my name is jen. i love to shop pretty much like every store. I live for my cell and iPod. i
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My boyfriend broke up with me a few days ago because he said that he didn't have time anymore for a relationship. We had been together for over a year and now he's just quitting on me. He said that he just got a job and he'll be working all summer and stuff. The truth is that we met online, and we've actually made it work for this long. I don't know when we'll meet, but he's everything I really wanted in a guy. I've been endlessly crying every night and unable to sit still when I think about the fact that it's over. I'm still really in love with him and I want him back. I do have a job too now and everything, but I'm homeschooled, so I'll have more time on my hands.
So my question is should I ask him back out, or would it just be being desperate and bugging him?
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Okay, I think its wrong to break up with a girl because hes trying to make money to buy games. I dont know but that sounds like a pretty lame excuse. But if you met him online .. you dont know what he is like in person. Anyone can be a perfect guy on the screen. You dont know his true identity. He mightve met some one in person and doesnt want to tell you. It might be hard getting over him. Hang out with your friends to help keep your mind off him. Who knows maybe you will meet someone in person.
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When me and my boyfriend hook up, I get so caught up in it I forget to breath. I end up pulling away to catch my breath. I dont want him thinking that there's something wrong with him. I just cant seem to remember, you know? How can I fix this, or rather remember that breathing is what keeps you alive and functioning? lol (link)
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Just tell him or if you pull away again and he asks why tell him he will probally slow down ... just remember breathe through your nose
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THere is this boy that I have been friends with since kindergarten and now im in seventh and hes in eighth grade. We have always been really good friends, but now I am really starting to like him in a different way. I think he might also, even though he says he like someone else. But he always asks me who I like and I just say "i dont know" because Im not sure if he really likes me. But we have also gotten alot closer. like Ill lean on him and stuff when we would never do that before. I would really like to date him, but im scared that if I date him now that we wont have a deeper relationship later on in our lives. Im also worried that we would stop being friends when if we break up. I know im only in seventh grade, but ive always dreamed of spending the rest of my life with this guy. Can anyone help me? Ill rate
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It sounds like he likes you. If you have known him for so long, your grade shouldnt matter. Tell him how you feel. If he likes you back, tell him that if you start dating, you dont want to ruin your friendship. A relationship may not last long, but a friendship deffinately will.
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Ok, so I was just on MSN and this guy (grade 11) I really liked asked me(grade 9) to go to the movies. I asked my parents if I could go and they said no because they don't want me to date and he's too old. What can I say to change their minds? I badly badly want to go with him. Plus, i know I can totally trust him because I work for his parents and I met him through work. (link)
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Okay, try to explain to them that age shouldn't matter. He is only like what? two to three years older than you. I bet if you were out of school, the age difference wouldn't matter. All that matters is that you like him and he likes you. But that doesnt mean that your parents shouldn't get to know him. Since you work for his parents, try to get your parents and his parents together.
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ok im really shy around my boyfriends, and i dont know why..but im sick of it.its like i wont do anything not even be close to him. i'll be like on the other side of the room and if i do get close to him i get real nervous and crap...does anyone know how could become un shy around him and not be as nervous? thanks! (link)
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Take a deep breath and relax. Just be comfortable and know that he's not a lion and hes not going to bite you, just remember that you should be able to feel comfortable and be yourself around him at anytime
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hey im 16 and okay so heres my problem...well i have a boyfriend who switched schools and who lives like an hour away so i dont get to see him much but we talk all the time...i love him a lot and i dont plan on doing anything to loose him...but...well before i used to like this other guy and we were like close to going out like we could really tell we liked each other but i never knew what happened but we still talk alot and we're good friends and i think i like him again but this...this is VERY BAD...BECAUSE hes going out with my best friend and they've been together for like 3 months and its bad enough that i already have a boyfriend who i really dont want to lose...now i dont know how my friends boyfriend feels about me and im trying hard not to show that im starting to have feelings for him again...i just need some advice on how to just get over him and put him in the past i really really want to and i'll do anything so please help!
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well i think that you shouldnt try to go anything farther than friends with him, you have a boyfriend, plus he's your best friends boyfriend, that can damage everything you have trying to get with him. you can't help who you like ... it just happens but dont try to go further than friendship.
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Okay well I have a boyfriend and he's great, he gives me great compliments but he never makes a move!, he never gets jelous and it makes me think he doesnt really care and seams like I'm nothing special when he's around me, but then theres this other guy my exboyfriend, he's great, nice, sweet, thoughtful and he would do anything for me but the only problem about it is he's not that exciting and it makes it no fun sometimes...could someone please give me some advice on what to do its been bothering me for a week and I dont want to hur either of them thanks (link)
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It sounds like your in that relationship just to be in it. If theres nothing going on and your not happy, break up with him. If you have any doubts of leaving him, at least talk to him, maybe hes nervous or something
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I was just out for a walk to the nearest grocery store to pick up some stocking stuffers. I ran into my ex bf. He was walking towards me. I smiled at him and he looked right at me and didnt smile or even say hi. He kind of looked uncomftable.
My feelings were a little hurt because even though we broke up 5 years ago I still consider him to have been a big part of my life, he was my first bf and we spent a year together. I lost my virginity to him. I was the one that ended the relationship and at the time he was choked, but that was so long ago. I figured he would have moved on like I have.
Do you think his reaction meant he still has feelings for me? And why do you think he acted the way he did? (link)
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He probally still has feelings for you. Losing your virginity to someone then getting dummped probally hurts alot. Start talking to him again maybe you guys can hang out again so you can be on good terms with your ex
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Ok I have been going out with my girlfriend for a little over a month. a couple days ago i was hanging out with one of my female friends and she pretty randomly kissed me. i pushed her off of me almost imediately, and we talked about it afterwards and were ok with it now and are still friends. here is where it gets a little more complicated. this is a girl that i used to have very deep feelinfs for. i wouldnt quite call it love, but it was close. i never told her, because she was for various reasons unavailable and i got over her. then i met my current gf and fell for her. now my gf knows that i used to like this girl, and she was ok with me being friends with her. now my worry is if i tell her what happened shell be uncomfortable. i know she would never try and forbid me from handing out with her, because she is one of my best friends, but i know it would make her feel uncomfortable. now because of an age difference (my gf is a little older than me and my friend is a bit younger) they will most likely never meet on their own so my gf would probably never find out. so my question is, should i tell her? (link)
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Yes. If you really like her, then you would tell her. She should understand and maybe be happy that you pushed her away immediately and told her the honest truth
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hey im in 7th grade and so i was going out with a girl for like 3 weeks until today becaues i broke up with her and, well today i just found out that she thought i just liked her cause of her looks. and now im all pissed off and i want to get back with her.so today at lunch i go up to her and try to talk to her and she simply just walks away with her big group of friends. but like a week ago we were like makin out so im like confused? yea so if u could help me ill rate you a 5 even its retarded cause i think i am haha (link)
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well the reason why she wont talk to you is you pretty much used her. that probally hurt her a lot so she wont even bother looking at you. try to say im sorry and talk to her ... idk if she will accept it for what you did to her but you can try
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Ok..i like this guy we have been dating for like 2 months, today in fact, but i like this other guy..plus my boyfriend keeps talking to his ex-girlfriends, he says he likes me but i cant help thinking that somethings going on....so should i just leave him and go with another guy or should i stay with him, honestly i think someones going to get hurt either way. (link)
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let him go. if you have any doubts about your relationship, leave it before you get hurt. I dont think its fair to be in a relationship with someone and like another person.
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alrite. so me and one of my ex's broke up the past may well he is like the love of my life. i love him so much. well my parents hate him and we are still friends and everything and now people are like oh yall should get bcak together ya know but my parents hate him and so i can't see that happening. we didn't break up for a bad reason. there was actually no real reason but he some how knows when i get a new bf because he doesn't want me with anybody bc he doesn't want me to fall in love with anyone else. its crazy like i have no clue what to do. so hmm what should i do..i don't really even know what im asking im just confused.
also the other day he stopped by and i gave him this huge hug and he kept kissing my head and then i just looked up and kissed him. i missed it so much that i just like had to. well it just brought back soo many memories and i miss them so much. do you think it was wrong that i kissed him?
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lucky. thats sooo adorable ! well I think if you guys care for each other so much, get back together theres no use waiting around knowing you can have something. As for your parents, try to show them the good qualities, explain to them that its not fair for you that they hate him. They should understand
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Ok, so I have this one guy friend, who I happen to like. But, he really really likes another girl. And I'm fine with that, but the problem is that this girl only likes him as a friend. Like at the dance they were dates and she was dancing with another guy...and i saw her grab him. And he looked really sad, so i got to dance with him. But out of the corner of his eye i could see he was watching her the whole time and I could tell he was sad. To me it kinda seems like a love triangle. I like him. He likes her. She likes someone else. Does anyone have any ideas of what to do?
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Tell him your feelings. Maybe he will realize that him and that girl werent ment to be and see something thats great right there.
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hey, i really need help finding a gift for my bf. we've been going out for 3 months, and this is my first real relationship so ive never done this before. i know from his friend that hes getting me glass ornaments that he made, but i have no idea if hes getting me anything else or not. got any suggestions? thanks so much, i rate (link)
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Get him his favorite move, cd, video game or cologne. If your still not sure, ask his friends. They will prob know
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