiled and said "can I use some? I need some" he said joking ly. He was smiling I could tell he was joking.so I'm like "yea...sure!" I said sarcasticly with a smile. at that moment I liked him. also his full attenetion was on me smiling. Then the teacher told me I got to go o the trip friady. "your going?" he asked. then said cool. he put his hand up for a high five So i highfived him. He asked me questions and asked if he could see my phone. Then I cought him once or twice lookling at me. And I’m not sure but I THINK I saw him put his foot near mine. But I was looking up, but I think I saw it at the end of my eye but I’m not sure. So mabee that doesn’t count.later when I was bored I forgot about the lipgloss convo and put some on. "So it is lipgloss!" he said jokeingly. I smiled. " you know I still need some." he said then laughed. I laughed too. So does he like me???
i totally think he likes you. and by the way who is this. i agree with you when you say you think he saved you spot. I THINK SO TOO. i think he likes he. and i think it might just be a lot.
tell me how things go. ILL HELP YOU THROUGH IT ALL. so tell me =]
I've never been kissed before and I need to know what to do. When a guy goes to kiss you, how do you kiss back? People say it just comes totally naturally and you dont even have to do anything or think about it. Is that true?
oh wow. thats notally true. i had my first kiss. and i was so scared. i sorta hit him in the balls on accident and his friend was like u need to kiss him now i was like sweet okey. and he just leaned in and i knew what to do. i didnt think i knew but its easy. its also real easy to tell if ur just kissing or ganna make out.
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Ok. Well me and my bf have been going out for nearly 2 months. I love him to death, but I dont feel like we're in love anymore. I think he feels the same too even though we try so hard to make it work. How do I make our relationship as strong as it used to be so it doesn't come to an end? Please and thank you.
try and hang out with him. like just you 2. and make him laugh while he makes u laugh. i love when boys make me laugh. and one of my ex-boyfriends said they loved when i made them laugh.laughter = LOVE .. =]
Okay, there is this guy, we will call him Bob. Well Bob has liked my friend for the logest time like he was ubbsessed with her, well her and her boyfriend just broke up. (They both want to go back out) But after she and her ex broke up, Bob asked her out, she doesn't even like him really, and she wants to date her ex, but my problem is I like Bob! What do I do??
tell your friend how you feel about "bob". there really shouldnt be no problem since she doesnt like bob and she likes her ex.