Q: hey. well, i'm 14/f. well, i'm just gonna cut to the chase. i suck at talking to boys. i've just started high school, and i always see all these girls talking to guys and giving them hugs and stuff, but i'm just too shy and not good at talking to them. i know their just other people, but somehow i find that when i get around guys i tend to be mean and rebelious (sp). i'm not lesbian or bi or anything, but idk. there was this one guy last year in like all of my classes and i really liked him, and i mean a lot, and i could always talk to him pretty well, but he's not in any of my classes this year, and he has a gf, and i still like him. but idk. i just need some HELP! thanks!

Q: Is it normal that my boyfriend wants distance or space from me more often? We've been together for 9 1/2 months. But we used to hang out almost everyday and now he hardly wants to talk to me on the phone or be with me. I don't know what's going on or if it's normal. Lately he's rather wanting to play video games then to talk to me. What should I do?

Q: Hi! Ok, this boy and i have been friend for a year and we're like best friends. We have liked each other off and on for the last year (by the way were teenagers so it's not serious!) We have both had relationships though so nothing ever happened. Then I dumped my summer boyfriend in the middle/end of June(short relationship) and in earl July he asked me to his Grandparents 50th anniversary party. He had already told me he liked me and stuff but I wasn't sure if i did) We went and while we were there we walked around and sat and talked and stuff and he put a bunch of moves on me. I didn't like it and felt really uncomfortable because for some reason I didn't like him! All of the sudden when he liked me I didn't! He asked me out but I said I will think about it. Then we decided not too. The thing is EVERYONE thinks we're the perfect couple! We went on a mission trip and everyone decided (and started planning!) our wedding because apparently we're getting married! Just a joke though, but even his MOM said we are "a match made in heaven". We are both Japanese and are really like each other. We are both religious too and he is just like me which practically no one else is. So we really connect! His bff and older brother keep pressuring me to go out with him now. I know we will some time, but I don't think right now is the right time. When we finally wants to start a relationship I DON'T! It is so weird but i can't like him any more than a friend! I don't know what to do! I want to try it out but i really want to start this school year single! Please help me!!! I hate the pressure and want to try it out but I don't know if it's the right time! And i don't think I like him much more than really good friends! Thanx!!!!!!! ♥♥♥♥♥

Q: OK 13/F, I know this guy in one of my classes named Anthony. He seems like a nice guy, but my best friend Brittany told me that he asked out one of her friends out. She said that she didnt want me to go out with out with him because he'll try to make me have sex with him. I'm a virgin and I wanna stay that way untill I at least get married. But contining with the story, Brittany said that had a friend who went out with him and had sex and now they rarely ever talk becuase she's changed. The guy is kinda cute, but I don't know if I should take my friends advice or follow my feelings. Help me.

Q: so there is this boy that i like and have liked for a while now. and we havent hung out yet. and everytime i have asked him something always comes up that we cant. well he asked me if i still wanted to hang out wtih him. i said yah i did and he said okay next weekend we will. and he said this last friday. now its monday and sometime this week should i say something to him about hanging out or should i wait and see if he says anything. and if i should sya something to him how should i go about it? any help will help

Q: How do you "hit on" a guy?

Q: when i talk to my friends on the phone
i can like be all like crazy and stuff
and we always think of stuff to talk about
like the most random stuff
but when i talk to a guy that i like
its like blah.
i dont even think of anything to talk about
and im shy
and me and this guy text alottt
and we live kinda far away and we might start a relationship
but its gonna hurt us alot if we do
becasue its my fault casue i like dont talk
and i hate it. im just really shy to guys i like
and he always gets mad at me cause i dont talk
so any suggestions what we can talk about
like i seriosuly need help with it
because we both like eachother alottttt!

Q: I really like this guy but he's so hung up on his ex-girlfriend. He has her on his top people on his myspace, he still text messages her, he's so nice to her and she treats him like shit that's why they broke up. Like if we talk shit to her he like apologies to her. He's like whipped by someone he's not even with they were only together for like 3 months. I like him a lot and he flirts with me but he's still hung up and I don't wanna be with someone who still talks to there ex girlfriend. What should I do?

Q: f 15
ive been dating my boyfriend for a year.
weve gone kinda far in bed... our pants have stayed on though. well i accidentally gave him a hicki and my parents freaked. i told them i had never kissed his neck before and i wanted to see what it was like... and it was an accident. *lie i know* i got in a ton of trouble. my mom started yelling and crying... but seriously im 15... she shouldnt really care about a hicki. my parents are thinking about making me break up with my boyfriend even though im completely in love with him. i just need help. :)

Q: okay well i think i like this guy, but at the smae time i hate him :P its really confusing. we went out like three times, but my parents don't like him& don't want me to date him because they heard what he did with one of his girlfriends and i think it was a bit much considering he was only 12 when that occured. and they said that if i do date him i can't spend anytime with him. but anyways, i'm always hoping he will be wherever i am, like hoping to run into him also, when i am with him its kind of akward but at the same time we kind of flirt.. like everyone says i act like i like him but i don't know. it's just kind of confusing but it's been like 3 months since we last went out and i still lik have an urge to be with him, but not date him.. err idk. like i was sleeping over at my friends house for her birthday and like i was just laying there because everyone had already fallen asleep and i kept like wishing he ws there and like i know this sounds weird but i just wanted to like cuddle with him.... like idk when we were going out i felt like really safe when he had his arm(s) around me.
sorry if it's long, confusing and doesn't make sense.

Q: There is this boy named David that I have known as a babe and longer. He is a year older than me and I really like him and is wonderin if he likes me too. Lats year a the end of the year on the last day I saw him talking ALOT to this girl and I'm kinda jealous. What do I do?

P.S this year he is goin to jr. high I'm in middle school.

Q: I WAS semi-involved with this guy, who has been a really good friend of mine since 7th grade (currently in 10th)he even broke up with his girlfriend for me. i felt really bad about that bc shes my friend. but i thought he must be pretty serious, bc shes freaking gorgeous. so we talked for a while, and we started dating on Friday. then. the next day my best friend calls me and says that he was gunna break up with me.
wtf?
next thing i know, were not dating and he's into his ex again. i feel so freaking used. and. blah.

what do i do? he was one of my best friends and now i cant think of him like that anymore.
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Q: My cousin met this FINE guy at this party. They clicked instantly & would talk on the phone for hours and laugh. They went to the movies and kissed and held hands. well rite after that she went on vacation for a week. she told him her phone might not work & he still called & left a lot of voicemails. we established that he was "sprung." hehehe... but the bad part is; she kinda used to talk to his year-younger brother, too. she didnt know they were brotheres until after they met. well the little brother 'did her dirty' so they stopped talking. so its been about 2 weeks since the vacation. when she got backed they had a good conversation and he said "oh i'll call you in the morning!" HE NEVER DID. we tried to think of why he hasnt called and i suggested, "maybe he doesnt think that you're that into him because he called you thousands of times?" so she did the same. well, he left her voicemail stating that his mom took his phone and to call the house phoneor cell. she called his cell and left three voicemails and his house phone & talked to his dad because he was at football. N0 CALL... so what do you think happened? why hasn't he called? they were PERFECT for each other but I just don't know about this one!

Q: kay so this guy that i really like and have been hanging out with went to mexico. and like he comes back on wednesday but i really miss him. but also.. im REALLY like EXTREMELY scared that he wont like me when i get back. and im also scared that this one girl will get in the way. what should i do?? like am i just being paranoid or what? please help.

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