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A year or two ago i went out w/ this girl. i liked her, she liked me. i dumped her ,because i relized that she wasn't that actractive, and she hated me. she wouldn't talk to me look at me etc. now i see her in the halls and at dismissle. now she really actractive. i don't want to go out w/ her or anything, i just want to be her friend again.what should i do?
p.s. she has a boy-friend now
well your a fxcking asshole. you dont EVER dump a girl because shes not "attractive" thats gay. YOUR FAULT.
Okay this is all very confusing, I'm sorry and I hope it doesn't make ya'lls head spin but here is my problem.
I made out with a guy totally unaware that he had a girlfriend.
Well recently, I got in contact with his brother, and she was over there. I mentioned something to his brother about us making out, in jest. She got on and immediatly asked me if whatI say is true.
I said, yes. It was. I wasn't gonna lie.
She told me that they'd been dating for three years straight, and she thought she might be prengnat. HE told me nothing of the sort, that she was just a friend.
After much hassle, she called me and told me she'd confront him about it. She did, and he denied it, and she told me "I don't believe you, I trust him."
Things are blowing up, random friends of hers are IMing me like crazy, and his brother is sort of half and half beleving me, yet feeling dedication towards his brother.
Of course the whole attention thing is on them..its oh "Krista* made a big deal about it.." "OH krista is trying to ruin a relationship" when that totally wasn't my view or anything.
How can I help what she saw? I think its been hurting me more then it has them. What do I do?
I want a logical way to get back at them, or to show them that I don't give two dead rats.
I want the girlfriend to know that it IS true no matter how much he denies it, though it doesnt matter much to me if we messed around or not.
HELP!
xxthanksxx
get a camera. get him drunk, then make out with him and get someone to take a picture of it. then she will see.
ps. shes a fuckfag.
im thirteen and i was datin this fifteen yr old until i found out what an ass he was...he always tried to go down my pants and kiss me...so about two weeks ago i broke up wit him...i still went to his house and we r really good friends...after i broke up wit him i met his uncle who is 19...and i found that he likes me....then he called me and asked me out afta we got to kno each otha...(IM NOT GONNA DO ANYTHING WIT HIM BECAUSE I KNO THATS RAPE!!) i said yea so eva since we have been goin out...i luv him a wicked lot and he luvs me to but all my friends say i should dump him...i dont want to but my friend kayla gives the best advice and shes the main one who makes me feel like i should
>should i dump him or not?
thanx a bunch
are you on crack? your only 13 and your dating someone who is WAY older then you OMG YOUR A HOE!
Ok,
I like this guy and he knows I like him. We have never talked before, it's just kind of a crush. Since he knows I like him, its really weird because I always see him looking at me. I thought it was in my imagination so I asked my friends to check if he was indeed looking at me. They said he was and it wasn't my imagination. Sometimes he walks by me for no reason, and my friends and I have even caught him checking me out a few times. Why won't he come up to me and talk to me? Is he afraid? I'm not scary, lol. And I thought about it and...why would he stare at me, check me out, and walk by me for no reason if he DIDN'T like me? He has to like me just a little....or maybe he thinks I'm a freak. :-( ....I sure hope not. HELP! What should I do? I really want him to talk to me, and I don't have the guts to do it myself!
Chloe*
sometimes guys think that when you like them they like to see if they like you back, so they check you out and talk to their friends and stuff. he MIGHT like you but then he might not!
hope i helped RATE ME!
Casia.
sorry, this is gonna be kinda long...ok, this guy i am with, and love with all my heart, lets call him...Bob...now, Bob, has been making certain, well, comments, that makes me think that he wants to be with me for ever. like, one day i was talking about how whenever i get married my mom is not gonna like the guy, so i was gonna get a friend (lets call her Sally) to do what the mother does in a wedding...and he goes "don't let Sally do anythign special" so i was like "she'll prolly be a bridesmaid" and then i discussed soem dumb ideas a freind of mine had...lets call her Sandy...and i told him we wanted to do a double wedding in a cowboy theme. and he goes "i am not dressing up like a cowboy"
does that mean that he wants to marry me, or is planning to or what? it has stuck in my head and i just want to know if there could be a further meaning behind it.
maybe he thought that you brought that up because you wanted him to be the groom... or maybe he said that because he was thinking about it too and he DOES wanna be your groom. you should ask him about it and see if it meant anything special.
how can u get a guy to notice you?
well when you walk past him flip your hair or like do a little flirty smile. or just talk to him and stuff.
ok i went out wit this one kid for 32 days and we were really close and i just broke up wit him 2 weeks ago and he has rally hot friends and i hang out wit them but the guy i went out wit isnt there wen i am and his friend tom always flirts wit me like he always sits by me or tells someone to move cause he wants to sit there he winks at me n he like does silly stuff like joke around like oh ur sexi but i dunno r these realy signs?? i sort of wanna kick it wit him and hes going to homecoming alone and i want to go wit him becuase i htink it will be fun and his bday is on homecoming day should i ask him or wait til he asks me i got the hots for this ki it means a lot to me please help me out oh and his ex gf is kinda my friend and she still likes him alil but he dont like her at all he said sorry this is long but i want u to kno exactly wats goin on thnx 4 readin
i think hes hinting and i think you should ask him because, he will more then likly say yes if yall are friends then dont be scared to ask him!! be nice and cute about it! tell me if he says yes or if you ask him leave it in my inbox!! RATE ME PLEASE!
cas
ok...ive gone on three dates that were awesome, i thought so and so did my date. i got my first kiss onthe third date and i thought everything was going awesome. but she got out of a 2 yr relationship 3 months ago and still considers her ex her best friend along w/ another guy as her best friend. me and her were messin around and she like gave me a nipple twister when she was layin on me so i flicked her boob and it freaked her out...she like made this wierd face and i said sorry cuz she didnt like it...we kissed l8r that night. then the next day she showed up at my work with the guy that she considers her best friend, not her ex though, and she was like in a bad mood that i l8r found out was cuz i flicked her boob and she wanted to make me feel bad about it. she waited for me outside the front door so when i would get off work we could make up...but i park inteh back for work so i didnt know till she called askin where i was and i didnt wanna talk to her neways cuz she was bein mean to me. we got over it l8r on, and the next day she wanted to come up to c me, but she said that she spent the day w/ her ex, so i got pissed and jealous and told her that she shouldnt come and c me. then she said i was an ass to her, so today i apoligized by surprising her with roses. am i in trouble here likin this gurl with her havin her ex and another guy as her best friends? i dont really want to think that i wasted my first kiss on a gurl that doesnt care about me, cuz she used to say taht i was so awesome and so unlike her ex bf and taht taht was a good thing. plz help, thx.
well she seems like she doesnt like you no offense thats just how it seems and also i think that you guys should be friends not like boyfriend and gurlfriend if shes gonna keep doing this crap its okay for her to have her ex and her friend as best friends but still she seems like shes using you
ok..my BF and I have been together for 10 months TODAY! and like in these 10 months hes told me he loved me 2 times...and the first time he told me was on the fone and i go..are u sure...and he was like yeah..and i go oh..and he goes ur not gonna say nothin back? and i go i dont think u know what ur talkin bout..cuz we had only been goin out for 2 months then! and then like when it got to us bein together for 7 months..he told me again..i was sitting by him and we were cuddling..and like he jus looked at me..and said..my name and said i love you..and i juss smiled..and he said it again..both times i never replied..cuz i was scared..im scared to say if i love him or not..how do i know? and how do i know this is the forreal way he feels? Well i want him to tell me it again..cuz i wanna tell him i do too..
DUDE ARE YOU THAT GAY?!? when you have been with your boyfriend for 10 months [thats almost a year just tellin you retard]and he says he loves you then that means he loves you geez ya retard HE LOVES YOU SO THEN YOU SAY IT BACK BECAUSE YALL HAVE BEEN TOGTHER FOR 10 MONTHS SO HE HAS NOTHING ELSE TO DO BUT LOVE YOU
Hi my name is Casey(girl) and im 14 years old.I try really hard for guys to like me but i never seem to attract that many. How do i get guys to like me??
you cant get a guy to like you guys like girls who are pretty and are confident and have a good personality you cant just go up to a guy and say "HEY I WANT YOU TO LIKE ME SO DO IT" start flirting with some guys who are cute or nice that always works
ok my boyfriend is 14 and we have been going out for 11 and a half months. what do i get him for our 1 year anniversary?? anyone got any ideas? xoxo please help! im desperate!! loves ya!!!
what do you think he likes? maybe something like a card that says i love you are something boys are so hard...
i went out wiht this kid for ova a year and he cheated on me 8 times. i have a huge issue with trusting poeple becuz i am constantly afraid of gettin hurt. . i am way over him now, but i like my bestfriend =( he went out with my bestfriend[a girl] and she still likes him too. But, a few weeks ago i met this guy, he is truely amazing. he is everythin i need from a guy, he is sweet, romantic, trusting and he cares about me. now i have a big problem with trust and so does he bc he has also been hurt in the past. should i give up on my best guy friend and let my best girl friend have him, [bc i dont wanna fight wiht her] or should i go for the new guy? Help please!!
go out with the new guy! if you like him alot and he has trust problems like you, you both can learn to trust eachother
hey i need your advise.. you see, saw this guy the other day and we really hit it off and talkd alot and we flirted and everything. but then i accidently hurt him (phyicaly) but it wasnt that bad or anything... he just started bleeding a little. So then after that when i saw him he didnt talk to me. I am not gonna see him untill school starts and i dont know how to talk to him.. should i act normal? does he still like me? help me!!!
just tell him your sorry for hurting him and as soon as you see him smile and say hi and stuff then start talking or flirting thats good!
omg...ok...my best friend lives in these really rowdy apartments...with no suprvision..we only known eachother for like 4 or 5 months but we r really close, know everythng bout eachother, and we nvr hav gottin into a fight..we love eachother 2 death..well bout 3 months ago i was over there n ther was this guy hes like 17 im 15 and we really hit it off...we talked alot..he seemed really nice..and 2 months later we had sex (BIG MISTAKE) i didnt evn wanna do it he was like come on and as he was tryin to sweet tlk me he was all doin me..but he told me he didnt hav a gf...and i recently found out hes had a gf and i saw her last time i was ther...SHES HUGE and freakin violent..well she found out bout wat we did....and since shes 21 she kant legally hurt me or i could sue her so shes having her 17 yr old friend do it and hses also HUGE,..,.im tiny compared to them and ive never fought..they even kick guys assez...well today i was surpose to go to my friends house..and she kalls she wa slike "omg gurl..u cant come over" i was like y? and she told me the gurl had found out wat i did and was waitin for me to come over to kick my ass with her friends...im s0o0o scared...the gurl doesnt kno where i live or nothin and i wont ever see her but i cant go to my friends house again!!) shes ALWAYS ther and shes HUGE...not fat just big...she already kicked her bf's ass for cheating on her and now she wants to hurt me..and hes 17 yrs old and she hurt him!! wat do i do? do i just tell my mom my friend and i just kinda went our seperate ways..do i tell her im t0o budy to hang out with her?? wat!?! i ALWAYS was at her house..idk wat to do...and for my friend she cant go alot of palces so idk if she kan come to my house...shuld i just let it go bc when skool starts we wont even b goin to the same skool...wat do i do?? i cant even try talking to this gurl bc she already didnt like me to begin with for sum reason...=\ HELP..
if i were you i would tell my parents and never go to my friends house again or ask your friend to talk to her or something
ok see I have a problem and I dont know what to do! I fell i love with a boy and I have never I have never felt this way before and I dont know what to do.. You see where not doing to great. He dont like me anymore and I try to find out whats wrong and he wont tell. I thought about it and I talked to some of my friends and one of them gave me the best thing one what they said. We all think about stuff that will be right but yet i think were all totally wrong cuz were not him we dont know whats going on in his head. So then i thought well since you hate me and theres no point of me trying to get you back as friend. So i told him that I didnt want to be his friend and that I never wanted to see him again. Cuz what would be the point of being his friend or hanging out with him if he dont like me. That would be just a waste of time. I'v been trying for along time for this to work out but im sick of waiting. Im going on with my life. So when he wants to be my friend then he knows whre i'll be at, But the thing is I dont think I did that right thing. But then on the other hand I do. Im just so confused and I dont know what to do. My friend had said well i think that he likes you as a friend he just dosent know how to tell you...and every time he sees you its like he starts to like you again...and he cant handle that. I think in a way shes right but like I said we just think its right cuz it sounds good. But I dont know anymore. I dont know what to do. cuz I want to move on but everytime I want to I just find myself falling back in love with him. PLease help me!!!!!!!
wow.thats intense well if your still in love with him and he doesnt "love" you back then thats okay and you should move one beacause that would be good for you , you would be thinking about your boyfriend and how much you love HIM i think its kinda not good to not be his friend because you should be friends with the person you love its better that way i hoped i helped if i didnt im sorry and i tried
Casia
ok u see i have this boy i like still how is my ex-boyfriend and he said he hated me and things like that but yet he still comes over and i said to mysel if he hated me that bad he wouldnt want to come over but i still think he does im affraid to go out with his besit friend cuz im affriad that when i do he will like me again and want to ask me out and i wont go and dump the other person cuz i care about him and i care about his fellings. but this kid i wanna be with ym ex i love him so mucha nd i cant get over it.. he did love this one girl but i guess now hes dont he just likes her and he gave her a 5 on a scale from 1 to 10 so im thinking what if he is starting to like me again and realize what he did was wrong and how he mad a big mistake but then maybe he never stoped liking me so idk but i just need some advice so can u help?
okay if you like your ex and he doesnt like you then go out with his best friend and if he starts liking you back go out with his best friend for atleast another week if he says he hates you and still comes over to your house then he doesnt hate you but i say go with you heart and you heart is your ex right? if it is and he likes you again go with him just dont do anything to make him break you heart
i CANNOT tell if my best guy friend is gay or not..he talks TOTALLY valley girlish and has a totally girly voice and walks like a girl and acts realli girly...but he says hes not..he had a gf tho but still.. then we went to dinner the other night and we had a gay waitor and somehow we became really comfortable with him and starting talkin wit him and making jokes..and my best guy friend was kinda checkin him out and tellin us to talk to him..the waitor was 20 and my friend was like tell him im 19 n stuff...i dunnnnooo what do u guyz think?
maybe he is gay he just doesnt want anybody to know and if hes guy still treat him the right way cuz gay guys are yum.
if uv notticed iv asked a lot of q's. sorry about that..but i got a lot of problems..ne ways..I'm really shy..and a lot of guys i feel take advantage of me..they r always trying to get me to give them a hand job..or touching me..and i feel really unconfterble..idk wut to say to them..i wana tell them to stop..but then idk y but i feel bad so i just let them..wut should i do the next tiem some guy slaps my ass??? or the next time a guy ask's for a hj..or trys to flirt with me???? N how do i do it nicely..i feel like iv been molested too much :/
if a guy smacks your ass say get off or something and if a guy flirts with you talk back not a big deal if they ask u to give them a hj say NO thats sick
ok i feel like such a retard, but this guy wants to go to the movies..but idont know what to do! like i'm such a retard when it comes to guys..is it like, weird to go with them if you're not going out? and do you lean toward them..and if they put their arm around you...ahh help!
just go! its gonna be fun talk during the movie and laugh its not weird its like a date thats all
everyone says it comes natural..but i don't realluy see how..i'm going to the movies tomorow night with my b/f and i know he'll try to kiss me.how do you french kiss?..what do i do?..move in close my eyes then what?! i'm guna cry..lol i'm 14 and it'll be my first kiss?..any step-by-step advice or encouragement is greatly appreciated
well all you do is basicly kiss them then open your mouth and stick your tounge out and massage it with theirs and making out is the same thing but you stick your tounge in occasionaly and your french kiss over and over again its easy!!