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I'm 13 and a girl I hate dumping people and my boyfriend like me a lot and I dont really like him any more does any one have any good ways to dump him I need help with out breaking his heart...thnx (link)
tell him that you think it would be best to just be friends. just be nice and let him down easy, breaking is always hard to do =\ good luck!


I can't stop crying... 2 more hours until my baby leaves for the Navy... I just want to get strong again and STOP crying. I have cried so much that its starting to hurt the rest of my body. I have heard the figurative phrase saying 'her heart hurts.' But I never knew that this would literally hurt my heart... If anyone has any advice or anything... I just don't know how to pull myself together... (link)
your in a really hard time and i'd be crying my eyes out too if my boyfriend was leaving for the navy! just try to keep yourself busy, go outside, watch a movie, hang out with friends, anything fun!


I just wanted ideas of things I can do to keep myself busy this summer. I was dating this guy 'sonic'(we have been on and off since january, he was my ex)and tonight we 'broke up' (we weren't really OFFICIAL but dating) even though I have feelings for him and i feel kinda sad i'm ready to move on. any ideas?

I'll rate (link)
go out with your girls and have fun! don't go looking for another guy just let him come to you! you could to the movies with your friends, to an amusment park or a carnival, anything that you like to do! just live it up before its over!!


my b/f's birthday is in the middle of august.. should i get him something since weve only been goin out 4 a lil while (a month)? if so, what in the world do i get him?! (link)
yea you should get him a little something nothing too big or expensive. you can make him a cd with his favorite songs on it, cook him a nice dinner, get him a card and write the lyrics to your song in it(if you have one), something simple yet romantic!


ok well im a guy that no girls like cuz i am ugly. all the girls around where i live r shallow. none of them like boys that have freckles, redhair, and very very lite skin. what should i think of myself? as an ugly person or a cute person juss ppl cant see that? (link)
first of all don't even worry about what the shallow people think of you, most of them are just insecure with themselves! your cute in your own way, i mean can you imagine if everybody looked the same? BORING! just keep your head held high and don't worry what other people think of you!!


ok well what would you do if your boyfriend told you that they though someone who is 4 years older then them(hes 15, shes 19) is "bangin"? with me it kinda hurts...but i dont know what to do about it. do i just ignore it or what? please help. it would be nice to have someone to talk to about it...thanks (link)
if he just said she was pretty or in his words 'bangin' and didn't act on it (like going up and talking to her) don't worry about it too much! but if it really bothers you then talk to him about it! if he really cares about you he'll understand!


i've been dating this guy for a little over 2 months now.... i like him so much... and i think i'm begining to fall in love with him... my dad HATES him... he's never done anything for my dad to not like him... my dad always said "i just want to see you happy" but ever since he found out about my boyfriend he's been really mean to him and it hurts me... i don't know how to get him to like him... my boyfriend means alot to me and it hurts me so much when my dad starts saying things about him... my boyfriend is really nice and he would never do anything to hurt me. i don't know why he doesn't like him!!!! HELP ME TO GET MY DAD TO LIKE HIM! (link)
invite your boyfriend over to dinner one night so your dad can see how happy he makes you and he'll lighten up on you and your boyfriend! good luck!! rate me if you wanna! =]


ok so there is this guy that 15 and im only 13. I really like him alot and he said he liked me also. Thats not the problem. He is really experinced in doing stuff like kissing and he knows how to be sexy and romantic. i have nver kissed a guy and he thinks i have. he wants to do "stuff" with me like get a blow job an make out and stuff like. I want to but i dont know if its right i mean b/c im soo young. Do you think i should just like make out with him and not have sex or anything? what should i do?? (link)
13 is really young to be doing anything sexual, you should just take things slow with him. and if he doesn't respect your choice to move slow then forget him, you don't need a guy that pressures you into doing things you don't want to


how do u makeout? my boyfriend wants to make out but i'm afraid i'll be bad at it!! help me! (link)
its kinda hard to explain, just follow what the guy is doing! nobody is bad at kissing!


I WANT A BOYFRIEND SO BAD!!! HOW CAN I GET ONE!?!?!? (link)
go out and when you see a cute guy go up and talk to him! or just slip him your number and cute message on a peice of paper and give it to him! or if your shy wait for a guy to come up and talk to you!!


Hey Cameron,
I met this beautiful girl, shes smart, funny, really ditzy but i love her. she cant cook or do house hold stuff, she cracks me up. anyway i love her, problem is were far apart, shes in ny and im in oregon. what should i do...i love her and i just wanna be with her. any advice on how we can be together.

Adam (link)
aww i love you baby i'm your ditz and you love the fact that i can't cook =P your amazing babe! i can't wait until we can just be together!! you mean everything to me! i love you adam xoxo


i asked my crush out, actually my friends did it for me bc i was 2 nervous, and he is really shy, but when i asked him out he said no and whenever ppl ask him why he doesnt like me or why he doesnt wanna go out w/ me he either says idk and walks away or usually says nothin nd walks away. a couple weeks ago me and my friend called him and she asked if he liked me and he just said he had 2 go so we were asuming he just didnt wanna answer that question. one of his best friends told me that the reason he mite not wanna go out w/ me was bc he was 2 shy. so then i told him 2 ask him if that really was the reason and my crush said that he just didnt wanna go out w/ me. then another time my other friend called him and asked if he liked me and he said no. do u think that cuz hes 2 shy is the reason he doesnt wanna go out w/ me and he keeps telling ppl that he doesnt like me bc he doesnt want them 2 kno? or do u think that he really doesnt like me and doesnt wanna hurt my feelings bc hes really sweet like that? even if the reason was that he was shy tho, why would he say no when ppl ask him if he likes me? do u think that if i ask him out myself personally then he will say yes cuz my friend said that if i did that then he might. also one of his best friend's that i was talking about b4 who told me the reason he doesnt wanna go out w/ me might be bc he was 2 shy was in a simillar situation. one of my best friends liked him and asked him out and he said no. now they are going out and he really did like her b4 when he said no he was just 2 shy 2 go out w/ her. do u think he told me that my crush might just be 2 shy 2 go out w/ me bc their friends and they might be alike so hes basing it on his experience? sorry it was so long! (link)
he may be too shy, or maybe he just wants you to call him and ask him out not your friends! try this: call him up and ask him if he wants to hang out! go somewhere fun like mini golf or something so maybe he'll open up to you more! hope i helped, good luck!!


Hey BabesZ!Ok well this isnt really askin 4 advice but,i just wanna kno what ur prospective is on my Relationship cuz ppl think im crazy!Ok make a long ass story short,Last year,july 16,03 i started goin o/w my boyfrined,we lasted 2 mnths nd broke up cuz we never saw eachother,so i never got over him and we liked eachother again,so we started goin out that following Ocober 5th,we lasted again for 2 mnths reason being,he cheated on me w.1 of my ex.best gurls,(they actaulyl Had sex =( ) so that was sad cuz i really had storng feelings 4 him nd i never thought it woudl happen,but we never stopped talking he would ask 4 me back all the time nd tell me that he made the biggest mistake of his life nd he would just go on nd on about how much he cared!so it had been about two mnths that we had broke up,nd i gave him 1 more chance!On janurary 21st i took him back,nd i kno it was dumb all my friends couldnt believe it,but the feelings i had were UNREAL! so we have now been together for about 6 mnths..and its been goin great..the 3rd mnth in i gave him my virginity nd i def kno hes been faithful and shit cuz i live in a small town so i would kno if he wasnt lol,i love him to death but the 5th mnth in i kinda kissed a guy, reason being..he was being an ass so i couldnt take it and it just felt like the right thing to do at the time..:( nd later that night i called my baby nd told him,this was the first time i had ever heard my boy cry :( thats when i new he really loved me,i was in shock hearing what i was hearing.."how could u do this..u dont kno what love is" and i just keept saying baby yea i do i kno i love you, i never knew how much he loved me,i always doubted it,cuz ive never had full turst for him after he cheated,but hearing him cry made me believe nd fall 38493483943 times more in love,so now we are both faced w/hate lol not between eachother but our friends hate us cuz we only hang out w/eachother,but w/e i love him and i kno he loves me,we actualyl wanna get married..i kno its crazy but we do,nd i couldnt be more sure hes the one for me and im sure he feels the same,i just dunno if what we have is healthy,i mean we have been through so many fights bcuz we are both so scared of loosing eachother,but we also fight cuz hes so goddamn jealous of guys and FRIENDS..i cant even go to my girls house cuz he thinks ill do drugs and cheat again..but i guess he has a reason to be scared? i dunno im so confused about shit tho 4 some reason, i dunno what do u think about this? Telllllllllllll meee what ya think hunnie..thanks MuahZzZ!! (link)
it sounds like your both not ready for a relationship. he sounds a little immature since he gets jealous of guys and your friends. you best bet would to just distance yourself from each other. i know it may be hard since you live in a small town but just go out with your friends, have fun and try not to think about him. if he happens to be in the same place as your going, leave and find a different place to hang out in... hope i could help! good luck


last summer i met this guy named chris. he was 17 and i was 15. now i'm 16 and hes 18 and he wants nothing to do with me!! i've tried callin him but he either doesnt pick up his phone or tells me to leave him alone! it sucks cuz i really like him and wanna hang out with him this summer!! is something wrong with me!? pleaseee help! (link)
first of all NOTHING is wrong with you!! maybe chris has a girlfriend and he doesn't know to tell you or he's just worried about age now that he's 18, if thats the case then forget him! don't call him anymore, go out with your girls and find a new guy that won't treat you like chris did! good luck!




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