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Hi everyone!My name is Caitlin and I am 15. I am a Sophmore at Sandwich High School and I am also a Peer Mediator for the district. Its basically giving advice and resolving issues for students. I am so glad i can do it here now and help lots more people. I will do my best to help you with any problems you have or if you want to talk and you have YahooMessenger then give me a shout out. caitie_p2008. or at aim caitlin9129008
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This guy I met at camp seems to have a thing for me. While we were there he tried to pull me into a room by ourselves so we could talk. (I definitely know he was not trying to get some. I'm positive.) He also talked to me from his friend's house, and he flirted so much it was crazy. Seriously, every sentence he said alluded to the fact that he has a thing for me. So my question is how do I know if he really likes me or if he just flirts with everyone and wants me to fall for him?
Well.... if he seems to be that upfront with you maybe you should pay him the same courtesy. On the other hand i see how you don't wanna make an (for lack of a better word) ass out of your self if hes just joking. I'd feel it out and see if hes like that when you are hanging out with him along with other girls. If hes flirting with all of them then it might not be the real thing. I still think that you should be very upfront with him and just lay it out on the table. Or be sly and say things like,,,,, "So in all seriousness, what kinds of girls do you like?" and if he looks at you like you are crazy then make a joke out of it and just pretend like you were joking.
I really hope i helped. Love Caitlin.
sorry this is so long but i am really confused and i would love for any advise from anyone!
ok here is goes. me adn my ex boyfriend (josh) we out all last summer and he cheated on me so we broke up and havent talked since. well the other day i was on the phone with his best friend (anton) and josh was over there so me adn josh talked and we are cool now. well i like anton but anton is a huge player. he has cheated on almost every girl he has went out with. he is also not a virgin .. me i havent even tounge kissed a guy before. well anton told me that he is actually ready to get into a serious relationship with a girl. i really wanna be that girl, but im so scared for anyone to know that i likw him. im scared he is gonna cheat on me or hurt me just like josh. me adn anton dont talk alot adn we dont know each other really good. i really like him and i dont know what to do. i even dream about him at night. can anyone please give me some advise on what to do?? thanks if you do!!
Well hun.. it sounds to me that you shouldn't get in with this guy, if he is that much of a player he is most likely saying that he wants a serious relationship to lure you in and since you don't know him well i would say that you prolly shouldn't do anything with him until you at least know him a little but better, sorry if this isn't what you want to hear, but my best friend did the same thing and she got way in over her head and on top of it lost her virginity to a guy she never loved. Please use your head before making any final decision.
well theres this guy i like, but my EX-bff likes him too! i asked him who he likes better me or her! he said me~how do i get him to ask me out or how do i ask him out
Well... if he likes you more than i would say youve got a pretty good chance but maybe if you are really nervous you should ask him straight up " Do you like me 'that way' or were you saying that to be nice? If you do like me would you ever consider going out with me?" something like that. Good luck !!!!!!
This is gonna be long but I need help..
So me and my boyfriend were totally in love.. But then he cheated on me with another girl, he made out with her for like an hour. AND he was the one that came onto her. I broke up with him, and was totally heartbroken because I still love him... So then I saw him, and he apoligized, saying, "I`m so sorry, You are perfect, I only want you, that kiss from her meant nothing, I love you so much and I`m so sorry.." And so now I`m going back out with him.. But the thing is, I`m not sure. I still love him, but I can`t trust him.. And things are just kind of awkward now. I have no idea what to do.. Please help, I rate high !!
OK, i don't think that after such a low blow you should even want to be with him b/c if he really did love you he wouldn't have done it. ALL relationships are built on trust, without it ur nothing so.... i suggest break up and find a man who won;t cheat on you. :)
okay, ive been going out with my bf for a little over a week and i really like him and stuff. The problem is, i still am in love with my ex. But the thing is, my ex is beginning his first year of high school in the fall and i will be beginning 8th grade. He also lives really far away and his high school is pretty far away too. My current bf is really nice and everything but i still am in love with my ex. When my ex found out about the bf i have now, he got really jealous. I would dump my bf for him in a second, but i dont know if that would be the smart thing to do. What should i do? Please help me!
Okay, if you can't be faithful to the boyfriend you have now then i suggest that you dump him and get over the other guy first. Second i know you will hate me for this but i think you may be to young to know what love is. Im a few yrs older and i don't. Plus, he is your ex for a reason which means that he most likely doesn't love you back or the connection isn't strong enough. if hes so jealous he needs to do something about it. The breakup story would probably shine more light on the situation. Sorry if i haven't helped.
hey..well on IM all of a sudden this guy told me he loved me but the only thing he knew about me was my name and i told him he didn't but he saying he does..but i don't believe him should i?
Umm.. no definately not. I know for a fact that there are alot of people who like to mess with people online and I find it very unlikely for a guy to fall in love that suddenley. Don't believe these whackos unless you at least know more about them and also, just b/c a guys loves you doesn't mean you have to love him back. Hope i helped.